How can I stop comparing myself to the hot girls?

[Anonymous]

I have recently seen a movie with Margot Robbie and since then I became very insecure because she's just really beautiful and I think that even with plastic surgery I would not look that good. Everytime I watch something on youtube with her all the people in the comments are like 'omg, hottest woman on earth', 'omg, she's from heaven' etc. I know it's stupid but I get very jealous and I envy her very much. And as if it wasn't enough, i have a girl in my class which looks very similar to her and I can't stop feeling inferior everytime I'm around her.
I know someone is going to say that I shouldn't compare myself to a celebrity because they have lots of money and they spend them to make themselves look hot and bla bla. But there are still girls who aren't celebrities and look like that, like the girl that I mentioned before.
I'm not ulgy but even if I get compliments they are like 'cute' or 'sweet' and I would just like to be seen as hot. How can I stop feeling like this because honestly it's very consuming.

[BarbieLola]

The reason people thinks she’s so hot is because other people say she’s hot, people don’t think for themselves. One day it will be Margo Robbie next day it will be someone who looks someone completely different. She has a platform and gets a lot of attention and compliments from that / she also is super rich and anyone with as much money as she have is bound to look good - think of kylie Jenner and Bella Hadid - their money made their appearance. Also if you go under the video of a lot of stars it will say “most beautiful person” because people wouldn’t click if they didn’t already have a interest - but trust me, lots of people see her as just “meh” (as lots of people think of me and probably you - you and me sound v similar tho Bc I do the same thing. We shouldn’t be made to feel ugly tho just Bc some people in media hype her features up and not mine or yours ( : -

[ragequeen]

Accept the differences. Of course every woman wants to be hot. I used to be very envious over good looking women, now I'm just like "wow, they are so pretty, good for them" and this attitude makes you automatically more attractive, trust me!

[LionBill]

See everyone always says not to compare yourself to others, especially in art. But I think you should compare yourself to others, see the exact differences between you and the thing you think is amazing, and then think about what you can change.

However dont let it hang over you. At the end of the day, you are you and Margot Robbie is Margrot. One of the things that makes Maggie attractive is she is herself and she rocks it.

You should rock being you. Own it. If your struggling to flaunt your good bits though, you could think what Ms Robbie would do if she had your body. She wouldn't kill herself, she'd where clothes that suit the frame and have a positive atmosphere about it.

[aikonwin]

Dont compare yourself with the ones who is better than you but compare yourself with the one who are not as good as you, uglier than you or physically challenged and then you will thank the almighty for giving you such a beautiful face, perfect body and lovely eyes to see its creation and not to get jealous but to be thankful for what he has given you.
Not everyone can be Einstein, not everyone​ can be margot robbie and not everyone can be you. Be unique be yourself and love yourself as you are.

[AM-205]

I've heard and believe that models do a LOT of work. They have anti-stretch things smoothing the skin, tons of makeup, pushup bras, belly sucker-thingys... it's unreal. But YOU... you're natural. Look in the mirror, and see that you were born the way you are now. If you're not really happy with it, try calisthenics, or dancing. My Mom is in her 40's, and dances, and she's in shockingly amazing shape. Or pretty-wise... I'll bet you kill.

[Logorithim]

The best way to get complimented as "hot" is to get a boyfriend that finds you hot. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder- not everyone will find a given woman attractive, so worrying about that is just ridiculous.

[random56286]

Your beauty is partially a result of your facial features but your attitude and expression are what make you truly beautiful. A good smile will take you up one or two points on a scale of 10

[KurdishPower]

It's in your nature. Stop seeking external validation and start doing things to make you validate yourself. Or just become some narcisstic sh*t who feels she's the best

[KurdishPower]

Or go to the gym and work your lowerbody till they're jealous of you

[thermite]

try comparing yourself to your former self instead of others, just think about how much better you are than before

[Anonymous]

Perfect makeup and lighting have a lot to do with her looks, if you saw her without that she would look rather normal.

[greNader]

Become blind