I have never had any kind of training on massage, but I know what feels good to me and I have massaged many people in my life and they all liked them. In some cases they asked me specifically to give them a massage.
Based on everybody I know enjoying them, I would have to say that either your givers were poor or you are weird in that way.
Well I'm pretty sure your mom has no clue what she wss doing, the guy was probably pretending to know so he could get something else, and the professional maybe had a different style; there are several types of massages.
lol I hate them too. I hate the squeezing feeling of my skin and people just won't f off when you tell them you don't like them, they always think they can do it better than the last person who tried and they all suck to me lol
I fuckin' hate it!
not forgetting the fact that I hate physical contact -_-
and usually after getting one I get even more sore.
I am too bony and skinny for this shit, I ll pass
It doesn't matter if everyone else likes them. You don't! Maybe you don't like other people touching you and the whole thing is overrated?
Opinion
24Opinion
Unbelievable but the answer is C... never received any!
But why would it be weird... some people like to go to a sauna, whereas it would take a tiger to chase me into one :-(
But let me go on a 3 hour walk and I'm happy... some people would find me crazy for it but it's so relaxing to be in nature for a few hours :D
You aren't the only one, but clearly people are doing it wrong or you have some serious trust-issues. Considering your mom did it as well I would assume they were doing it wrong. Chances are they were too rough on your and lacking empathy to pick up on it.
Sadly good at giving them, have not had a good massage myself in awhile tho... kinda sucks now that I think about it. That said the heck's wrong witchu massages are awesome when done right. :P
Never had one and honestly ain't looking forward to one either.
Do you dislike kind hearted messages? Do you dislike offline messages? Or simply not like talking at all?
If it was a happy ending massage you would like it then! baha
No you're not weird. I hate them too! I am just very very ticklish and whenever someone touches me i burst into laughter or try to shake them away. So i don't like em.
I love them so much... for me its a best way of relax.. but i understand if u dont, we all have preferences
What about if a guy softly rubbed your back affectionately like while you were snuggling or something?
for me it depends on the person doing it
some apply the right pressure and some don't
Are you crazy? I dream of the day that I will receive a massage from my boyfriend. If it will end up being PG rated or R rated, that I don't know... lol xD
They can be nice for me, but depends on the person doing it.
You're a girl you have to tell the professionals how much pressure to use. I think most women do "swedish" because it's the lightest. Don't do deep tissue.
They just aren't your thing that's all. You might be in the minority but not weird.
Don't love them or hate them it's just something more to do on here
Omg I hate them. When I was having my hair done once the guy asked if I'd like to have a head massage to go with it, it was really awkward and I didn't like the feeling at all
If they are done right they are amazing. The happy ending is the best part. Maybe that's the issue, maybe you've just never had a happy ending massage.
Nope, you're not the only one, I dislike massages too :)
i used to afraid of them i still am i freak out when people touch me in general
I had a massage once and this girl's hands were huge. The massage was not pleasing, maybe she was not that well trained to pleasure me. Lol. And I just hate the smell of the oil after massage. Another hand here.
1 private opinion(s)Only the asker and the opinion owner can see it. Learn more
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions