I've never had any problem dating guys and I am 5'9" or guys being attracted to me - usually I wished they would leave me alone. Are you sure its the height and not something else?
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A combination of the height and other stuff but my height does intimidate people it's something I've noticed.
I don't think it's your height at all (I read below you are 6'0"). When you are insecure, it shows to guys. Work on your confidence level all the way around and you will see a big difference on how they treat you. Just remember this, models are usually tall, they get attention all the time. However, they also act like they own the world because they are confident in who they are. Confidence in yourself is really important.
Dont' concentrate on what you see, concentrate on who you are. If a guy sess a happy girl who knows how to have a good time, that will catch their attention.
I doubt you are unattractive all the way around. Every single female has a good quality and feature about them. You may not realize what it is. Being conident is when you are happy with who you are and you don't care what others think. You choose to live by your rules and you don't let anyone bring you down. Being confident isn't about being attractive, it's about being happy and knowing who you are. Read this link when you have time, I agree with most of what is written:
You are tall but trust me when I say you'll find some good looking guy of eastern European descent who's like 6'6" and broad as an oak and he will love every inch of you
The man who finds you will be sexually and emotionally driven insane by a 6', long legged woman. I personally am conflicted I like shorter women but love a pair of long legs.
Well thanks but it's kind of sad that so many men prefer short women. i still won't stop feeling like shit about it, but I have to just accept it I guess.
I should say short women are drawn to me because I'm 6'4" and broad shouldered so I feed off that energy but I prefer a woman right around that 5'9" to 6'. Like I said there is some 6'9" oak tree of a man who just needs to spend the rest of his life with a tall woman such as yourself. I have a friend whose mother is taller than his dad by like 8 inches and they've been married almost 30 years so maybe your sexy hunk of man meat is like 5'4" and looking for you.
They aren’t. Short guys are just ashamed of being short so they try and make it seem short girls are all guys want, when in reality, tall guys typically like tall girls
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I don't know where you got that, since most tall guys like short girls.
You just need to find a man who is confident in himself and his masculinity. If he is, he won’t mind a tall women. A lot of tall men and even short men thing tall women are absolutely beautiful and look like goddesses but they are afraid because they don’t want to feel imasculine. Trust me on this. I have a ton of close guy friends who talk about these things. You need to find yourself a man who won’t care if you’re tall or not. My sister is 6’3 and she found a man who is 6’9 haha
There are very few men who don't care about height though. i mean even subconsciously. studies have shown that men like shorter women. there was even an article explaining why short women are more attractive. ill post the link.
Hey girly, even if that is true, don’t worry yourself about it. There is always someone out there for everyone, usually many people out there for someone. You’ll find someone, just don’t rush it okay? It takes time. And just because someone may have it easier than you doesn’t mean you should be upset. Having a bit of a challenge in life is healthy. I wish you the best of luck. I’m not quite as tall as you, I’m 5’9 but most of the women in my family are taller than me, all around 6’0-6’3 and they all have amazing boyfriends/husband. Keep your head up. I’ll check out the article
Thanks for the kind words. but I just quit on dating and the whole there's someone out there for everyone because that means the Guys I like probably don't like me back even tho my standards aren't that high or something. I just kind of gave up on finding love or whatever and decided to focus on other things. I don't know why I still feel bad about being tall though, I guess cus it feels masculine and big and weird looking. I don't know how to explain it but it just feels weird.
There's nothing wrong with being tall, even most models are pretty tall. I think you may be self-conscious and the guys who said that are lame.
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Well not many people are attracted to models. at least not runway models, because of being tall they have weird bone structure and big feet, big hands etc but short girls are cuter and have a smaller body and hands feet etc. And wow then many guys in this world are insecure because it seems like they almost always go for shorter women. its just that short is more attractive I guess
I don't know, maybe I'm in the small minority here but I find tall girls really attractive. I'm like 5'5 so I'm pretty short compare to most dudes but I would love to meet a tall gurl in real life.
My take is two-pronged: 1) The guys figure you have a big pussy. 2) They want a woman who's shorter than them (which is the historical norm). An aside to this is that he's dominant, so doesn't want a taller woman.
@RizenFenix89 Oh, you wanna go there. Well, I hate to burst your bubble, but most big guys are big (down there), on average, and most big women are big down there, in one way or another, too.
