Is it bad that I don't trust women anymore?

[BraveHeart97]

After doing some research, I've come to the conclusion that maybe women shouldn't be trusted. I mean just look at who initiates most divorces and who are more likely cheat: women. Not to mention that thanks to feminism, women have become bitter and hateful towards men. Also, I read some articles online about how men were abused by their girlfriends and how women will use love in order to manipulate you into doing stuff for them only for them to only cheat on you behind your back. Now I'm getting the impression that women are just naturally narcisstic sociopaths which makes me question how we survived together for so long after all these years. Don't get me wrong, I don't hate women. I just don't see why society implies that we should always believe a woman's word even though there has been enough evidence to show that women tend to lie a lot.

[someho]

Ok i feel the same way about guys, i doubt is women who cheat mostly i think it doesn't depend on gender but more like personality.

There's lots of guys who make their relationship look perfect on the social media but as soon as the woman isn't near they try to get other women. I never been cheated on but i've been the girl whom they wanted to cheat with. They lie so good, you can easily fall for it. Just thinking of it makes me feel like i shouldn't date any guy because i'm scared the same thing would happen to me... i'm actually very attractive girl and there's always so many guys around who tries to catch my eye but most of them are just trying to get in my pants. They would do anything to make me believe they want more than that. But it's not they would hit it & quit it... they would keep using me and trying to lie (i guess)... but still just thinking of relationships other girls have, makes me not wanna have any... being lied to and deceived is the worst thing ever.

[someho]

Also i think relationships in the past were more real than what they are now. It's sad but real. I believe there must be some exceptions, yet we just have to find them.

[Blakeyy1986]

There comes a point when you stop caring about finding those "exceptions". If your parachute had a 90% chance of failing, would you go sky diving?

[Me134763]

I get that, I know it is hard for women. Especially at bars and just in general. As a dude, it actually saddens me that other guys will lie/manipulate/ deceive just to get into a woman’s pants. The area I struggle with is how to be desired as a man and not be looked upon as just a friend the entire time. It just becomes rather confusing for me. I should also preface, I a very empathetic and authentic man…more likely than not a product of growing up mostly in a female dominated household. I guess my real question boils down to this, how do you find a partner of substances when, in my experience, women put you in the category of just friends or a possible romantic partnership?

[Me134763]

Also, sorry for any grammatical errors, I have dyslexia, trying hard to work on spelling words properly in text form.

[wisdom_sharer]

Oh, hunny, you can't really make life choices (-live a life) based on "(some) research". TC

[Blakeyy1986]

We make most choices in life based on "some research". When you are sick and go to the doctor, he treats you based on "some reasearch".

[Anonymous]

yes i am a nice guy and been treated the same by women. plainly putting it they say they are nice and want mr nice, dont go on looks - what a load of bullshit. Lesrnt the hard way and no dont give a s--t what they think. My view has changed and women are only good for one thing as long as they keep their gobs shut. Women are manipulative coniving bitches. i am totally happy been single and give some respect to those women that dont play games. Suck on that. what for it, the insults from women that reply to my message saying i am dinosaur of a man. whatever, stew on this because women are all the same and cannot be trusted. haha

[turtl3man]

What I see here is you're generalising the entire female population over all the girls you've associated with. Maybe try going after different types of girls because no one is the same

[BraveHeart97]

I'm not sure man. I noticed that most women are fucked up these days and I'm not sure if I want to find more proof that I'm right.

[Blakeyy1986]

Just because 1 / 100 women doesn't do the things he mentioned that doesntean his points are invalid and these points are very well known to most men over the age of 25.

[Unknown43]

Of course women shouldn't be trusted look at all of mens problems stem from. One if you get married give her everything she cheats takes half and the kids and you pay support. Look at johnny depp with amber herd is prime example the total amount of life sucking soul crushing being they can be. Women are the main reason for a lot of men's problems. From demasculating men to not taking responsibility for their actions and blaming on men. There are lots of stories of women pretending that a man raped them and spending years acquitted to find that she lied. However no legal repercussions happen, because women are treated as goddesses. Who wins most in family court women. Look at jeff besos his ex wife became the richest woman in the world just by fucking him. Truth I don't trust women because every woman who is nice to you there is a movitive.

[Remcofemco]

For most women who say they don't trust guys as much as girls: You're lying. You're just hurt because we men don't trust women in general that's why you try to compensate something therefor you say it otherwise as a lie.

In general: women can never be trusted, they go easily astray by their emotions.

[Me134763]

Guys to though, the amount of visceral combination of rage/shame/disrespect that is felt in situations can have long lasting effects. To a certain extent, with these anonymous threads it is almost a form of relief to explain the hurt we have been dealt by individuals in the past. By no means am I trying to belittle the mix of all the emotions felt, it is more an interesting fact that we have to come here to voice our frustration rather than feeling it is safe to try to explain ourselves in person to people who we feel safe with…. if there even is such a place. Sometimes I think, maybe the stoic philosophers were on to something where showing as little emotion as possible is correct by modern psychology would argue against that train of thought. Honestly man, even though we may never meet in real life. I genuine hope the best for you dude on finding a compatible companion for life…. because in the end we all just want to be accepted.

[Blakeyy1986]

I dont date anymore for all the reasons you mentioned plus they expect men to be "amazing" and "incredible" while offering nothing themselves.

I know you dont hear this often girls but "looking cute" isn't everything. You need a personality as well to get the kind of man you are looking for.

[GirlsTonguesHOT]

Just become a misanthrope and hate everyone. It takes FAR less energy in hating everyone than say, a specific gender.

[Anonymous]

mine cheats and manipulates and emotionally and mentally abuses me