Personally I despise them as much as I despise racists, sexists etc.
What do you think of guys that discriminate against girls based on their looks?
Personally I despise them as much as I despise racists, sexists etc.
I don't think anything of them except for they do not know who they are their followers and they wouldn't know true beauty if it bit him in the ass guys think that when they see somebody that's who they are it's so sad because what they don't understand is the person on the outside is not the real person the real person is on the inside the real person has a beautiful heart it's confident is giving is caring and is grown up or at least is growing up you would never ever see a guy asking this question about girls because he thinks he knows it anybody that look at you on the outside and judge Who You Are it's so totally wrong and it's their loss no I don't know you but based on your question I can guarantee you are a very beautiful person with a very beautiful heart and then say know that I could probably look to the outside of you and say your beauty is just an extra bonus when you meet somebody if they like you for just what you look like and they think that's who you are stay away from them because it's going to end up in heartache but if you need somebody and they are talking to you and loving you as the person on the inside that's who you want that's who you will be happy with because they will know the real you
Name me a single human being that doesn't discriminate based on looks. Just one.
Their is a reason why women don't go after morbidly obese short men but rather go after attractive and tall men. Physical attraction is absolutely 100% innate for both genders.
Now if looks are the only thing that matters, yeah thats stupid. While we know for a fact that more attractive people are seen in a more positive light (again, its a innate people have no control over that instinctive response), its also true that people should have enough self control to not let that affect their judgment (but this applies to women as much as men).
That said, what is also very unattractive is bitterness. I'm sorry that things didn't work out for you but getting bitter about it will not change anything. If you do not like your looks, do what you can to change them, be the best version of yourself that you can be and be confident in who you are and men will appreciate that and you will feel better about yourself.
@Cathy7734 Well thank you, kind of expected a lot of down votes to be honest (what we need to hear is rarely what we want to hear).
Well you have to be sexually attracted to someone for a long-term intimate relationship to work. So I understand guys who simply give less attractive women less attention.
They still should not treat “ugly” women any different. There is no need to be mean about it.
Another thing people forget is that we are animals, and we have primal instincts whether they admit it or not. A female is genetically designed to find a strong man with good genes to collect his seed. A male is genetically designed to find a strong woman with good genes to plant his seed.
Modern culture tries to ignore and defy this innate reality of nature.
All humans do that, just to varying degrees. You can't teach that out of people.
People who live on the streets get less help when they're having a medical emergency, than nicely dressed people do, in the same situation.
Also, people wearing brighter colours are given more help and concern.
People who are more polite, polished, and put together also get better service.
That's life.
You can compensate by the way you act, and being composed and friendly. It also makes a big difference.
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Can you elaborate what you mean by "discrimination"? There are many ways someone could be discriminated against. Any form of discrimination whereas people should have equal rights is unjust. If a guy would allow a girl to skip the line purely because she happens to be pretty, while not giving the same opportunity to a girl who he finds less attractive, is pretty much simp behavior. It also shows lack of morals and integrity on his end. Another example is a guy picks the pretty ones to do the group project with while leaving the lesser attractive ones. This also points out he is a simp with no morals and prioritizes looks over the quality of input each member of the group brings.
But when it comes to dating, that would have nothing to do with discrimination, but rather preference. No one wants to date someone they don't find attractive. And let us be frank, you're complaining about guys, but women do this equally if not even more than men do. A VERY common thing is that taller men can get away with more than shorter men. Same goes for men who are generally more handsome than others.
women do do this far more often then we do. even when it comes to a simple thing like a hookup or a one night stand they still have sky high standards. and even towards themselves too, you will always hear more women fat/skinny shaming each other probably twice or triple times as we do
@TruthBringer. Well said sir!
@CasaNorba Exactly, gotta love the hypocrisy. This whole thread is merely a projection, trying to label men as sexist while ignoring the fact that this behavior is very much prevalent among women especially
Ah okay. I’m sure girls have never ignored, disrespected or insulted an unattractive guy for just saying “hello” to them or anything. I’m sure they never labeled a guy a “creep” just because they think he’s unattractive and/or socially awkward.
Also I’m sure women have never got excited when an attractive guy made sexual comments out loud to them. They see him as “cute”, “funny” and “confident”. But if a guy they don’t think is attractive says the EXACT same thing he is a sexist creep.
Your a kid. So it will take some time to get experience to see this from both sides.
So, I'm surprised that everyone, who answered this question, thinks it has to do with dating. Even G@G thought that, that's why they chose that pic...
As if people don't get discriminated against in other aspects of their life (workplace, social life etc.) cause of their looks.. Ever heard of the story of the "hunchback of Notre Dame"?
You know what? You can date everyone you want, you're entitled to your own preference, but when you treat people you don't like as dog$hit, then you aren't a very good person. At the very least you're shallow
And if that's really human nature, then it's evil
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@Anazapta That's what I said
I just think about how they grew up and how can they have so much hate inside them towards people they probably don't even know. But then again that is a common thing that happens, women do it towards men as well it's not a gender thing it's more of a beauty standard thing where people who are portrayed or seen as better-looking people will always help to a higher standard and praised more. That's why "pretty privilege" is a thing. We are always taught not to judge a book by its cover but let's be honest we all judge someone from their looks some more or less than others but in general, we all do men or women.
What do you mean exactly? There are many girls that doing the same to guys so I´d rather say it´s a modern trend. People became more focussed on the looks because it´s what everybody´s presenting.
