I make use of them. I'll find out if the person is lying or being dishonest. I'll take advantage or their abilities and outsource them for my own good and once I don't need them anymore the person is out of my life.
I don't care if they lie once but multiple times and you're just making yourself into an object for me. Once it's trash I throw it out.
this so called 'white lies' happen all the time , for example' it's not you , it's me' line. I learned to deal with it as long it doesn't touch my bottom line , like when it affects my decision making.
I am curious, this senario happened to me before I dated someone and he told me we cannot marry because 'his parents won't like my race' but into a year he told me , he can make decision for himself It translated into the line that ' I didn't like you enough but didn't want to upset you so I used my parents as excuse'. Do you think this is acceptab;e?
I guess that's how I feel , if it's more grey it may be okay but if it's more like ' oh I didn't tell you I went clubbing bc I didn't want to upset you' that is more unacceptable
In my opinion that is lying. I know that some people will shade the truth because they don’t want to hurt someone or feel it’s better to protect someone’s feelings. That is still lying and in the long run it’s better to just tell the truth.
Yes, and they annoy me. I don't see the point in lying and not being yourself or not talking about how you really feel about something in most conversations today. If you do that the people around you distrust you and it takes a while to get that trust back, but that's if you try to stop lying as I know for some people it's like an addiction as in they do it naturally.
i don't particularly hate them because at least everyone has been dishonest/ lied once in their life. though if they do it constantly it does get on my nerves
I don't hate them. But I'd appreciate it if they wouldn't lie. I don't like their choices but I dont necessarily hate the person. And if we were all honest with ourselve, most of us have lied at least once in our life🤷🏾 thats not an excuse to do it but I'm just saying.
Everyone lies, but if you are lying about something small then I would not want to be around you because i can ONLY imagine what a big lie would look like. U?
My dad use to say, you can always trust a thief because you know they're gonna steal. But you can never trust a liar because you never know what they're gonna do. He was correct.
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