What do you think of guys that discriminate against girls based on their looks?

Question

And treat pretty girls better? The kind of guys on howdoilook Personally I despise them as much as I despise racists, sexists etc.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

I don't think anything of them except for they do not know who they are their followers and they wouldn't know true beauty if it bit him in the ass guys think that when they see somebody that's who they are it's so sad because what they don't understand is the person on the outside is not the real person the real person is on the inside the real person has a beautiful heart it's confident is giving is caring and is grown up or at least is growing up you would never ever see a guy asking this question about girls because he thinks he knows it anybody that look at you on the outside and judge Who You Are it's so totally wrong and it's their loss no I don't know you but based on your question I can guarantee you are a very beautiful person with a very beautiful heart and then say know that I could probably look to the outside of you and say your beauty is just an extra bonus when you meet somebody if they like you for just what you look like and they think that's who you are stay away from them because it's going to end up in heartache but if you need somebody and they are talking to you and loving you as the person on the inside that's who you want that's who you will be happy with because they will know the real you

hellionthesagereborn · Accepted Answer

Name me a single human being that doesn't discriminate based on looks. Just one.

Their is a reason why women don't go after morbidly obese short men but rather go after attractive and tall men. Physical attraction is absolutely 100% innate for both genders.

Now if looks are the only thing that matters, yeah thats stupid. While we know for a fact that more attractive people are seen in a more positive light (again, its a innate people have no control over that instinctive response), its also true that people should have enough self control to not let that affect their judgment (but this applies to women as much as men).

That said, what is also very unattractive is bitterness. I'm sorry that things didn't work out for you but getting bitter about it will not change anything. If you do not like your looks, do what you can to change them, be the best version of yourself that you can be and be confident in who you are and men will appreciate that and you will feel better about yourself.

Goddess_Lexii · Accepted Answer

Well you have to be sexually attracted to someone for a long-term intimate relationship to work. So I understand guys who simply give less attractive women less attention.
They still should not treat “ugly” women any different. There is no need to be mean about it.
Another thing people forget is that we are animals, and we have primal instincts whether they admit it or not. A female is genetically designed to find a strong man with good genes to collect his seed. A male is genetically designed to find a strong woman with good genes to plant his seed.
Modern culture tries to ignore and defy this innate reality of nature.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

All humans do that, just to varying degrees. You can't teach that out of people.

People who live on the streets get less help when they're having a medical emergency, than nicely dressed people do, in the same situation.
Also, people wearing brighter colours are given more help and concern.
People who are more polite, polished, and put together also get better service.
That's life.
You can compensate by the way you act, and being composed and friendly. It also makes a big difference.

TruthBringer · Answer

Can you elaborate what you mean by "discrimination"? There are many ways someone could be discriminated against. Any form of discrimination whereas people should have equal rights is unjust. If a guy would allow a girl to skip the line purely because she happens to be pretty, while not giving the same opportunity to a girl who he finds less attractive, is pretty much simp behavior. It also shows lack of morals and integrity on his end. Another example is a guy picks the pretty ones to do the group project with while leaving the lesser attractive ones. This also points out he is a simp with no morals and prioritizes looks over the quality of input each member of the group brings.

But when it comes to dating, that would have nothing to do with discrimination, but rather preference. No one wants to date someone they don't find attractive. And let us be frank, you're complaining about guys, but women do this equally if not even more than men do. A VERY common thing is that taller men can get away with more than shorter men. Same goes for men who are generally more handsome than others.

What do you think of guys that discriminate against girls based on their looks?

Anonymous · Answer

So, I'm surprised that everyone, who answered this question, thinks it has to do with dating. Even G@G thought that, that's why they chose that pic...
As if people don't get discriminated against in other aspects of their life (workplace, social life etc.) cause of their looks.. Ever heard of the story of the "hunchback of Notre Dame"?
You know what? You can date everyone you want, you're entitled to your own preference, but when you treat people you don't like as dog$hit, then you aren't a very good person. At the very least you're shallow

And if that's really human nature, then it's evil

oldasIfeel22 · Answer

Ah okay. I’m sure girls have never ignored, disrespected or insulted an unattractive guy for just saying “hello” to them or anything. I’m sure they never labeled a guy a “creep” just because they think he’s unattractive and/or socially awkward.

