If my ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend why does he still want to have sex with me?

[mrsworthy]

My ex and I were together for 4 years.he decided we needed a break in April of this year. Through out the 4 years I did some hurtful things I never cheated never ever. But he claims I broke his heart. Its been 6 months since the break up and he has a new girlfriend. I live with his family so we have been having sex. We were each others first loves he says he wants to see some changes in me. But what I'm wondering is if he's happy with her why does he still have sex with me? He even gives me oral and then kisses this girl. He had no real girlfriends before me so I know this wasn't something he's done before. Is it that he's scared that I will hurt him again? Does he even care for her?I've decided to stop having sex with him if he chose her he's gone do right by her or at least not do the wrong with me. But there's some things I need answered.

[rdabby]

first of all you do have to stop cause believe it or not sex is a part of showing love and your emotions if you continue on having sex you will never be able to get over him.

second thing if a guy is cheating with you then someday he will cheat on you so that's not a good thing either...

third thing which I don't get is why are you living with his family? whatever situation that is don't you think now after you guys have broken up perhaps you should move elsewhere and get a place of your own..

create some space between you guys so he could understand that its really over and perhaps he could realize that he misses you and he wants to be with you.. otherwise when he get to have sex with you and then go to his girlfriend ..where does that put you? why would he want to get back with you if he's getting what he wants..thats harsh but guys do that!

If you really want him back, you should try to move out or at least not be there when he is...

let him see what's his missing!

[ty-lady]

Sometimes just because there is a break up doesn't mean that the connection is gone. Either way, you did the right thing by choosing not to continue sleeping with him until he decides where he really wants to be. A lot of people continue having sex with their ex's (not saying that it is a good thing) but one of you have to be strong enough to put a stop to it til you can get your relationship back on track. He obviously is still in love with you but that does not mean that he will come back to you, so if you continue to make love to him you must understand that so that your feelings are not hurt in the long run. Make sure that everything that you do, you know why you did it. No expectations! Peace!

[jkjkjk123]

Move on with your life. You just have to be couragous and tell him to stop messing up your life. You are more worth than that. You have to be the one respect yourself first, before any one else show respect to you. He is taking advantage of you to satisfy his own emotional and physical needs but ignoring your needs as a woman of value and worth. wake up !

[Littletad]

Sounds like your in a horrible situation. Why are you living with his family?