Tall women are not unattractive at all, but it makes me feel emasculated to stand next to a girl taller than me. This is why I have difficulty dating taller women, or just dating at all because at 5'7" I'm shorter than a lot of women.
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You're also taller than a lot of women, I understand that many women want 6'0+ guys (which is ridiculous to me) but you will find someone one day. But why does it make you feel emasculated? something as irrelevant as height shouldn't do that..
It's just an innate feeling that you cannot explain. Much like how plenty of women say that they want a taller man because it makes them feel protected even though that is actually pretty irrelevant as most of the strongest people tend to be on the shorter side. It is what it is.
Naaah height looks dominating and unfortunately due to our great movies and society we have grown up like this. But you will be cute for tall guys or same height. For me a girl is cuter if she is close to my chest not to my stomach.
Honestly no matter now mature a guy is he will still consider looks first. even girls do this too. its human nature to be physically attracted to someone first then their personality is what keeps them.
Thats true too priorities right. But I know a guy who is hot and he liked a girl who is not and lot of examples. I believe god created people hot and not for some reason. Some needs to put effort and some doesn't like most of things in life as its not fair.
I'm 4'9" and it feels like a curse. My family always complains about my height and say that tall girls are so much more attractive and beautiful. Dresses would look so much better on you.
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Naah dresses look like shit on me but mainly because of my bone structure not my tallness. Also the end is always too short on me. i look huge all the time and tall girls are definitely not attractive as short girls. like so many guys are attracted to short girls and feel emasculated by tall women. Plus if you don't mind wearing heels wear 4-5' heels to be 5'1-5'2 if you want to be a little taller. but honestly you don't need heels , you're probably really cute with your height and your family is giving you a hard time. If I could trade with you being 6'0 ft I totally would. Though the ideal for me was to stop at 5'3 but oh well whatever. i got what I got...
Don't say that! You're one of a kind, and someday you'll find the perfect guy. I'd also love to be taller, but then I can't grow anymore. There are a lot of guys who still prefer taller girls, so don't worry about it. If you have problem with dresses, maybe try getting a custom made dress that would look perfect on you. You could also wear jeans and a nice top that would look good on you too.
Lol jeans give away the fact that I have disproportionate legs but I love jeans so I won't stop wearing them I guess. and I have gotten custom made dresses but they always have an issue with them but oh well. And thanks for everything you said but I doubt I'll find anyone, kind of gave up on that. As much as there are guys who like tall girls there are double that number who like short girls so you shouldn't feel your height is an issue.
Well, looks like clothes are a common problem for both tall and short people. Don't give up hope, you never know what's gonna happen next. There are guys out there who are taller than 6' and they'd definitely prefer a taller girl. Anyways, try drawing more attention to your face, and you seem to be a really nice person so anyone would like you! 👍
I know how it feels All of your female friends are around 5'6 and above? Don't feel as if you aren't beautiful. Facial beauty is another thing and does not depend on the height. Are you skinny?
I am a male and am 5'1 I am worse than you. Because am a man. Your 5'5 + friends would hate me as well and won't even talk to me... at least you don't have it that bad What's your weight?
seriously? lol. i'd love to be tall and have loooong legs. sigh.
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Long legs are lanky sometimes. And tall girls mostly have an inverted triangle shaped body which is so unattractive. and also you can wear heels and be tall and have nice legs then take them off and be short again. i bet you're cute and your height is nice. How tall are you?
i have a lot of tall friends and they look... amazing. and they wear heels anyway lol. their height doesn't stop them. i'm 5 ft and it sucks. i always have to buy jeans for extra short people or pay to get them tailored. it's annoying. and i'm not a huge fan of wearing heels so... i'm just short most of the time. and i can't wear those long dresses because the bottom gets ruined. it's a fail. lol.
Well long dresses on me look like midi dress and are always a bit shorter. plus jeans also look shorter on me and I have to order them extra tall or have to compromise and look heavier by getting a bigger size jeans so they can be taller on my legs. And I would love to be your height. believe me you wouldn't want to be 6'0 . And I don't like wearing heels either but it doesn't help me look any shorter lol since I'm huge... And I can't get away with wearing shorter things for some things I always got dress coded. and I'm more noticeable and people remember me more because I stand out more. I have ugly big feet and big hands. being a tall woman has no advantages. my proportions are also off because of it. everything sucks.
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Probably because they always have been exposed to the movie relationships where the guy is much taller than the girl. My Genaration had the original Saved by the Bell. Kelly was short dating Zack, AC Slater dated Jessy. She was tall.
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I'm 6'8 and that short feels awkward. I think a 6 feet girlfriend would be fun. the tip toe kiss.
Any other tall girl wants? Tip toe kiss, pinning back legs pick up into wall fun time, or anything else envy you want from a tall guy like me.
I've never had any problem dating guys and I am 5'9" or guys being attracted to me - usually I wished they would leave me alone. Are you sure its the height and not something else?
A combination of the height and other stuff but my height does intimidate people it's something I've noticed.
How tall are you? I had a female friend 5'11" and she never had any issues either.
I don't think it's your height at all (I read below you are 6'0"). When you are insecure, it shows to guys. Work on your confidence level all the way around and you will see a big difference on how they treat you. Just remember this, models are usually tall, they get attention all the time. However, they also act like they own the world because they are confident in who they are. Confidence in yourself is really important.
I'm 6'0 ft tall. all I see most of the time is a taller guy and shorter girl relationship and so I don't know..
Isn't it possible that you and your friend are just attractive regardless of your height? Maybe that's why.
Dont' concentrate on what you see, concentrate on who you are. If a guy sess a happy girl who knows how to have a good time, that will catch their attention.
What is there to be confident about though when I'm unattractive all around?
I doubt you are unattractive all the way around. Every single female has a good quality and feature about them. You may not realize what it is. Being conident is when you are happy with who you are and you don't care what others think. You choose to live by your rules and you don't let anyone bring you down. Being confident isn't about being attractive, it's about being happy and knowing who you are.
Read this link when you have time, I agree with most of what is written:
www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...women_b_5799710.html
Did short guys like you as well?
@guyuser2 yes and dated a few as well. The age, height and race never mattered on who flirted with me and tried to c9me onto me.
As if you would be equally attracted to a 5'1 man?🤔
Dominance the taller you are the more a guy naturally feel threatened
Well what am I supposed to do about that to be seen as less dominant?
How tall are you?
6'0 ft tall
You are tall but trust me when I say you'll find some good looking guy of eastern European descent who's like 6'6" and broad as an oak and he will love every inch of you
What if he wants a better looking or shorter girl? lol then that would be an issue too..
The man who finds you will be sexually and emotionally driven insane by a 6', long legged woman. I personally am conflicted I like shorter women but love a pair of long legs.
Well thanks but it's kind of sad that so many men prefer short women. i still won't stop feeling like shit about it, but I have to just accept it I guess.
I should say short women are drawn to me because I'm 6'4" and broad shouldered so I feed off that energy but I prefer a woman right around that 5'9" to 6'. Like I said there is some 6'9" oak tree of a man who just needs to spend the rest of his life with a tall woman such as yourself. I have a friend whose mother is taller than his dad by like 8 inches and they've been married almost 30 years so maybe your sexy hunk of man meat is like 5'4" and looking for you.
They aren’t. Short guys are just ashamed of being short so they try and make it seem short girls are all guys want, when in reality, tall guys typically like tall girls
I don't know where you got that, since most tall guys like short girls.
You just need to find a man who is confident in himself and his masculinity. If he is, he won’t mind a tall women. A lot of tall men and even short men thing tall women are absolutely beautiful and look like goddesses but they are afraid because they don’t want to feel imasculine. Trust me on this. I have a ton of close guy friends who talk about these things. You need to find yourself a man who won’t care if you’re tall or not. My sister is 6’3 and she found a man who is 6’9 haha
There are very few men who don't care about height though. i mean even subconsciously. studies have shown that men like shorter women. there was even an article explaining why short women are more attractive. ill post the link.
https/://pandagossips. com/posts/203
I put a / after https since I can't post links.
Hey girly, even if that is true, don’t worry yourself about it. There is always someone out there for everyone, usually many people out there for someone. You’ll find someone, just don’t rush it okay? It takes time. And just because someone may have it easier than you doesn’t mean you should be upset. Having a bit of a challenge in life is healthy. I wish you the best of luck. I’m not quite as tall as you, I’m 5’9 but most of the women in my family are taller than me, all around 6’0-6’3 and they all have amazing boyfriends/husband. Keep your head up. I’ll check out the article
Thanks for the kind words. but I just quit on dating and the whole there's someone out there for everyone because that means the Guys I like probably don't like me back even tho my standards aren't that high or something.
