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Have you ever been so sad that you couldn't even cry because it hurt so bad?
ok. then dump whatever you are feeling right now right on top of me. see? i am ready for it (just ate a chocolate bar and i don't even like chocolate? i did it for a friend that i just met on this site. but man she is whack and cool so i am pretty much up for anything!). so trust me. and dump it on me. and if it is too personal then send me a message thingy. i will read it. i will treat it like the gold that it is - which is your feelings. and they matter. if to no one else on the planet then to me and Jesus. we care. and we are always here. so ya honey - if you are feeling so sad you can't even cry - i know that feeling and i got through it and it wasn't easy but i can help you. so dump it on me and get that shit off of you! you are a beautiful feeling creature that My Lord created so yer darn tootins i care! so dump it on me. i can take it. and i can help. if you let me. k?
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I rarely cry any more its very few and lots of months or even years between. Not because I am never sad but I've had some shitty guys that have hurt me a lot and I just got bored of crying. It's like being really angry you're not going to do anything productive, only hurtful with that emotion so it is useless. The last break up hurt me a lot but it was over a week before I full on let go and cried. I whaled for about 15 minutes, Full on screaming god knows what the neighbours thought lol and That was all my tears I gave him. It hurts a lot when I cry but only because I am truly in pain if I do.
1.5K opinions shared on Other topic. A week before I turned 21, my first girlfriend broke my heart.
I discovered that for the 12 months of our relationship everything had been a sham.
She had used me as a diversion, so that her parents would not suspect that she was maintaining a secret relationship with a scumbag bad boy of whom they disapproved.
I had been so deeply in love with that girl that I lost my mind.
I cried for days. I could not function. I could not work. After I ran out of tears, I sat for hours each day reciting Shakespeare (Macbeth, act five, scene five) to a Colt 1911.
The tears did not come again. What came, from time to time, was a pain that was so bad that I could feel it in my heart and it went all the way to my soul.
The experience left me psychologically incapable of feeling love for a woman. That was burned out of my soul.
332 opinions shared on Other topic. I was so sad I look back an wonder if I didn't die inside that day because there has been this empty unfeeling , feeling ever since, a sort of no matter how much good or success i have ill always feel sad.
Iv been happy since or at least escaped but it didn't change it deep in there.
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Yes I go to that all the time, and that's how you know you're dealing with another state of depression because of it. That's when you go through emotional burnout to the point you can't even feel anything anymore. That's worse when you're naturally an emotional person. If I'm going through all of that that means I got a lot I need to change, and that may mean removing some people and things for my life that are toxic. Life is too short to be killing yourself literally over things and people that aren't worth it.
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1. When my parents were starting to get a divorce, they used to fight a lot and I never knew which parent to listen to. I was stuck in the middle at that point. Also when my dad didn't get along for a short period of time because again didn't know which parent to believe.
2. When my recent ex boyfriend left me 8 months ago. We dated for 4 1/2 months and then just ended up leaving after that. Its a long story but I rather not explain.
Those were very sad times for me. I actually did cry a lot during those. I was so sad I didn't want to talk to anyone. I went through a depression stage for a while but I made it through. Now I get along with my dad a lot better now. Also I got over my ex and now I want to find the right guy and to fall in love again. To finally find the right guy who can spend the rest of my life with. Whatever you're going through, you'll get through it. Don't put yourself in a deep depression stage. Just got to be positive. It'll be ok. 
12-28 I never cried I was very angry. Hated life and myself. Then one day I was able to cry and it felt so fucking good I cried litterally all day and it was just what I needed. I dont care what any one says men cry to and it's okay. I'm no saying cry everyday like a big baby but when your emotionally hurt or whatever it maybe it's okay. Took me a long time to learn that. I'm also changing my life around and happy and enjoying my life 1 day at a time.
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I have and do on somewhat of a daily basis and I have a hard time processing. Yet, with the many ways you can advantage the apps and social media these days, it does feel better when I reach out. I do begrudgingly hurt moreso because it takes me to reach out versus others of whom know I need them to, but I know it's hard for them as well to understand what to say... Therapy is a saving grace, to be honest, even as hard as it is to afford.
1K opinions shared on Other topic. I am sorry to hear you are going this. I live in Los Angeles and I am still stunned about Kobe Bryant. I never met him, so I know this sounds silly. But yet, I feel sadness for everyone aboard the helicopter that crashed this morning.
I know how you feel, i felt it most of my life allthough sometimes even that was overcome by even more sad events stacked on eachother eventually making me burst in tears.
If you need to talk im here, saw someone from the girls feedback is too. I found its always easier to feel better or let your emotions do what they must, in this case cry. When you are really allowed to talk out about it.- 1.3K opinions shared on Other topic.
Had not heard from you for so long, and then you come with THIS? That makes ME sad.
I hope all is well in your life. Just remember, all problems come with a solution that we might not see right away. Eventually, it will be ok.
Take care. i haven't but im pretty sure i will when one of my family members die but usually i replace my sadness with anger, i honestly like it better tbh, whatever it is, it will be ok, there's nothing that won't heal over time, even if it leaves a scar, it heals, i hope you feel better 🙂
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Yeah. You never stated when it happened but if it wasn't long ago its because you're still in a state of shock. The tears usually come soon enough, whether it be in a year from now or even more. Once it's actually been fully accepted and you know you will never see them again you tend to shed tears. I'm sorry for your loss 🌺
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Yeah sure for over 10 years i cried some in
My teens and from then i learned tI hold back. Fast-forward 4 relatives have died in the past years and i didn't didn't shed a tear. I completely understand what you're going through thats why I've been drinking chronicly for 15 years to forget. My spirit seems to love it. -
The day my dad died of cancer, I lost a part of my heart , self that day.
I'm not the same person any more.
I still love, have moments of joy , but threads in my heart , soul twine differently now. -
Why? What happened?
In my opinion and experience, if it's about someone hurting you, nobody ever deserves a single tear if they treated you badly.
If it's due to someone's health or a death, well, that's another story... Yeah. I got past that point now I don't feel sad right now. Well I am still sad. It just doesn't hurt right now. I don't really feel anything right now.
I'm sorry you're sad. Hopefully you will find a way to feel better soon.-
I think I might be that right now, just below the surface. My mom passed away just after Christmas and I am still in a bit of shock, I think, even though it was expected.
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Yes and it happens often lately...
I just try to distract myself with something totally different.
Have few places to go that gets my mood up.
And yes I'm man who to embarrassed to talk about it,... -
Yes, many many times. Men know this one all too well. Most men don't or won't talk about it though.
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I've ran out of tears at this point... (not literally, just that I've grown numb to the pain.)
So I understand where you're coming from. - Anonymous(36-45)
Yes, I usually feel. I sometimes feel like my first love left me for no reason and marry to someone else. I dont know the real reason. But she left and selected someone else. When ever I am happy I deeply somewhere feel sad. Whenever I am sad I feel like breaking and I am almost never too happy. But I never show my true feelings to anyone
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Yep, I had this huge crush on this one guy who asked me out, the day after he broke up with me. I was so upset I couldn't even get out of bed.
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I’m feeling this way I have bad depression ever since a family member died I couldn’t cry but I was extremely upset I think it was sadness and shock
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