Why is he stalking me?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so I'm currently in college, and there was this racist kid in high school who used to harass me, call me names, and say racist things to me. He would call me ugly and say hurtful things. Then, in our senior year of high school, he forced me to follow him on Instagram by threatening to break my phone and report my entire account if I didn't comply. Surprisingly, he was more bearable during our senior year. After he found my Instagram, he started texting me all the time—when I say all the time, I mean constantly! So I guess we sort of became acquaintances at that point. At graduation, he clapped for me and took pictures of me, which I found weird. After that, he invited me to his party, but I decided not to go because I felt like we weren't that close. He texted me while drunk, yelling at me and asking why I didn't come to his party. I explained my reasons, and he responded with something like, "So you think you're a celebrity or something? You're just trying to act famous. Screw you." And that's how things ended, with him unfollowing me. It's been eight months since then, and I'm in college now. However, he still views my stories and watches my account, even though he has a girlfriend and everything.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude that's really creepy. It seems like this guy had some issues in high school and took it out on you, which is not cool at all. Even though things calmed down senior year, he's still acting really possessive and weird by constantly checking your social media. You've made it clear you're not interested in being friends, so him still stalking your profile is crossing a line. I would say try to keep your accounts private or block him completely so he can't see what you're posting. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life, especially now that you're in college thriving. Just focus on you and don't give this clown any more of your energy.

[Anonymous]

Ummm... I am waiting to see the part when he was stalking you. So he's looking at your profile that he legally is allowed to look at. He just looks at your stories and videos. So when did he stalk? Was he driving in your neighborhood? Did he come to your school? What stalking is he doing?

You can go online and look at videos of YouTube lives, so that doesn't constitute as stalking if that's what you're referring to. He is looking at your social media profile on an online platform owned by Cooperation and is not stalking.

So you're just paranoid after he looks at something you posted online for others to see?

[Anonymous]

Modern people are becoming more backward by the minute, and this is further proof.