Also I’m sure women have never got excited when an attractive guy made sexual comments out loud to them. They see him as “cute”, “funny” and “confident”. But if a guy they don’t think is attractive says the EXACT same thing he is a sexist creep.

Your a kid. So it will take some time to get experience to see this from both sides.

Novacane · Answer

I just think about how they grew up and how can they have so much hate inside them towards people they probably don't even know. But then again that is a common thing that happens, women do it towards men as well it's not a gender thing it's more of a beauty standard thing where people who are portrayed or seen as better-looking people will always help to a higher standard and praised more. That's why "pretty privilege" is a thing. We are always taught not to judge a book by its cover but let's be honest we all judge someone from their looks some more or less than others but in general, we all do men or women.

Lionman95 · Answer

What do you mean exactly? There are many girls that doing the same to guys so I´d rather say it´s a modern trend. People became more focussed on the looks because it´s what everybody´s presenting.
Guys and girls alike do that because they like the feeling of power they get from it.
I don´t think it´s apropriate though because if you wanna be treated with love you should treat people that way first.
There are many guys around that because they are either bored or frustrated themselves because finding real love is hard today and I think that´s at least what most of us actually are looking for.
There are so many pics of "roast me"/ "rate me" on the internet that is has become a trend to tell people what you think about them without thinking about the question if it´s appropriate first.

RingOfFire · Answer

A person has a right to discriminate against anyone for any reason they want in their personal life. And you have a right to discriminate against them because of who they discriminate against in your personal life if you wish.

You don't have to like what other people think or say, but if you want to have the same right extended to you, you have to have respect their right to think or say it. Freedom is about tolerating other peoples' right to think and say what they want even if you don't like it.

The First Amendment to the US Constitution was designed exactly for the purpose of protecting the right to express thoughts and speech that is offensive to some people because if it's not offensive it doesn't need any protection.

That's part of what being free means.

Breanna_nonbinary · Answer

I think that guys that discriminate against girl based on their looks are just as bad as girls that discriminate against guys based on their looks. The problem goes both ways.

HawkPerception · Answer

I would never disrespect girls I don't find attractive. I just don't comment on them. "If you have nothing good to say, don't say it." The world would be a very negative place if everyone stated all their negative opinions of others openly.

That being said, everyone is free to have their own preferences as long as they aren't insulting others.

That being said, everyone has prefer

Anonymous · Answer

I personally don't care for them at all..

As someone who has been discriminated against by people before cause of the way I look (there was a girl and a guy that once accused me of being a thief and a stalker and bullied me, because in their opinion I looked like a weirdo, ugly and mentally unstable--how can you even tell whether someone is mentally unstable from the way they dress), I know there are some good people in the world too that aren't like that...

Disclaimer: I'm not talking about dating preferences, I'm talking about actual discrimination and bullying, which in my opinion is never ok... OP in the title of the question clearly mentions the world "discrimination", so I'm assuming she's not talking about dating here

btbc92 · Answer

I don't like those types of men and don't be around them. When I see them I ignore them and warn others to be careful of that type of guy. Other's looks aren't their business. Those guys are not attractive to me. You cannot treat me better and treat others badly. Poor character.

Adam1978 · Answer

It's natural, Do I treat attractive women better, certainly but to me it's really about not treating the unattractive bad. If I treated unattractive girl the same way as attractive they would think I would be interested which would be guving them false hopes, and playing with their emotions. Which I think is gruel compared to not treating them as good. And send the right signals.

Siren777 · Answer

I don't hate on people and don't have time for drama. Avoid them & ignore them if you can't put them in their place or stand up for yourself. As only the strong survive in the survival of the fittest.
People will always have their preferences. It's a fact. People will always judge you, criticize you and it's only important when you give it importance to your life. Don't let haters opinions rule your life.

Éhmîë · Answer

Please don't feel discriminated because it happens most times. Don't expect everyone to like u and everyone to hate u. If no one's attracted to u, that doesn't mean that u aren't pretty enough. Someday, someone will like you for who u are not for who u claim to be. In the meantime, concentrate on ur life dreams and aspirations and chill off too😊. Life still goes on...

