Im really confused. Is he stalking me?

[Anonymous]

Since the start of the year he’s watched ALL of my instagram stories and I update my story often. He sometimes watches them very quickly like within 10minutes.
so far he’s approximately watched my story updates on 90 different occasions.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

It probably depends on your definition of "stalking".

To me, if he is either following your account or you have a public account, that's not really stalking since it's either easily obtained public information or you've allowed him access to it by accepting his follow request.

He may definitely have way too much time on his hands and be a little too concerned about what you're up to, but I'm not sure I would call him a stalker.

[Asker]

Hmm do u think he’s interested or something?

[aWes0MeNeSs]

It's likely, if he is always looking at your stuff and usually not long after you post it.

[Asker]

What do you consider quick when person watches ur story updates?

[aWes0MeNeSs]

Within the first 10 minutes like you said is pretty quick to me. Of course, I'm not big on social media, so if I were to look at someone's story, it wouldn't even be every day. I know a lot of people are on social media nearly all the time, though.

[Asker]

Hmm I woukd consider less than 1h quick too.. what do u think?

[bigchanges]

nah he like who this ugly white bitch get her off my feed nigga

[guitarguy1995]

You're like reverse stalking haha.

[Asker]

Maybe. So u think he’s stalking me , yes or no :D?

[guitarguy1995]

Maybe. I skip through peoples story all the time just to get it off my home page. But that often? Maybe so?

[Asker]

Yeah he watches my stories early in the morning too...

[guitarguy1995]

Are you into this guy? Or just think he is stalkkng?

[Asker]

And he watches my stories again same day if im updated my story again that day

[Asker]

Actually i do like him... why?

[guitarguy1995]

Then why are you not making a movie if you know he's got this much interest

[Asker]

I don't know if he’s bored or something. Also I’ve couple times commented in his story although we did have friendly nice conversation he has not reach out to me... he did comment few on my story but that was a while ago...

[guitarguy1995]

Haha so what will you do? Pm if necessary

[Asker]

I don't know what should I do? Maybe he’s a shy guy that’s scared. What do u think as a guy?

[guitarguy1995]

Nah. Speaking through social media is the easiest way to communicate. It sounds like y'all had enough chances to create a spark.

[Asker]

So he’s probably not interested?

[guitarguy1995]

Nope

[Asker]

Why is he so eagerly watching my stuff then...

[guitarguy1995]

Boredom. Maybe you're just cute. Or interesting. Throw sum pussy at em. See what happens

[Asker]

Should I keep talking to him? What do u think?

[guitarguy1995]

Just be direct and see if he's interested. Its like you like wasting time on the trivial. you're having more fun fantasizing about him than seeing about actually getting to know eachother

[Asker]

I would make a fool out of myself since it looks like that he’s not interested...

[guitarguy1995]

And you dont think he might think the same if you don't like him?