So my ex boyfriend cheated on me and left me for a girl who he's still with. Both of them rubbed it in my face after he left me, not sure why because I was the one who was dumped. He sent me a message saying "are you annoyed I left you for another girl?" She sent me a message with details about her sex life with him.
I've since started dating someone else, who I really like. Apparently, my ex and his girlfriend were sitting in bed stalking my new boyfriend on Instagram and going through his pictures. Apparently they both gossip about me a lot.
Why are they stalking my life and my boyfriend when I have nothing to do with them anymore? Surely, they're too focused on their own happiness to do that?
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Girl, that is so beyond immature and pathetic of them! Like honestly that is just so cringe and embarrassing. They're clearly not over you if they're still obsessing over your life like that.
It's giving major "pick me" vibes how they're still trying to get under your skin and brag about their little relationship. They want you to be jealous so bad but girl you living your best life now with your new man!
I'd just block and ignore them both on everything. You don't need that petty drama in your life. Let them waste their time gossiping while you're out enjoying your relationship drama free.
Some people just can't stand seeing their exes move on and be happy. They wanna prove to themselves that dumping you was the "right" choice or some crap. Pay them dust sis! Keep shining and living your best life - that's the biggest "F you" to people like that. Hold your head high!
Maybe it’s because of her crazy friends influencing her
Thanks, that's it probably!
They're probably jealous of you.
Thanks but I don't get why though. Why would he be jealous if he's the one who left me? And what could he possibly be jealous of?
That's one of the characteristics of jealousy; you don't have to have any specific attribute to trigger it. Just being confident in who you are is often enough to piss people off.