What are the top three social situations you try to avoid most?

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loginfailed · Accepted Answer

I'd avoid whichever usless/fun intended things. I won't avoid if it helps/improves me or others

Poormanscomedian · Accepted Answer

No where near a ghetto, a bar, or large group setting

ChiTown33 · Answer

Anything that involves being weighed and measured ( judgement i mean). I mean i like big gatherings ( concerts and music festivals) where people let loose and let their hair down ok. But little get togethers where people ask you what you do etc. I hate! I always feel it's just a time where people get to go " i'm better than this person, i'm better than this person, i'm better than this person, this person here is better than me, and i'm better than this person". "Ok, i'm the second best person in the room".
And i know it isn't about success, it isn't about status, who you know,

zagor · Answer

- Political rallies. Most are populated by rabid idiots, regardless of the cause or party. I went to one where the topic came up about an issue in my home state - this was on the other side of the country from it - and the people were very opinionated yet had no clue about the reality of the issue.

- Mass events like Coachella, Burning Man, and such. For the music events, the people you really want to see just get a small slice of the time. And trying to even take a shit is a hassle.

- Potlucks. Unless I can just bring beer.

purplepoppy · Answer

1. Meeting distant relatives you don't even know their names and haven't seen since your own christening yet they know every thing about you.
2. Breakfast with bfs parents after you've spent the night together at their place.
3. That "why haven't you found a husband yet" interrogation you get at wedding parties.

SueShe · Answer

1. Avoiding any social media and the fake feeling it give you of having friends where you have none.

2. Avoiding going on a date or being with someone that will rob me of my freedom.

3. Social gatherings where I am being sexualized and not seen as a full fledged human but only an object of physical satisfaction.

Lauren-green · Answer

When I see a customer from work, outside of work, I totally avoid them. When I see my people who I know will want to talk to me and I can't be bothered socializing, I avoid them. And hmm when I see old school mates and I can't be bothered listening to any gossip, I avoid them.

MusicMayhem · Answer

-Talking to socially awkward girls that never get hit on

-Talking to girls that try talk down to you and act cool in front of their friends so they can brag about how they put you in your place

-Talking to girls who have no interest in you but pretend they do because a guy is hitting up their friend and they don't want to be standing by themselves awkwardly alone

young_old_soul · Answer

Going to social settings like bars and concerts alone. It is painfully awkward and uncomfortable.

Trying to flirt at bars or parties. Unless someone else starts flirting with me in those settings, I won't bother.

Any situation where an ex, a failed past romantic interest, or someone I've had a conflict with is present. When I have a grudge against someone I'm not the best at hiding it.

GhostMochi · Answer

In a room with a bunch of random people I really don't know and black people. Black people scare me and when I'm around random people, I usually find a quiet place to sit and collect myself or go in the bathroom.

gorman24 · Answer

Anything that makes me talk in front of a huge crowd... I typically stay away from people who complain about others all the time. l because you know damn well they be talking smack about you to someone else. I also try to stay away from super awkward conversations that I do not need to be a part of but people try to drag you into.

naijagurl · Answer

-Being asked to choose between two different people while they’re both there
-walking into a room late and having everyone stare at you as you come in
-any type of gathering where everyone is well acquainted with others and I don’t know anyone

jennifer_bloom · Answer

1. Parties where I don't know the people or the people are different from me
2. Family gatherings where I'm not wanted such as my dad's childless friends who don't like children
3. Social activities with professors outside of class or lecture

jonesjessica812 · Answer

Distancing myself from white people. Because 75% of them racial profile black men. I know what you're thinking, " everybody's racist" newsflash if it werent for the white man, racism wouldn't be that bad and besides racism from non whites haven't been as bad

AndyCandySandy · Answer

What's a social situation? I'm not sure what you mean🤔 could you explain it😬

Maxiebleu · Answer

Any place that I would feel like I would be compared to another girl, bars or clubs where I don’t really feel in control, strip clubs..

elissa23Trans · Answer

1) Going to church 2) Going to a place where lots of conservative people gather together 3) Going to the emergency

Swat_ · Answer

1. Parties which involve dancing and heavy drinking. 2. Talking to people I havn't spoken to in a while. 3. Public activities where I have to get naked, like, come on is it really necessary?

Sensmind · Answer

(1) Talking to people I don't know (2) Crowds (3) Talking to people I not friends with

Secret6620 · Answer

Politics, religion, and money topics during social engagement 🌸💗

Dlg1979 · Answer

Being around people who don't make me feel welcome, and being around people who do meth.

kate52 · Answer

large groups of people, hanging out with a stranger and our mutual friend, and being alone in a room with a guy

SirRexington · Answer

Black neighborhoods (they hate white people) Drug parties (I hate everything about them) Rich people areas (they hate poor people)

Alice2398 · Answer

1. Negative confrontation  2. Meeting new people  3. Intimacy with people outside my immediate family

Anonymous · Answer

All social situations that include talking to strangers especially in groups.

amandeep017 · Answer

Have a talk with my parents, socializing with my relatives, hanging around with pessimists.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Any place where violence is likely to erupt. Political rallies. Dive bars.

clampfan101 · Answer

I’m just trying to be less shy and more sure of myself.

OfDeath · Answer

Small talk, awkward phone calls and being alone with people

maxgdek · Answer

Embarrassing somebody... Trying to persuade somebody have a different political opinion... . . Talking about just one thing all the time

KandyKane1 · Answer

Anywhere that I'd have to wait any length of time.  Fighting.  Crowds.

Hawky_ · Answer

Lawn bowls tournaments Accountants parties Ann Summers parties or similar

umjustcurious · Answer

Talking to people.. In a room with a lot of people.. Or someone walking behind me

darkcap · Answer

Nude in public Being late at work Fighting with friends

JosyJosy · Answer

Depressed People Angry People Creep people

thefutureisfemale · Answer

Three? All of them. xx ~ Mrs Manson

PromiscuousPrimate · Answer

Fights, drunken people, bars

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Public speaking, huge crowds, clubs

monkeynutts · Answer

I don't avoid any social engagements.

Atryn · Answer

I avoid them all

themomo84 · Answer

I'm not getting the question.

Iamagoodguy · Answer

Social interactions

GayHowellMeme · Answer

I don’t have any

wouterv · Answer

Talking with females

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