Do you feel lucky being born the sex you are?

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So if you’re a male do you consider yourself lucky to be a male?

If you’re a female do you consider yourself lucky to be born a female?

This question is not focused on sexual orientation, but just in general if you like being the sex you are male or female. Not trying excluding anyone that is LGBTQ, but just curious

system73554 · Accepted Answer

I don't know if I feel lucky..
I'm trans and on one side of that it basically means I hated my self, was vary suicidal for a long while, hated how the world saw me, and constantly get hated on by people who think they are gender police.
Also I feel like I'm disconnected from men's and women's world because I didn't identify with men and they would beat me phisically... however most women's groups don't want me and I don't want them to be afraid so I stay away.
So it's basically a feeling of being alone with hardly anyone around to speak too or identify with, and feeling hated and unwanted.

So lucky.. isn't maybe the best word to describe the feeling.

However one place I do feel kind of lucky is I get to see the dubble standard of things.
So maybe in some ways I feel lucky or greatful I've had a life a lot of people can not understand at all.

So luck is a toss up I guess.

PinkMichae · Accepted Answer

I'm happy to be a woman because I like being feminine. Sure it has its downfalls like periods and pregnancy labor pains. But it's amazing that a baby can grow inside me and I can help raise him, with the help of his stepdad, to be his own individual. All considered I don't think I would want to be a guy. You guys have it more tough with dating. Ladies are picky and sometimes just won't give a good guy the time of day. Also it seems this country doesn't think you guys should have the same rights to your kids. But I hope in time that will change. Oh and I would hate to have to shave my face all the time.

The_FallenOne · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't call it lucky. I feel more like it was happenstance or even serendipity.
But to answer your question Yes and no.
Yes, because I can do basically anything and have it not he considered "gay." In cases of assult by the way a guy and a girl the law is usually favor of the woman. Plus guys aren't as judgmental as women so for that reason I'm glad I'm a girl not a guy.
No, because biological women are weaker &"easy targets." Men don't have to give birth. And men gain muscle easier and keep fat off easier.

But If I were a guy for a day first thing I'd do is jack off. 😂

SketchyStudios · Accepted Answer

Yes and no.
I like being a girl, cause I have only ever knows being a girl, but, at the same time
-Endometreosis exists
-cramps
-cravings
-body shaming
-periods
-shaving/waxing
-hair in the buttcrack after a shower
-makeup is halfway a necessity (I dont wear it, personally
-boobs are either too big or too small
-stairs.
-bras
-PMS
-cheeky swimsuits and underwear (wedgie central)

Sawyerblu · Accepted Answer

I love being a woman. I don’t understand why there are so many crazy women who feel like they need to start fights and throw tantrums and claim sexism every second of every day. Like my life is pretty amazing I don't know what type of inequality y’all are talking about lol

Ayer93 · Accepted Answer

In Western society, where we have some of the highest potential to be at the top, it's currently really advantageous to be female. Getting jobs, getting into relationships or finding sex, social media, even getting bought drinks all for simply being at least a semi-attractive female. I'd say part of me is envious of females in that regard. However, I'm a guy and naturally physically stronger than the majority of women. Also, I like being the dominant one in the relationship. I would never trade my dick in either. I guess it's just the fact that I'm used to being a guy that I'm biased about it.

Aynsof · Accepted Answer

Lucky no not really...
There are advantages but also disadvantages and of course when experiencing the former it is good when experiencing the latter it isn't
It would be the same way to be a woman just the advantages and disadvantages are different ones
I have in times of being frustrated with something or other thought if I had just been a woman I wouldn't have to deal with this sort of stuff... but I reckon most women have at some point thought that if they were only male they wouldn't have to deal with whatever sucks for them...

inmensus · Answer

This question could start a really good forum but I'm sure people will eventually get controversial and passive-aggressive about it...
In my case, I don't see it as feeling "lucky". We just need to work with what we have, you know. There are advantages and disadvantages on both sides. I guess I'm indifferent.

