Most guys aren't anywhere near as picky as females so who cares. If you want to live a life that makes you unattractive to males that's your CHOICE. You're not entitled to male attention just like a guy isn't entitled to female attention.
Please dont despise us. I try to always make sure the not so good looking woman does not feel bad and try to be nicer to her, but the looks are hardwired in our systems. If you are a stranger of course. But if you are not an acquantance and someone closer, then Id see heart, and you'll get furst preference. So, if someone you dont know very well does that, dont take it on heart.
Yes its wrong about human behaviour that we get attracted physically. I myself like pretty, fair curvy women. I ignore other women. Just like women get attracted to rich, funny, alpha men and ignore other men. Every human at some point discriminates.
If you’re talking about as far as being nice strictly as a person, I can agree with you. I’ve lived both lives and I can tell you it goes for the same sex as well. It’s especially noticing when you go from good looking muscular, having surgery then being fat and ugly, back to being athletic and good looking. You really notice it that time around.
Putting yourself out there like that is kind of degrading to begin with. Why would you need someone’s approval to boost your self esteem like that anyhow.
I would say a mature person will consider appearance but not obsess over it since it’s possible to look good and have nasty character make up. It’s also possible to be very kind but not look like a run way model or have a high pay cheque.
Guys already admit and justify their actions of discrimination. So they shouldn’t get upset or complain when women heed their lack of interest/criticism, that she goes out to get plastic surgery to look good.
Everyone has an innate 'good looks bias'. Hate to break it to you, but your appearance (not your body so much as external things, but including hair) can say a lot about you, like your hygiene, possible tastes in music, politics, etc. I think looks are certainly not all to a person, but that's the taster everyone gets. Girls certainly judge guys by appearance as well. Often that includes height, which can't be changed.
I fell in love with a girl that no one would consider.. she was legally blind, deaf, and had hip issues. She dumped me a month in us dating.. I don’t discriminate against any girl.. but it’s kinda messed up when even those you talk about do exactly what the rest do. (She ghosted me and didn’t want to give me an explanation why she just dropped me the way she did.)
Sorry to break it to ya. But it's both ways. Both men and women have high percentage that will handle differently when the other person is ugly or beautiful. I find it unfair. But I'd probably do the same unconsciously.
Men are visual... they prefer a woman who is visually appealing and looks like they can carry a child. Women are not as visual and look for providers and protectors. This should not be compared to racism in any form or fashion and. (Not that you compared it, but I see comments insinuating that you are.)
its because we never talk about pretty privilege. there's all this crazy body positivity stuff thats lying to women, men dont like women that weigh more than them. Too scared to be honest
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Can someone explain to me why many guys have exactly 11 dislike by pink profile and 6 dislikes by blue profile? There are even people who have almost 20 dislikes. Usually people get no more than 10 dislike. It is very weird and unusual. Is this a glitch? My opinion to your question is thst nobody should bodyshame anyone but physical preferences are ok. You can prefere tall men or tall curvy girls as long as you dont bodyshame short men or non curvy/short women for example.
So basically you are racist if you state that you being white don't like to date black women. Laugh... Black women who don't like to date white guys RACIST!
Lol tf nice irony. Black communuty itself has big problems. Black women get called traitors when they date other races by their own black community in us. So black women are kinda pressured to date their own men Lol i found a small community of mostly young black women on youtube who have enough of their own black men. This small youtube channel potray videos of many irracial couples and problems with black men- they kinda hate black men lool. I have read comments how some of them was told by black men that they have less worth and other women of races are more attractive and when these women start dating white/Asian men, the black men kinda get angry and jealous. Lol kinda stone age mentality.
i dont think anything of it. as long as theyr not going out of their way to call them ugly then i dont see the problem. i have my own preference too so im not gonna judge a guy if he has a preference
You can’t complain cuz girls are just like that. Look sorry to say but 98% of all guys and girls want to be with a partner that’s attractive. And if your not attractive, you’re walking home with nothing
I mean it’s the same way women discriminate men immediately as far as dating goes too especially on looks, how much money you got on and so on. As a Latino, where I live, women absolutely despise us of that ethnicity.
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Girls discriminate guys based on their looks more than guys do it , at least when they are young. Even a not so attractive girl can have lots of followers on social media , get many dates on dating apps. Unattractive guys are literally invisible. Plus girls can easily hide their flaws in makeup. Other way is not socially acceptable. You don’t hear it much as guys don’t talk about it outside
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Most guys aren't anywhere near as picky as females so who cares. If you want to live a life that makes you unattractive to males that's your CHOICE. You're not entitled to male attention just like a guy isn't entitled to female attention.
@hahahmm Four ugly girls who got pumped/dumped by Chad Thundercock down voted you.
