Niece is stealing and snooping from me?

[Anonymous]

She read all my texts messages to my husband the are our nude pictures in the messages too. She stole my clothes and air pods. I’m so pissed and disgusted. Her mother also does not like me. What should I do?

[abc3643]

Kill her.

No, seriously, the text messages are on you!
Practice security!
My boss said to me 20 years ago: "If you don't want it on the front page of The New York Times tomorrow, don't post/upload it."
Well, if you are going to sext and share nudes - whether with your husband or not - then expect that they might end up on the cover of The New York Times tomorrow! This means either A) don't send such stuff or B) practice security with passwords and stuff.

As for stealing clothes or air pods, set her up. Leave something that you think that she'd want to steal in a conspicuous spot that she'd see and commit the crime. BUT, you also have a hidden security cam aimed at the item. Then, when you catch her in the act on the recorded video from the video camera, you can confront both the girl and her mother. After all, you have evidence of her wrongdoing.

Then, immediately lay down the law to the girl and the mother simultaneously that the girl is not allowed over your home anymore. If the mother complains, say "Fine. We'll let the police handle this then when I get a restraining order for both of you. That video is enough to get them to give it to me. Pray I don't file charges which will not be good for her college and job futures."

[abc3643]

Watch and learn:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2y8SlYqBOX8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gmO53yBBCQ

[slatyb]

Your husband's niece? Have you told him? What did he say?

[2ndTryatThis]

I would keep your distance.. niece’s can be.. trouble

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Break her legs or feat at least. Just like in the movie Misery

[dudeinohio]

don't let her in your house anymore

[Iron_Man]

How old is she