"You can entertain us with your cute little videos." "Maybe you can send of do some of your cute little drawings" I worked my butt off on those videos and drawings. They're rarely cute. They're funny, sometimes a bit quirky, sometimes serious... and I was trying to get my video career off the ground. I rarely did cute. And this was usually trying to get me to do free work... maybe you don't insult what I do as "cute little..."
I was really dressed up - coming from work, to a fancy dinner and dance. I was wearing a bow tie - I thought I looked pretty slick. I was in my late 20's... some girl later said I was wearing my adorable little bow tie that I sometimes wear. I'm not 7 or 8 years old. There are adults who wear them, and I think I can usually pull them off.
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My roommate loves to do statements that imply something was done wrong without saying it. I have to pull it out of him. But my other friends will have fun with it sometimes. They know I don't work until finish school and a common joke is you have a lot of free time but at least I'm not broke because I have a job oh... did you notice they are hiring. That was an on going gag for a while
I was eating lunch with my friend and the guy who was crushing on her. He's looking at me super intense, and goes "Your nose is so cute" But the thing is, it isn't like I have a small snub nose. So, I knew coming from this aggressive white guy it was back handed, even if my nose isn't huge, he was saying it to be weird. As Beyonce said, I like my negro nose and jackson 5 nostrils.
That is it. This fish eyed white dude came at me out of nowhere.
I have been getting back handed compliments my whole life. One of the biggies is: "You're really smart for a blonde" to which I reply: "My IQ makes yours look like retardation by comparison." I also get a lot of amazed responses like: "How did you know that?" I had a boyfriend marvel and he remarked that I was as smart as he was. I laughed in his face and told him that my intelligence was too vast for him to even comprehend.
The preacher at the cemetery as they were removing my husbands casket from the hearse came over to whisper that i am a rock in difficult situations and just walked away. He was a family friend of my husband who i was separated from for two years when he passed. It was most definitely a “dig” at me for not crying during the service.
I went blood donor's today and the nurse asked me how much do I weigh. When I told her she replied "oh well you hide it well"'as if my weight was heavy when it's actually the average and healthy weight for a young woman my height and age which she should know.
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"wow that's a really big book for a girl like you"
"You're pretty smart for a girl."
"You'd be so pretty if you didn't have that nose" (my nose is like... kind of a little too small so I guess they had a problem with it)This happened to a friend of mine. :"you look beautiful , today" and the she responed (as a joke): "only today?"
Then you realise that it's kinda a weird compliment...When I was in college, a guy in my class once told me, “wow, you look great today. With your hair down you look just like Charles Manson!”
Um thanks dude. 😕“You got a D on math! That’s better than I expected!”
Did you sleep with your professor to get an A?
I wondered why I recieved such bad compliment. Someone made a point that sexy girls are portrayed air headed.😂You look amazing today what did you do different... LOL. But I've given many back handed compliments so fair enough...
"Your swedish is good! How long did that take you?"
Swedish is my first language.-You talk/speak very proper for a black girl.
-How can you afford that car?
-You’d be cuter if you were mixed."everyone likes you, and is nice to you but they have to be cause you'll always help or cover a shift"
My old gym teacher: "you did better than I expected", while I just threw my spear embarrasingly close...
Real comment a woman made about me "your chubby but cute"
I actually think she was trying to compliment.You're so photogenic- so what you are actually saying is I look good in photos but not in person... :/
"Wow, you're way smarter than I thought you'd be!"
"Hey, I guess not all pretty girls are dumb.""You speak so well". I'm like, I speak the same English you do (and I wasn't even throwing in my "good words"), what did you expect?
"Wow, you're strong!" While I was wearing my military uniform.foreigners are always like that! ow... but not you.
I was going to write a great story that happened to me just an hour but then I realised I can't go on anon, so yeah... won't be sharing that.
Your the autistic person iv ever met is usually what I get
My response is usually how many have you actually met?
Typically followed by contemplative silence"U actually are passing ur classes for the first time."You're decent looking for a black girl."
For a bigger woman, you’re so beautiful and sexy 😂🤷🏻♀️
"you're looking younger!"
"This tastes even better than Wendy's!"
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