I just kind of gave up on finding love or whatever and decided to focus on other things. I don't know why I still feel bad about being tall though, I guess cus it feels masculine and big and weird looking. I don't know how to explain it but it just feels weird.
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Short guys are shy , feel inferior and insecure
There's nothing wrong with being tall, even most models are pretty tall. I think you may be self-conscious and the guys who said that are lame.
Well not many people are attracted to models. at least not runway models, because of being tall they have weird bone structure and big feet, big hands etc but short girls are cuter and have a smaller body and hands feet etc.
And wow then many guys in this world are insecure because it seems like they almost always go for shorter women. its just that short is more attractive I guess
I don't know, maybe I'm in the small minority here but I find tall girls really attractive. I'm like 5'5 so I'm pretty short compare to most dudes but I would love to meet a tall gurl in real life.
My take is two-pronged:
1) The guys figure you have a big pussy.
2) They want a woman who's shorter than them (which is the historical norm). An aside to this is that he's dominant, so doesn't want a taller woman.
In my entire life I've never looked at a tall girl and wondered how large her vagina was but more I'd love to have those long legs on my shoulders
@RizenFenix89
Seems you're a leg man, and I'm a pussy man, huh? It's all good.
Yes but still being tall doesn't mean your hung like a bear any more than it means a woman has a large vagina
@RizenFenix89
Oh, you wanna go there. Well, I hate to burst your bubble, but most big guys are big (down there), on average, and most big women are big down there, in one way or another, too.
Tall women are not unattractive at all, but it makes me feel emasculated to stand next to a girl taller than me. This is why I have difficulty dating taller women, or just dating at all because at 5'7" I'm shorter than a lot of women.
You're also taller than a lot of women, I understand that many women want 6'0+ guys (which is ridiculous to me) but you will find someone one day.
But why does it make you feel emasculated? something as irrelevant as height shouldn't do that..
It's just an innate feeling that you cannot explain. Much like how plenty of women say that they want a taller man because it makes them feel protected even though that is actually pretty irrelevant as most of the strongest people tend to be on the shorter side. It is what it is.
Naaah height looks dominating and unfortunately due to our great movies and society we have grown up like this. But you will be cute for tall guys or same height. For me a girl is cuter if she is close to my chest not to my stomach.
Tall guys mostly like short girls..
Depends on personality if someone like being dominated or being equal to. I am not judging but sometimes its ture
Yeah I guess it's because it's more female like to be short and more dominating and masculine to be tall
But its immaturish for a guy to like someone on height and mature guys look for personality.
Honestly no matter now mature a guy is he will still consider looks first. even girls do this too. its human nature to be physically attracted to someone first then their personality is what keeps them.
Thats true too priorities right. But I know a guy who is hot and he liked a girl who is not and lot of examples. I believe god created people hot and not for some reason. Some needs to put effort and some doesn't like most of things in life as its not fair.
I'm 4'9" and it feels like a curse. My family always complains about my height and say that tall girls are so much more attractive and beautiful. Dresses would look so much better on you.
Naah dresses look like shit on me but mainly because of my bone structure not my tallness. Also the end is always too short on me. i look huge all the time and tall girls are definitely not attractive as short girls. like so many guys are attracted to short girls and feel emasculated by tall women. Plus if you don't mind wearing heels wear 4-5' heels to be 5'1-5'2 if you want to be a little taller. but honestly you don't need heels , you're probably really cute with your height and your family is giving you a hard time. If I could trade with you being 6'0 ft I totally would. Though the ideal for me was to stop at 5'3 but oh well whatever. i got what I got...
Don't say that! You're one of a kind, and someday you'll find the perfect guy. I'd also love to be taller, but then I can't grow anymore. There are a lot of guys who still prefer taller girls, so don't worry about it. If you have problem with dresses, maybe try getting a custom made dress that would look perfect on you. You could also wear jeans and a nice top that would look good on you too.
Lol jeans give away the fact that I have disproportionate legs but I love jeans so I won't stop wearing them I guess. and I have gotten custom made dresses but they always have an issue with them but oh well.
