I Can't Seem To Stop Acting Awkward Around Hot Women, any advice on how to be myself around them?

[CaptainConscience]

I see a beautiful girl and don't know where to look. I sometimes stare but in a ditch attempt now to not do it, I now look away almost immediately. Either way, it just makes me act strange and I can't be myself. How do I stop this?

I've read about picturing them having raging diarrhoea and about exposure therapy (so talk to as many good looking women as possible) but not sure if they sound like they'd work, any other advice?

Thanks!

[SoIcyGang]

It's all insecurity. The way to change it is to cease to care what they think about you.

The nice thing about it, is once you stop caring, you finally become a normal person and you become 10x more attractive to women.

Literally you can say and do anything! It's not what you say it's not what you do!

It's more like "energy." It's social skills really. You have to build up the skill of not giving a fuck and expressing your real self in the moments of interaction.

Once you can do that you can talk to literally any woman on planet earth without a problem!

Might take some work. Some men are lucky to have never had to overcome this struggle. But I did it and it's not easy.

When you have social anxiety it's hard to make it go away. And for us guys, social anxiety around women is the ultimate test.

All I can say is that I love women and they're fun and sweet and not scary at all.

It kind of sucks. Women don't need to fix themselves like this in order to become attractive to us men. We don't give a fuck if a girl is shy and awkward.

Most probably don't care much that you're that way too. But it takes you off the table for fuckability. Some women need to know that you're going to take control in the bedroom and they don't believe an awkward guy is capable of that.

[CaptainConscience]

Great answer and some things rang true for me in what you said. I have got a bit of social anxiety and have been single quite a while too. Gonna try not giving a fuck.

[nolabels]

The next time that happens, if possible, go beat your meat to completion and then some, until it's about to fall off, and then return to the location of the "hot" woman.

I'm betting that you'll then behave differently.

Pay attention to how you behave differently. Use those skills in the future.

The time will come when there will no longer be a need to masturbate to clear the mind in the presence of someone you find to be desirable.

[normalice]

You are awkward around unattractive women who you had no reason to talk to but wanted to bang, too. The reason awkwardness around hot women stands out so much is because the desire to bang is more pronounced so you are analyzing your own demeanor more closely. You'll find it is the same demeanor around unattractive strangers but the instinct to make some interaction happen just isn't there..

[LiamJHayden]

Might sounds crude, but just realize that their sh*t stinks like everyone else's.

[CaptainConscience]

I did say that I've tried that in the question itself. Doesn't really work as everybody knows their shit stinks and they've also had their head over the toilet vomiting I guess at some stage in their life too lol!

[Iron_Man]

Don’t you have experience being around a woman

[CaptainConscience]

Yeah but been single quite a while. Not sure why it happens, it just does. Only with hot women.

[Iron_Man]

Just handle it

[CaptainConscience]

It's not about handling it. That isn't the problem. I was just after advice on how to maybe fix it.

[Iron_Man]

Go from past experience

[Avicenna]

Just imagine her as your partner