Guys and girls alike do that because they like the feeling of power they get from it.
I don´t think it´s apropriate though because if you wanna be treated with love you should treat people that way first.
There are many guys around that because they are either bored or frustrated themselves because finding real love is hard today and I think that´s at least what most of us actually are looking for.
There are so many pics of "roast me"/ "rate me" on the internet that is has become a trend to tell people what you think about them without thinking about the question if it´s appropriate first.
I think that guys that discriminate against girl based on their looks are just as bad as girls that discriminate against guys based on their looks. The problem goes both ways.
i feel like a lot of you are just responding emotionally to the word "discriminate" and aren't really thinking about the actual lack of merit in the quesiton
she's basically saying "these boys are mean for not paying more attention to me" which is pathetic
A person has a right to discriminate against anyone for any reason they want in their personal life. And you have a right to discriminate against them because of who they discriminate against in your personal life if you wish.
You don't have to like what other people think or say, but if you want to have the same right extended to you, you have to have respect their right to think or say it. Freedom is about tolerating other peoples' right to think and say what they want even if you don't like it.
The First Amendment to the US Constitution was designed exactly for the purpose of protecting the right to express thoughts and speech that is offensive to some people because if it's not offensive it doesn't need any protection.
That's part of what being free means.
The fact that you assume OP is American, shows how self-centred and out of touch with reality Americans are. Not everyone in the world has the same culture and laws with you. There are laws against discrimination in the workplace based on someone's age, ethnicity and/or.. looks elsewhere in the world
I personally don't care for them at all..
As someone who has been discriminated against by people before cause of the way I look (there was a girl and a guy that once accused me of being a thief and a stalker and bullied me, because in their opinion I looked like a weirdo, ugly and mentally unstable--how can you even tell whether someone is mentally unstable from the way they dress), I know there are some good people in the world too that aren't like that...
Disclaimer: I'm not talking about dating preferences, I'm talking about actual discrimination and bullying, which in my opinion is never ok... OP in the title of the question clearly mentions the world "discrimination", so I'm assuming she's not talking about dating here
I don't like those types of men and don't be around them. When I see them I ignore them and warn others to be careful of that type of guy. Other's looks aren't their business. Those guys are not attractive to me. You cannot treat me better and treat others badly. Poor character.
I would never disrespect girls I don't find attractive. I just don't comment on them. "If you have nothing good to say, don't say it." The world would be a very negative place if everyone stated all their negative opinions of others openly.
That being said, everyone is free to have their own preferences as long as they aren't insulting others.
That being said, everyone has prefer
It's natural, Do I treat attractive women better, certainly but to me it's really about not treating the unattractive bad. If I treated unattractive girl the same way as attractive they would think I would be interested which would be guving them false hopes, and playing with their emotions. Which I think is gruel compared to not treating them as good. And send the right signals.
I don't hate on people and don't have time for drama. Avoid them & ignore them if you can't put them in their place or stand up for yourself. As only the strong survive in the survival of the fittest.
People will always have their preferences. It's a fact. People will always judge you, criticize you and it's only important when you give it importance to your life. Don't let haters opinions rule your life.
I think they are level headed. They know how to distinguish from people they are attracted to vs people they are not attracted to. People tend to treat those they care about and become close to better than everyone else. That probably wouldn’t register in the mind of a crack baby like you, but I gave it shot… Maybe common sense will break through your psychotic delusions.
I mean let's be honest it has been going on forever and some women use it to advantage like pretty girl that got promotion with no skill set. But no I judge based on actions and personality could care less how you look. I would be friends with a ugly hobbit if they were cool.
Really so you disliked my answer whoever you are for being real I didn't saw I was like that just saying how the world is all smh people
Everyone treats pretty people better even if you’re not aware of it, you do. It’s scientifically verified.
The assholeish thing to do is to consciously do it for the sake of treating people you don’t find attractive as lesser human beings.
So if someone treats attractive people better then it’s just life, but if they try to put others down then they are scum.
Please don't feel discriminated because it happens most times. Don't expect everyone to like u and everyone to hate u. If no one's attracted to u, that doesn't mean that u aren't pretty enough. Someday, someone will like you for who u are not for who u claim to be. In the meantime, concentrate on ur life dreams and aspirations and chill off too😊. Life still goes on...
Guys do it to girls and girls do it to guys.. its a fact of life sadly
There are people of both genders who could care less as long as its a nice person..
i think physical attraction is always gonna matter. but the problem only arises when the guy is too picky or too obsessed with looks. The type of guy who says he will never date an average looking girl. And believe me when i say that these guys do not make good faithful husbands.
Because it's perfectly normal and men are hardwired to find the prettiest girl to mate with. This goes back few centuries. It's not some global conspiracy.
This is like buying a car, and going to the dealer to find the oldest, most worn out car and trying to pay the highest price on the lot to get it, for all it's not so good points. Yes, it's still a car and it might be good, but most guys for the same effort will seek out better. Be it cars or women.
Again with guys comparing women with cars 🤦🏻♀️
We can do this too. This is a loser man, ladies. ⬆️
@bannacookies funny how when you don't give the woke answer, you're somehow a bad man? Right...
I think that is how nature intended things to work. You see someone you'd like to share your seed with and you woo them. If there is no attraction then move on. Unfortunately this world has been turned into a materialistic world based on goods & services so we are having to deal with a whole lot more people in a daily basis than what we used to. Before you had to take action while you had the chance. Besides, women do this too.
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