And thanks for everything you said but I doubt I'll find anyone, kind of gave up on that. As much as there are guys who like tall girls there are double that number who like short girls so you shouldn't feel your height is an issue.
Well, looks like clothes are a common problem for both tall and short people.
Don't give up hope, you never know what's gonna happen next. There are guys out there who are taller than 6' and they'd definitely prefer a taller girl.
Anyways, try drawing more attention to your face, and you seem to be a really nice person so anyone would like you! 👍
Thank you so much, you're a really kind person and thanks for your advice I'll try to not give up but its hard in this day and age.
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Be proud because you're unique :)
Why do you feel it like a curse?
Because of society? Or you yoursfeel bad about your height since most girls are at least around 5'6?
Because of society and all my friends are taller and much more beautiful than me.
I know how it feels
All of your female friends are around 5'6 and above?
Don't feel as if you aren't beautiful. Facial beauty is another thing and does not depend on the height.
Are you skinny?
Most of them are above 5'5 and it's awkward for me.
I am quite skinny
I am a male and am 5'1
I am worse than you. Because am a man.
Your 5'5 + friends would hate me as well and won't even talk to me... at least you don't have it that bad
What's your weight?
Hmm..
My friends won't hate you, they'll just feel awkward.
Can you please message me. Wanna talk to you
What do you have to say?
Well... leave it then.
You don't want to.
If it's important then I don't mind
No. It's okay. Don't worry.
Enjoy
Okay then
Seriously you won't?😒
I don't know lol. I'll just send you a message wait
I'm 6'5 and there are advantages to both tall and short women ;)
Try to accept yourself and don't dwell on things you can't change!
I love tall girls but in my experience girls won't date guys shorter than them.
a lot of girls wouldn't but I would honestly never seen it as a problem.
How tall are you?
I think around 5'5 or 5'6.
cause you can more easily handle a short girls in sex xD
The same way tall boys are considered more attractive than short boys.
I was in a relationship with a girl taller than I am. My head was probably about to her shoulders.
Might look weird to others but it still works out.
Tallness is considered a masculine characteristic. Its why girls prefer guys to be taller than them.
seriously? lol. i'd love to be tall and have loooong legs. sigh.
Long legs are lanky sometimes. And tall girls mostly have an inverted triangle shaped body which is so unattractive. and also you can wear heels and be tall and have nice legs then take them off and be short again. i bet you're cute and your height is nice.
How tall are you?
i have a lot of tall friends and they look... amazing. and they wear heels anyway lol. their height doesn't stop them. i'm 5 ft and it sucks. i always have to buy jeans for extra short people or pay to get them tailored. it's annoying. and i'm not a huge fan of wearing heels so... i'm just short most of the time. and i can't wear those long dresses because the bottom gets ruined. it's a fail. lol.
Well long dresses on me look like midi dress and are always a bit shorter. plus jeans also look shorter on me and I have to order them extra tall or have to compromise and look heavier by getting a bigger size jeans so they can be taller on my legs.
And I would love to be your height. believe me you wouldn't want to be 6'0 . And I don't like wearing heels either but it doesn't help me look any shorter lol since I'm huge... And I can't get away with wearing shorter things for some things I always got dress coded. and I'm more noticeable and people remember me more because I stand out more. I have ugly big feet and big hands. being a tall woman has no advantages. my proportions are also off because of it. everything sucks.
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Where I'm from, the short girls are the "cute and adorable" ones and the tall girls are the "hot" ones.
Honestly being really short can be annoying too, I'm 4'11 and people would always make fun of my height and use me as an arm rest.
You have a nice height tho. i really want to be cute and adorable I'm not interested in being hot or whatever but I guess I don't have a choice
if you want to grow shorter, then you can try to use affirmations or subliminals but it can be a little risky
How tall are you? No and No on your final 2 questions. I have wanted to try dating a tall girl again.
6'0 ft. lol it seems only the older men are interested in taller women from What I've been getting.
I am 6'3" use to be 6'4" tall.
I didn't even look at your age range till just then.
It's alright. my point is that men my age seem to like short women so much and all, but for what reason I don't know why.
Probably because they always have been exposed to the movie relationships where the guy is much taller than the girl. My Genaration had the original Saved by the Bell. Kelly was short dating Zack, AC Slater dated Jessy. She was tall.
To me, I'd say so. I've always liked little girls😋