Most behavior in kids can pretty much always be put down to how they were raised. Never taught that things like that are wrong. Never taught how to process their emotions or talk about how they feel. So they lash out in not kind behavior to others. Kind of the gist of what my psychologist said to me when I asked about it.
Oh and often bullies have things going on at home that they can't control and having control over someone else is their escape. But again kinda comes down to parenting
I really wish I knew the answer to this 100% I've spent so much of my life being bullied and afraid. I'm not letting anyone have that power over me anymore. I've just recently started to get through all those traumatic events in my life and realized how it has i. pacted me in such a negative way.
people do it because it makes them feel better about themselves. They have deep seated feelings of inadequacy. Maybe they are jealous of somebody's intelligence or social status and use their own means to bully people.
I think it's cause of their family, parents who hit their children (a person who's stronger physically and have authority hit someone weaker who can't defend themselves) it make the child being angry at their parents and wanting to hit them back but they can't cause they aren't strong enough so they just take their frustrations on someone they know is weaker then them. It doesn't have anything to do with jealousy (sometime it can but most of the time it's not).
From my experience, people tend to bully others so numb their own problems/insecurities. They think they can just get rid of their own problems by causing problems to others. When it is in groups, people tend to like being worshipped or seen as their leader. By bulling others and putting pressure on the goup, they think to achieve this.
But usually it comes down to the bullies home life being bad and them coming from tough homes, they have a lot of pent of anger, frustration, fear, etc. So they take it out on people weaker themselves to make themselves feel strong and powerful, and secure to create an illusion of control, confidence and security. That they lack in their own personal lives.
Some kids are just mean for no reason but to get some laughs to seem funny. People are like flowers, the words are seeds and they take root if not challenged. That’s why any time someone calls you a name you don’t like you have speak out against it in that moment or your subconscious will accept what was said as true.
Bullying like a lot of other behaviors is about power.. A bully feels powerful.. Sadly its likely because they feel powerless in other areas of their life..
They’re gutless, insecure asshole. They may have been bullied at home. I think that most ( cops ) are just born Evil.
I hate Cops, but they are a necessary evil. It has nothing to do with “ Anything in the news” I’ve known what they are, since I was a small kid.. They’re congenitally sick in the head. They need to hide behind a badge to validate themselves as human
Because they are childish and immature. Too bad I can't go back and kick the asses of the kids who picked on me. I was a normal height but skinny kid. At 6'6" and 240 I don't get picked on and I know how to kick ass as an adult. It's never come up.
because they can, they were abused or are abused children. They dont like how you look, talk, or on here because your OPINION isn't like theirs and you disagree with their agenda, they will beat you down with their stupidity
Because it gives them a feeling of fake superiority. that's how men have historically bullied other people (in modern world, females have joined forces).
If jealousy is not always the reason then another reason would be is they just want to feel superior because they are insecure also because they have nothing else better to do. They lack attention
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Most people bully because the know the victim won’t or can’t fight back. Bullies look for push overs. If the person was a physical threat or gave respectable resistance, they’ll back off and look for someone weaker.
Children are cruel and thoughtless, I am glad you worked through it. I had horrible childhood experiences too, But I just needed to let them go... as I said Children are heartless and uncivilized beasts... lol
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Most behavior in kids can pretty much always be put down to how they were raised. Never taught that things like that are wrong. Never taught how to process their emotions or talk about how they feel. So they lash out in not kind behavior to others. Kind of the gist of what my psychologist said to me when I asked about it.
Oh and often bullies have things going on at home that they can't control and having control over someone else is their escape. But again kinda comes down to parenting
I really wish I knew the answer to this 100% I've spent so much of my life being bullied and afraid. I'm not letting anyone have that power over me anymore. I've just recently started to get through all those traumatic events in my life and realized how it has i. pacted me in such a negative way.
people do it because it makes them feel better about themselves. They have deep seated feelings of inadequacy. Maybe they are jealous of somebody's intelligence or social status and use their own means to bully people.
I think it's cause of their family, parents who hit their children (a person who's stronger physically and have authority hit someone weaker who can't defend themselves) it make the child being angry at their parents and wanting to hit them back but they can't cause they aren't strong enough so they just take their frustrations on someone they know is weaker then them. It doesn't have anything to do with jealousy (sometime it can but most of the time it's not).
From my experience, people tend to bully others so numb their own problems/insecurities. They think they can just get rid of their own problems by causing problems to others. When it is in groups, people tend to like being worshipped or seen as their leader. By bulling others and putting pressure on the goup, they think to achieve this.
There's a variety of reasons.
But usually it comes down to the bullies home life being bad and them coming from tough homes, they have a lot of pent of anger, frustration, fear, etc. So they take it out on people weaker themselves to make themselves feel strong and powerful, and secure to create an illusion of control, confidence and security. That they lack in their own personal lives.
Some kids are just mean for no reason but to get some laughs to seem funny. People are like flowers, the words are seeds and they take root if not challenged. That’s why any time someone calls you a name you don’t like you have speak out against it in that moment or your subconscious will accept what was said as true.
Why do thieves steal?
Why do murderers kill?
Why do rapists sexually assault?
Why do slave masters enslave slaves?
You know what they all have in common? They're dicks. There's not much deeper science behind it.
I think bullies use a person as a mirror of themselves. If i feel shitty you should too. Maybe thats why.
When it comes to bullies, the answer is always the same no matter what the age of the person is - they do it to cover up their own inadequacies.
Bullying like a lot of other behaviors is about power.. A bully feels powerful.. Sadly its likely because they feel powerless in other areas of their life..
They’re gutless, insecure asshole. They may have been bullied at home. I think that most ( cops ) are just born Evil.
I hate Cops, but they are a necessary evil.
It has nothing to do with “ Anything in the news”
I’ve known what they are, since I was a small kid.. They’re congenitally sick in the head. They need to hide behind a badge to validate themselves as human
Because they are childish and immature. Too bad I can't go back and kick the asses of the kids who picked on me. I was a normal height but skinny kid. At 6'6" and 240 I don't get picked on and I know how to kick ass as an adult. It's never come up.
because they can, they were abused or are abused children. They dont like how you look, talk, or on here because your OPINION isn't like theirs and you disagree with their agenda, they will beat you down with their stupidity
Because it gives them a feeling of fake superiority. that's how men have historically bullied other people (in modern world, females have joined forces).
If jealousy is not always the reason then another reason would be is they just want to feel superior because they are insecure also because they have nothing else better to do. They lack attention
Most people bully because the know the victim won’t or can’t fight back. Bullies look for push overs. If the person was a physical threat or gave respectable resistance, they’ll back off and look for someone weaker.
there are many reasons why someone gets bullied. we never ever know why they do it. they even say they dont do it.
Most bullies carry low self confidence, self worth and a lack of parents with no backbone.🌹
Children are cruel and thoughtless, I am glad you worked through it. I had horrible childhood experiences too, But I just needed to let them go... as I said Children are heartless and uncivilized beasts... lol