Is it okay that I don't trust or believe women?

[Anonymous]

I respect them just like everybody else. But in terms of trusting them and believing what they tell me, i just don't. They just don't know how to be honest to me and i just accept that. Is this okay though or am i some kind of misogynist to you?

[Kas19]

For staters, I don't trust men. So we're on the same page there. But I do usually believe men when they tell me something unless it's sus. I don't trust men due to safety reasons or to prevent generally feeling uncomfortable around them.

You say you don't trust what women say, which is fine. Not healthy of course but it could be worse. I wouldn't talk them if I couldn't trust a word that came out of their mouths, or believe them. Is it because women have wronged you int he past? Have you dealt with deceitful women?

I wouldn't say it makes you a misogynist, that moreso depends how you fully view women and how you treat them.

[Asker]

I've met a lot of women that exhibit the same patterns. Lying and avoiding confrontation when i call them out on stuff. Haven't met one that was different in that regard. But i still show respect but again just don't trust them. I have suspicious eyes everytime a girl tells me something

[Kas19]

Makes sense. I've had a lot of manipulative/gossipy women in my life that I've had to confront. It gets old.

[Anonymous]

up to you, not others

you do you, ill do me. bye

[Asker]

I really don't care what you do though. So lates

[jasco]

You have some bad truama with women and therefore its understandable that you don't trust them but its not true for all women tho. Their are many different types of women, you just keep meeting the bad ones

[Asker]

If only you knew how many i met. And its crazy because they show the same actions and i mean identical actions. Lying and trying to avoid confrontation

[jasco]

Well not all women are bad, just the ones your around

[jasco]

go out of your current zone and try meating other women

[slatyb]

People who don't trust others are often untrustworthy -- they would cheat given a chance, so they expect others to do so as well. With one exception my partners have all been very trustworthy and honest.

[FilmGuy93]

I think a lot of people feel the same way. It's certainly not great, but I'm not sure that there is a better alternative. Trusting people makes it too easy to get hurt

[NathanDavis]

I don't think this is misogynist, just a mild case of regular stupidity and inadequacy from your part, and of course is not okay.

[Snakeyes7]

This usually stems from some woman doing you wrong when you were a kid which I totally understand but that doesn't mean it's healthy. Same goes for women having the same feeling about men.

[jahaims]

Depends if you think it is okay since it is a subjective term. Healthy lifestyle no.

[Anonymous]

That is intelligent of you.

[djjr33sx]

That makes 2 of us bro

[jokeface]

dont trust them dude :d