Astria · Answer

I like being a woman for the most part. More variety in the way we dress, how we can behave etc.

I would love to be a guy for a day though. It would be fun to have a penis I think. I'd be one of those freaks for the day... sticking it in food products. XD Being with a woman would be too weird for me though I think.

Okay, I am blameless here because I'm medicated. No perv followers!

genericname85 · Answer

kind of torn about this. on the plus side, i don't have periods, which is a pretty huge plus. then i'm also much stronger, whcih is nice xD

however on the minus side: i don't have boobs to attract the other gender with, and generally i don't get approached, cause i don't have a vagina.

i feel like finding a partner is much easier for a girl.

shelbyr1721 · Answer

Sometimes I wonder what it’d be like if I were a dude.. but I don’t think I’d ever want to change genders. It just feels right when I look in the mirror, y’know? And I don’t think I could live without boobs, even as much as I complain about them.

ThreeSheetsToTheWind · Answer

In a lot of ways, yes. One major benefit of being a guy is the fact that we don't have periods. From what I've heard about them, I'm really glad of this. Also we aren't required to do as much grooming as the ladies, all that shaving and waxing and what have you must be a right pain in the arse. In some ways I do wish I was a girl though. I envy women for their beauty, their choice of clothes etc. But that's just generalising on the positives of being female. All in all there are pros and cons to being either gender.

Buckzor · Answer

Doesn't matter if I feel lucky or not, im born who i am and that's that. Both men and women have shit they go through specific to their gender. I dont think it would be better to be one over the other.

MrMysteryMan · Answer

Pfff after watching a documentary about how fucking hard it is for a woman to get pregnant and have a healthy baby without any complications to her or the baby or birth defects, I'm just glad I was conceived and came out somewhat unscathed.

kenworth · Answer

i would rather have been born a female instead of a male.

MrOracle · Answer

There are definitely pros and cons to either sex, so I can't say that i'm "lucky" to be male - whether that's a good or bad thing totally depends on the specific circumstances, which change constantly.

I'm USED to being male, though, so I wouldn't want to change. I'm under no illusions that being a female is "easier", even if certain aspects ARE easier (because other aspects would be more difficult).

SammyGurl · Answer

I am certain that I was born the sex that I was meant to be. I am perfectly happy to embrace the fact that physically, emotionally that I am the woman I was meant see when I look at her in the mirror!!

azzntittiz · Answer

I sometimes feel lucky, sometimes it's a burden. Men have easier lives, and they try to ruin ours everyday.

Nfscarbon07 · Answer

I think it would be interesting to experience what it's like to grow up and live as a female in the same era as I grew up as a male, I don't mind being a male and I don't know where I'd possibly be in life if I were a female, but it would be interesting

Udbhav_Bantwal · Answer

There are advantages of being a female but I think I am better off as a male...

Catholicgirl22 · Answer

Honestly yes. I feel that being a man would be very hard.

Glass_Cat · Answer

I’m happy that i was born healthy but don’t care that i was born a girl if i was born a dude I’d be happy if i were healthy still

CandacePerry · Answer

Just happy with my self. but not lucky as males get. but all gender have pros & cons. I hate my period. part from that every thing is luckily to have a boyfriend.

dannyuk · Answer

Well I'm really glad I don't have periods but I would like to sit in front of the mirror and finger fuck myself

But as a guy I can pee standing up I mean that's massively convenient.

Over all I think I'm happy as a guy

tartaarsaus · Answer

No, I don't feel particularly lucky to be a male.

Why? Both sexes have their own stuff to deal with. There is little lucky about being either.

Am I happy being a male? Yes, but that's vastly different from feeling lucky to be a male. That would imply I dodge some bullet by not being female, while I think I think plenty females and males would be perfectly happy if they were born as the other sex. It's not really something one can judge objectively due to biological limitations.

cheriya · Answer

I don’t particularly feel lucky to be a girl but the more I think about it, I’d consider being a male.

maiave · Answer

I like being a woman. Do I like periods? No. But if that’s the cost to be me I’m fine with it :)

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