Please dont despise us. I try to always make sure the not so good looking woman does not feel bad and try to be nicer to her, but the looks are hardwired in our systems. If you are a stranger of course. But if you are not an acquantance and someone closer, then Id see heart, and you'll get furst preference. So, if someone you dont know very well does that, dont take it on heart.
Yes its wrong about human behaviour that we get attracted physically.
I myself like pretty, fair curvy women.
I ignore other women.
Just like women get attracted to rich, funny, alpha men and ignore other men.
Every human at some point discriminates.
If you’re talking about as far as being nice strictly as a person, I can agree with you. I’ve lived both lives and I can tell you it goes for the same sex as well. It’s especially noticing when you go from good looking muscular, having surgery then being fat and ugly, back to being athletic and good looking. You really notice it that time around.
do you recognize a difference between shoes and sandals? THAT'S DISCRIMMINATION
the word discrimmination just means to notice a difference between 2 things. good looking girls... look better than ugly girls
this is nature. if you're ugly get over it
Putting yourself out there like that is kind of degrading to begin with. Why would you need someone’s approval to boost your self esteem like that anyhow.
I would say a mature person will consider appearance but not obsess over it since it’s possible to look good and have nasty character make up. It’s also possible to be very kind but not look like a run way model or have a high pay cheque.
Guys already admit and justify their actions of discrimination. So they shouldn’t get upset or complain when women heed their lack of interest/criticism, that she goes out to get plastic surgery to look good.
I think that they are missing out on knowing some really nice girls because they did not give them a chance.
I wouldn't want to date a guy who I don't find attractive. I know guys want to have sex and I can't have sex with a guy who I don't attractive.
who downvoted this entirely reasonable comment? did we get some antifa or queer kids in here new to the site or something?
Everyone has an innate 'good looks bias'. Hate to break it to you, but your appearance (not your body so much as external things, but including hair) can say a lot about you, like your hygiene, possible tastes in music, politics, etc. I think looks are certainly not all to a person, but that's the taster everyone gets. Girls certainly judge guys by appearance as well. Often that includes height, which can't be changed.
I fell in love with a girl that no one would consider.. she was legally blind, deaf, and had hip issues. She dumped me a month in us dating.. I don’t discriminate against any girl.. but it’s kinda messed up when even those you talk about do exactly what the rest do.
(She ghosted me and didn’t want to give me an explanation why she just dropped me the way she did.)
Sorry to break it to ya.
But it's both ways. Both men and women have high percentage that will handle differently when the other person is ugly or beautiful.
I find it unfair. But I'd probably do the same unconsciously.
Men are visual... they prefer a woman who is visually appealing and looks like they can carry a child. Women are not as visual and look for providers and protectors. This should not be compared to racism in any form or fashion and. (Not that you compared it, but I see comments insinuating that you are.)
its because we never talk about pretty privilege. there's all this crazy body positivity stuff thats lying to women, men dont like women that weigh more than them. Too scared to be honest
Can someone explain to me why many guys have exactly 11 dislike by pink profile and 6 dislikes by blue profile? There are even people who have almost 20 dislikes. Usually people get no more than 10 dislike. It is very weird and unusual. Is this a glitch?
My opinion to your question is thst nobody should bodyshame anyone but physical preferences are ok. You can prefere tall men or tall curvy girls as long as you dont bodyshame short men or non curvy/short women for example.
Female gagers also get many dislikes
So basically you are racist if you state that you being white don't like to date black women. Laugh... Black women who don't like to date white guys RACIST!
Lol tf nice irony. Black communuty itself has big problems. Black women get called traitors when they date other races by their own black community in us. So black women are kinda pressured to date their own men Lol i found a small community of mostly young black women on youtube who have enough of their own black men. This small youtube channel potray videos of many irracial couples and problems with black men- they kinda hate black men lool. I have read comments how some of them was told by black men that they have less worth and other women of races are more attractive and when these women start dating white/Asian men, the black men kinda get angry and jealous. Lol kinda stone age mentality.
I mean these black men have kinda stone age mentality. But i can't generalize of course
i dont think anything of it. as long as theyr not going out of their way to call them ugly then i dont see the problem. i have my own preference too so im not gonna judge a guy if he has a preference
You can’t complain cuz girls are just like that. Look sorry to say but 98% of all guys and girls want to be with a partner that’s attractive. And if your not attractive, you’re walking home with nothing
I mean it’s the same way women discriminate men immediately as far as dating goes too especially on looks, how much money you got on and so on. As a Latino, where I live, women absolutely despise us of that ethnicity.
Girls discriminate guys based on their looks more than guys do it , at least when they are young. Even a not so attractive girl can have lots of followers on social media , get many dates on dating apps. Unattractive guys are literally invisible. Plus girls can easily hide their flaws in makeup. Other way is not socially acceptable. You don’t hear it much as guys don’t talk about it outside