At school the next day, no one asked Sarah and I about what happened. They asked Nick and his partner, who had told the whole school they would crush us. And they couldn't lie about what happened, because they had invited people to come watch. Any time they tried to come up with a story that embarrassed them less, one of the people who were there would jump in and say that we "dragged them through the mud," as one of them put it.So they were mad. And the coach was still upset. And their fan club (all the younger debaters that idolized them) was helping them mourn. When it came time to plan the banquet, Sarah couldn't come to the meeting. So it was just me, a bunch of dudes who were mad at me, and the two other girls on the team who weren't really going to rock the boat. First, they were petty in their choice of restaurant, and picked the one place that neither Sarah nor I could eat at (I'm vegetarian, she's Halal), which isn't really a good restaurant to begin with. But then they were talking and the topic of conversation took a very quick turn. They started making rape jokes. Lots of them. About girls at our school. Girls that considered them friends. If I told them that it wasn't funny, they just started laughing more. I don't know if they were doing it to make me uncomfortable, or if they're always that awful, but I had never heard them talk like that.
And then they started telling real stories. About guys that they were friends with raping people. And they thought it was hilarious. I knew that they were real stories, because I had heard plenty of them before, from the victim's perspective.And then Nick told a story about a guy who I'll call Mike. Apparently, when Mike went to college, he made a regular habit of drugging and raping girls at parties. I felt sick to my stomach. I knew Mike, because Mike, had attempted to do something similar to me, when I was eleven years old, and looked about six. I was able to escape only by sheer luck. I didn't even know what rape was, and when I told my parents what had happened, they said that I didn't know what I was talking about. But I didn't know until then that he had continued the habit. When I heard, I felt like it was my fault, for not going to police years previously. Of course, I know that it isn't my fault. I was a child. But that didn't stop me from feeling that way. So I left. And I never spoke to any of them again. But Sarah and I still had people coming up to us for the rest of the year telling us that us beating Nick and his friend was their favorite thing that had ever happened at that school.
Sorry to hear but thanks so much for sharing this 💙😢💙
You're welcome. :)
I forgot to add that one guy went so far that he called me a whore while I'm a virgin.
I'm sorry to hear. That's sooooooo messed up 😱😢😱
Sorry to hear but thanks for replying 😢❣️❤️
That's really sad 😢💙😢
I left the job where there were those kinds of problems before, and next year I am finally purchasing my own home, so I won't have to deal with either of those problems. :)
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That's really sad. Thanks for sharing your story 😢❣️❤️
Thanks for sharing your story. 🌸💜🌸
So sorry that happened. That's just mean and rude 😡😡😡
Yeah, it is but people criticize for no reason. I'm over it though. ^^
Are you serious?😱
Ha ha... yep.
So sorry to hear. Thanks for telling your story 😊❣️❤️
Thanks for sharing and being detailed. I appreciate it 😢💙😱
Thanks for replying 😊❣️❤️
That's awful 😢😭
Yeah, it was just frustrating. I wish people could drop the idea that skin color has anything to do with your emotions. We are all still human beings.
That's horrible 😢
Humans tend to discriminate over many things and sometimes over nothing whatsoever
I'm glad you proved them wrong 🌸💜🌸
That's so rude 😢💙😱
Thanks for sharing your story 🌸💜🌸
Sorry that hear. Thanks for telling your story 😢❣️❤️
Wow!!! Thanks for this post 🌸💜🌸
I have experienced the same within my family. Just ridiculous 😢💙
What? By the teachers? WTH 😱😢
Idc what anyone tells you stay away from Spokane, WA and i mean it stay away its not the business i grew up out there i wasn't from and it is nothing but a shithole drugged out racist town full of prostitution and weird ish i barely made it out of there
That’s right Cali we keep it real we got the love cuz we got the sticky sticky stuff oooowe get you some people I highly recommend it
@Christopherthrob haha its all love in Cali every other state ain't shit compared to. it
I just look Arab when I get tan 😂So people assume I am arab, then they assume I am a Muslim... then they call me a goat fucker/ sand nigga 😑
That's just ridiculous 😡
I was shock when I was told that one
Sorry to hear but thanks for replying 😊❣️❤️
Are you freaking serious 😡😡😡
That suck ><
It definitely sounds like it 😢😱
That's crazy 🌸💜🌸
That's horrible 😱😢😱
Cmon don’t tell me you’ve never gotten that.
We're not talking about me 🌸💜🌸
I never really saw it as a big deal. My dad always taught me that people are assholes The normal state of being for humans in general is to be self centered jerk wars and that family and a handful that f friends are the only people you can trust ; and that if you wanna have a decent life you have to design your life to not be dependent on the jerk wads. For the most part, dad was right.
* jerk wads not wars
Lol thanks for sharing your story. It's very appreciated 🌸💜🌸
That's so rude. Thanks for replying you always have great opinions. 😊❣️❤️
Ahaha thank you😁😁
Oh no!!! Thanks for sharing your story 😊❣️❤️
See snakes you are in early training for the pedophile behavior stay away from your little sister and all her friends 👭 if they make you feel good in any way you must seek help try asking your Sunday school teacher for some 🙏 help to repent
I didn’t. The only reason I was with them is because my mother told me to keep an eye on her to make sure she doesn’t do anything stupid.
Oh no 😱☹️
Sorry to hear, that's horrible 😢😭
I don't let it bother me. I know people who discriminate like that are very ignorant.😎
That's messed up though 😢
Oh nooooooo 😱
You give great opinions. Thank You 😊❣️❤️
Thanks for replying I really appreciate it😊❣️❤️
Haha it is all good.. I expect it still really..
Ya it's normal here
But now you get a fin or jail for 2days
It was just one person and one moment though.
Maybe but I doubt it. 😊❣️❤️
That's messed up 😡
Eyeroll 🙄 🙄 🙄
Wait you mean white trashy people inbreds with red necks? I am trying to paint a picture it a hobby thanks for the reply’s yo
Alright din people I b out peace love and some more love to you all late
They can judge. Attack. Discriminate as much as they want. My culture comes above any religion
Sorry to hear 😢💙😱
Its tough being a cracker in america
Sorry to hear. Thanks for responding 😊❣️❤️
No problem though. This is an unavoidable result of having an opinion
Thanks for responding 😊❣️❤️