He want to buy me a cell phone is this ok?

[kathii17]

i been dating my boyfriend for like almost 2 month and he told me yesterday that he want to buy me a cell phone , because I don't have 1 and he want to be able to talk to me wen ever he to so I don't have to be using other people phone or calling other people phone to talk to me. I will like him to buy it but the problem is is that a good thing or bad and is there consequences on this would he want to have more control over me or what I need help before he give me the cell phone.

[loveishard]

ok if you know a lot about him than I say its ok but if you don't than don't take it and if her really likes you than he will understand. if you don't want to take the phone than don't . just tell him that you don't think you want it because you don't want him to pay 4 it or anything like that. just follow your gut instincts.

[Shiner4]

Personally I would feel very uncomfortable if I had a boyfriend that bought me a cell phone. Its def a sweet thought, but youve only been dating for two months and you don't have to call each other all the time.

[gravygirl]

Yeah, that seems okay, most people have a cell phone. Assuming there's nothing else weird or controlling going on, then I see nothing wrong with him wanting to be able to reach you.

[quinnfitz1121]

yeah. that's something you have to get for yourself. There's a contract that goes with it, and I doubt if something happens he's gonna wanna be stuck with a 2 year obligation. Maybe if you were engaged and/ or been dating for 2+ years it would be ok.

[cooldude]

Ya I would tell him that you don't want a cell phone, just hand out with him

[doodie6]

i say buy your own cell phone. it gives you more independence so there's no way he try might control you because of it. you'll never know.