Why does my ex still wants to have sex with me but doesn't wanna be in a relationship?

[RitiSen]

Relevant answers please

[HelpfulWoman]

XD there's a reason he's an ex.
he doesn't take you seriously and only thinks the thing of worth you own is your vagina.

[Alex-Snow]

He sounds like he just wants a friends with benefits relationship with tons of sex but no attachments. How do u feel about it. Is the sex that good with him? It really is ur choice.

[ProbablyClueless]

Sex feels good, and you're familiar, but he doesn't feel an emotional connection to you.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic case of wanting the cake and eating it too, without buying the bakery, right? 😏 It sounds like your ex is caught up in one of the most common scenarios – chasing the thrill without the commitment. Essentially, they're probably craving the comfort, familiarity, and, let's be honest, the fun of being intimate without any of the responsibilities or emotional investment that comes with a relationship. Think of it as a "benefits without friends" situation.

This behavior can sometimes stem from not being ready to let go entirely, while also not wanting to dive back into the deep end of emotional vulnerability. It's like wanting to swim without getting wet! 🌊

Remember, your feelings and well-being are paramount. If this setup doesn't sit right with you, it's worth a conversation, or maybe it's time to fully move on and find someone who wants the whole package, not just the perks. After all, you deserve someone who's all in, not just in it for the fun parts.

Feeling confused or need to chat more about it? Dive into the conversation below! 💬💕

[jahaims]

Because he wants sex without a relationship obviously. I see why he doesn't want a relationship.

[Pterodon]

Because he’s horny and can’t find someone else

[riverrat3]

Basically what you said in question, he only wants sex, how do you feel about that

[firenine909]

Because he’s horny and wants to fuck and have fun

[firenine909]

How do you feel about that? Was the sex you had good?

[RitiSen]

Pretty good

[firenine909]

What did he do that made the sex so good? Nothing stopping you from hooking up with him, in fact he’d like that. Sometimes hate sex can be really kinky but otherwise you can have fun with him still since you love or

[RitiSen]

Right, he's pretty good, even l don't have any feelings for him anymore and so does he, but he still wanna have sex, so l am confused as to why he wanna continue doing that.

[firenine909]

Because sex is a lot of fun and I bet it feels just as good for him to fuck you. You don’t have to have feelings, this would be more to hookup especially if you’ve missed the sex. Would you like him to fuck you?

[RitiSen]

Well I guess yeah

[firenine909]

Then flirt with him and tease him. Put yourself up against your body or try to bend over and provoke him. Insult him a bit, rile him up and before you blink he’s going to have your soft butt bouncing on him. Ex sex can always feel very intense

[RitiSen]

Yeah, I know, it's kinky, but l also don't wanna yk kind of make him feel that l still like him or sum like that, yk give him importance basically, so yeah

[firenine909]

If he wants to get back with you, you can tell him no. He also said he didn’t want a relationship just sex so you both should be on the same page.

Just tease him and try to rile him up piss him off a bit, he doesn’t need to be sweet and caring anymore. Try and encourage him to be more aggressive fucking you. Have fun with it

[RitiSen]

Yeah thanks haha!

[firenine909]

Have fun 😉😏😅😂🤣

[sheikalana]

He's not a serious guy.