BeMuse · Answer

I think they are level headed. They know how to distinguish from people they are attracted to vs people they are not attracted to. People tend to treat those they care about and become close to better than everyone else. That probably wouldn’t register in the mind of a crack baby like you, but I gave it shot… Maybe common sense will break through your psychotic delusions.

throwsomecheeseonit · Answer

I mean let's be honest it has been going on forever and some women use it to advantage like pretty girl that got promotion with no skill set. But no I judge based on actions and personality could care less how you look. I would be friends with a ugly hobbit if they were cool.

watrewks · Answer

Everyone treats pretty people better even if you’re not aware of it, you do. It’s scientifically verified.

The assholeish thing to do is to consciously do it for the sake of treating people you don’t find attractive as lesser human beings.

So if someone treats attractive people better then it’s just life, but if they try to put others down then they are scum.

PeacefulRainDrop · Answer

Guys do it to girls and girls do it to guys.. its a fact of life sadly There are people of both genders who could care less as long as its a nice person..

aliali8 · Answer

i think physical attraction is always gonna matter. but the problem only arises when the guy is too picky or too obsessed with looks. The type of guy who says he will never date an average looking girl. And believe me when i say that these guys do not make good faithful husbands.

Qdbrown · Answer

Because it's perfectly normal and men are hardwired to find the prettiest girl to mate with. This goes back few centuries. It's not some global conspiracy.

This is like buying a car, and going to the dealer to find the oldest, most worn out car and trying to pay the highest price on the lot to get it, for all it's not so good points. Yes, it's still a car and it might be good, but most guys for the same effort will seek out better. Be it cars or women.

boombastik · Answer

I think that is how nature intended things to work. You see someone you'd like to share your seed with and you woo them. If there is no attraction then move on. Unfortunately this world has been turned into a materialistic world based on goods & services so we are having to deal with a whole lot more people in a daily basis than what we used to. Before you had to take action while you had the chance. Besides, women do this too.

hahahmm · Answer

Most guys aren't anywhere near as picky as females so who cares. If you want to live a life that makes you unattractive to males that's your CHOICE. You're not entitled to male attention just like a guy isn't entitled to female attention.

jamiematt · Answer

Please dont despise us. I try to always make sure the not so good looking woman does not feel bad and try to be nicer to her, but the looks are hardwired in our systems. If you are a stranger of course. But if you are not an acquantance and someone closer, then Id see heart, and you'll get furst preference. So, if someone you dont know very well does that, dont take it on heart.

kamalravi25 · Answer

Yes its wrong about human behaviour that we get attracted physically.
I myself like pretty, fair curvy women.
I ignore other women.
Just like women get attracted to rich, funny, alpha men and ignore other men.
Every human at some point discriminates.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

If you’re talking about as far as being nice strictly as a person, I can agree with you. I’ve lived both lives and I can tell you it goes for the same sex as well. It’s especially noticing when you go from good looking muscular, having surgery then being fat and ugly, back to being athletic and good looking. You really notice it that time around.

007kingifrit · Answer

do you recognize a difference between shoes and sandals? THAT'S DISCRIMMINATION

the word discrimmination just means to notice a difference between 2 things. good looking girls... look better than ugly girls

this is nature. if you're ugly get over it

HereKittieKitty · Answer

Men are visual... they prefer a woman who is visually appealing and looks like they can carry a child. Women are not as visual and look for providers and protectors. This should not be compared to racism in any form or fashion and. (Not that you compared it, but I see comments insinuating that you are.)

On_cloud_wine · Answer

Putting yourself out there like that is kind of degrading to begin with. Why would you need someone’s approval to boost your self esteem like that anyhow.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would say a mature person will consider appearance but not obsess over it since it’s possible to look good and have nasty character make up. It’s also possible to be very kind but not look like a run way model or have a high pay cheque.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Guys already admit and justify their actions of discrimination. So they shouldn’t get upset or complain when women heed their lack of interest/criticism, that she goes out to get plastic surgery to look good.

exitseven · Answer

I think that they are missing out on knowing some really nice girls because they did not give them a chance.

hannahjo022 · Answer

I wouldn't want to date a guy who I don't find attractive. I know guys want to have sex and I can't have sex with a guy who I don't attractive.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Everyone has an innate 'good looks bias'. Hate to break it to you, but your appearance (not your body so much as external things, but including hair) can say a lot about you, like your hygiene, possible tastes in music, politics, etc. I think looks are certainly not all to a person, but that's the taster everyone gets. Girls certainly judge guys by appearance as well. Often that includes height, which can't be changed.

matthonker · Answer

You can’t complain cuz girls are just like that. Look sorry to say but 98% of all guys and girls want to be with a partner that’s attractive. And if your not attractive, you’re walking home with nothing

tbr281tr · Answer

I fell in love with a girl that no one would consider.. she was legally blind, deaf, and had hip issues. She dumped me a month in us dating.. I don’t discriminate against any girl.. but it’s kinda messed up when even those you talk about do exactly what the rest do.
(She ghosted me and didn’t want to give me an explanation why she just dropped me the way she did.)

