How does intense gazing or prolonged eye contact effect men?

[Anonymous]

How does intense gazing or a prolonged eye contact effect men? Do they feel creeped out or mesmerized? Do they feel the same affects as women?

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Guys please tell me how does prolonged eye contact effect you?

[Applefan1]

If a woman does that with a blank look on her face she confuses me shit out of me and because I have been treated badly and like I am the scum of the earth by so many women I think the worst of the her when she looks at me like that. If she scowls or frowns at me I am pissed off because I find that rude and hurtful but if she smiles at me I take it as a compliment.

[Asker]

Don't let such people get you down. Believe in yourself and be confident then soon enough you will meet the right person. :)

[Applefan1]

I hope your right :) That it will happen one day. I have never had a girlfriend, ever. :( Only girls treating me badly mostly.

[Asker]

Girls like confident guys. Once you show girls that you are confident, girls will be asking you out themselves. Eye contact does help a lot but don't over do it, it will get creepy :)

[Applefan1]

I can't do eye contact, many times even when I just glance I get a nasty scowl or frown back from girls. How can a guy be confident when girls just abuse him all the time?

[Asker]

When a stranger makes eye contact with me and I'm not interested I would simply look away, I don't understand Why they frown at you.

[Applefan1]

Because I am ugly

[Applefan1]

This is why I give up pretty much on girls :( Sadly I am still attracted to girls but very few notice me and are attracted to me. :(

[Asker]

Awww :(

[Applefan1]

Yep nice, kind and caring guys are not likely pretty much only used and treated like shit. That is how I feel sorry.

[Asker]

Maybe you are going for the wrong type of girls?
Find a girl you have things in common with and is a nice girl.
looks mean nothing if there is no personality.

[Applefan1]

That is what I think "looks mean nothing if there is not a good personality". I have come across so many girls that are attractive but have a bad personality and because of that make themselves unattractive.

[Asker]

True :)

[Applefan1]

I think I have decided what I am going to do, even though I don't really want to.

[mistninja314]

It doesn't affect me tbh nor is it annoying. More times than not, I'll even make friends with that girl etci1127.photobucket.com/.../...om-add-text%202_2.gif

[Asker]

Thats great :)

[mistninja314]

That makes everything so much easier ya know when a girl is eye fucking me, because it's a good chance that she likes what she sees and is looking for any way to break the ice between us... I happily break it every time via doing this or that etc (Make it up on the spot)

[Asker]

What if her stare is with a blank face?

[mistninja314]

Cool Imma put a SMILE on it with next to no problems if she has even a small sense of humor

[Asker]

Cool :)

[mistninja314]

(-_^#)

[Anonymous]

I have the same question as you. This guy around my college and I would share intense eye contact all the time. He never smiled and never approached me, he would just stare as if he was mesmerized.

[Asker]

Yes It will be nice to have an idea of how an intense gaze effects men. :)

[Pmnm-325]

Are you African American by any chance?

[Asker]

No, are you?

[Asker]

Oh sorry I thought you were the girl who commented, asking me if I was African American. .
I just realized who you are.

[GymBumGuy]

if a guy is interested in you then your prolonged eye contact will be welcomed if he's not interested in you he prb won't make eye contact anyway however even if he is it still interested it may get awkward if one of you does not make a move and i don't know about every guy but when i look a girl in the eyes it does make me mesmerized and it makes me fall in love with her but it also depends on how she looks at me

[Asker]

What types of looks are there?

[GymBumGuy]

best way i can describe it is kind of cute soft stare like a bashful look

[Asker]

Mine was a blank stare. I was actually watching him speak when he looked at me and locked eyes with me for a long time, maybe about 8 to 10 seconds. I think I became too mesmerized to smile lol.

What would you have made of such a situation?

[GymBumGuy]

was he talking to you or someone else and where were you standing when he was looking at you

[Asker]

I was standing on his right side to where he was standing and facing, a few feet away.
He had stopped talking and was listening to the other person. I saw him turn his head and look straight at me. Saw me looking at him and locked eyes with me.

[GymBumGuy]

if it was 8-10 sec man that sounds like a world rerecord for a lot of people i have a hard time looking at a girl i like for 3-5 sec lol it gets awkward but i mean if your both doing it i don't think its a bad thing he was prb thinking and feeling the same way you do

[GymBumGuy]

i guess this is relevant did you know the guy and for how long if you did?

[Asker]

Lol it could have been 5/6 seconds but it felt very long.

[Pmnm-325]

I don't know I guess it depends lol I seen this girl in my college and she always looks at me but she has a face like she looks at me with a bitch face. I don't know if she's mad at me or what but I just don't have the balls to go up n talk cause what If she is mad at me lol

[Asker]

If she is frowning at you then just don't bother even looking at her. :)

[Pmnm-325]

Not frowning she just has that blank face but her eyebrows n eyes pierces me I don't know I think she has a resting bitch face but she's so fucking hot!

[Asker]

Then in my opinion I think she wants you lol.
Some girls will just never approach a guy, they will send you signs of interest and wait till you approach them.
I think she is waiting for you to get the hint and talk to her. :)

[Pmnm-325]

Maybe I kinda want to but she's always with her friends and that's kinda tough but If I ever find her alone then I'll try n talk to her lol and thanks

[Asker]

You're welcome and good luck :)

[Pmnm-325]

Thanks and it's funny how I answered to ur question and u ended up answering mine lol XD

[Asker]

Hahaha I was thinking the same lol

[Tyson725]

If the guy likes you he will be intimidated but happy, If he doesn't like you, he will be severely creeped out.

[Asker]

Thanks :)

[Chris011]

Honestly? It is great. When a girl and I are talking, and we both look at each other in the eyes in a flirty manner and hold the gaze for a prolong period of time, it is a complete turn on.

[Asker]

Thanks for you feedback :)

[Phoenix98]

I'd probably stare back play the game for a bit and see were it goes.

[Asker]

But how will it make you feel?

[Phoenix98]

Probably nothing, boredom or curiosity, possibly attraction.

[Asker]

Oh ok.

[Ihav2fart]

It doesn't do anything. Id just stare back until YOU feel awkward

[Asker]

Even if you found that girl very attractive, it won't effect you?

[Ihav2fart]

I wouldve been staring and got lost staring long ago

[Asker]

Would you feel mesmerized or would she get stuck in you head?

[Ihav2fart]

mesmerized

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[Asker]

But what if she was staring with a blank face?

[Ihav2fart]

doubt it cause i have a resting bitch face.

[Prof_Don]

I find it rather mesmerizing. :)

[Asker]

Does prolonged eye contact happen often with you or is it rare?

[Prof_Don]

It happen on occasion... most of the time I get a "quick glance with a smile" than a prolonged eye fuck. ;-)

[Asker]

What if she just gazed with a blank face, what would you do? How would it make you feel?

[Prof_Don]

I'd just think her eyes were scanning the room and ironically caught my eye contact

[Asker]

Cool :)