Angelo75 · Answer

Sorry to break it to ya.
But it's both ways. Both men and women have high percentage that will handle differently when the other person is ugly or beautiful.
I find it unfair. But I'd probably do the same unconsciously.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

its because we never talk about pretty privilege. there's all this crazy body positivity stuff thats lying to women, men dont like women that weigh more than them. Too scared to be honest

Anonymous · Answer

Can someone explain to me why many guys have exactly 11 dislike by pink profile and 6 dislikes by blue profile? There are even people who have almost 20 dislikes. Usually people get no more than 10 dislike. It is very weird and unusual. Is this a glitch?
My opinion to your question is thst nobody should bodyshame anyone but physical preferences are ok. You can prefere tall men or tall curvy girls as long as you dont bodyshame short men or non curvy/short women for example.

Somegirl408 · Answer

i dont think anything of it. as long as theyr not going out of their way to call them ugly then i dont see the problem. i have my own preference too so im not gonna judge a guy if he has a preference

AgentRED · Answer

I mean it’s the same way women discriminate men immediately as far as dating goes too especially on looks, how much money you got on and so on. As a Latino, where I live, women absolutely despise us of that ethnicity.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls discriminate guys based on their looks more than guys do it , at least when they are young. Even a not so attractive girl can have lots of followers on social media , get many dates on dating apps. Unattractive guys are literally invisible. Plus girls can easily hide their flaws in makeup. Other way is not socially acceptable. You don’t hear it much as guys don’t talk about it outside

ThePolishKnight37 · Answer

They are shallow and might want to look ion a mirror, bet they are not all that in the looks department.

pjf1958 · Answer

It is very difficult to respect any individual who behaves in such a shallow manner.

SphynxUK · Answer

I don’t think it’s discrimination. It’s being shallow. And women do the same thing. I don’t have time for it personally.

Sweetener_ · Answer

I don't think about them, simply because it's human to do so. Both genders do it.

HiveBee · Answer

As if girls dont do the same. You just have a different style when you females go about it.

genericname85 · Answer

Litterally everyone does that. Girls and guys. Specially when it comes to dating. It's the most natural thing in the world.

JDavid25 · Answer

I noticed many of the people have the same number is dislikes for men and women.. Somebody is trolling hard.. 😂😂..

supercutebutt · Answer

I like it. Mainly because I'm a smoldering smokeshow. :)

jshm2 · Answer

Nothing. They are just exercising their free opinions. As are girls who judge guys.  Bullying and catcalling are a different thing though.

Lauren-green · Answer

Well girls do it too so it goes both ways. Not that that makes it right or anything.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

"Discriminate"? People are allowed to have preferences.

StunningANDbrave · Answer

You only have an issue with it because you're not the girl they see as desirable.

kidvid80 · Answer

i have witnessed both sides, guys who discriminate with looks but girls who discriminate against guys height

Biloscothu · Answer

The only time when i care about a girls looks are when i am looking to make her my girlfriend Never otherwise So am i a guy who you would say discriminates?

WowwGirl · Answer

No a lot of times they are shitty to pretty girls too because they know they won't date them. Those guys are just bitter women and made cause they can't get laid

Ninjazzed · Answer

I think they’re unfit to be critiquing anyone when they typically put minimum effort in their hygiene or attire.  At least women have makeup, men are ugly for life.

DWornock · Answer

Because looks--small waist to hip ratio, bilateral symmetry, and smooth clear skin are the primary indicator of fecundity, good health, and good genes which in turn greatly determines the virility and vitality of their children.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I'm not a fan. Treat all people with respect always.

K-I-S-S · Answer

We like to use our eyes. Guys who treat unattractive women bad are still assholes.  But it's totally okay not to be interested in them romantically.

MyNameJames · Answer

Pretty shallow but it's not something I can judge as it is a factor most everyone takes into account but usually isn't that big a priority for a good guy or girl

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