How come guys seem scared to approach me?

[ragazza91]

its like I'm not ugly people describe me as hot and I'm nice but it feels like only the ugly girls get asked out. I talk to everybody I don't discriminate. I mean guys will ask me to hang out but they fail to mention that they have girlfriends. I use to make the first move but now I'm starting to think that I shouldn't. its not like I expect every guy to ask me out I just feel that I'm intimidating like when I talk to a guy first he looks surprised its annoying.

[jacki2424]

I'd say its because you're really pretty. That intimidates people and they don't know how to act around you, approach you, let alone figure out how to ask you out on a date. Guys are going to be surprised when you ask them out because you're pretty and so they probably wonder "why is she interested in me? she's way out of my league."

I'd say still make the first move, otherwise you'll never going to get the guy you want. You'll end up waiting, and that just sux.

Remain strong, be nice/friendly to all you meet, and when you meet a guy you want just go for it. Don't worry so much about not being approached, because if you do all thie things I just listed people will approach you in the end.

[Lamnad]

I am not joking here, you might be to hot to be approached. the kinda guys who have to confidence to even talk to you are probably ether taken, because the had the balls to ask another girl out, or desperate. there is a third group who were dared to talk to you and have less spine then they have fear of rejection but you don't want them.

[JohnnyBlaze]

Lamnad's right; you may be too pretty for some guys. I know you may not like to, but you'll probably have to do the approaching, rather than waiting for guys to come to you.

I don't mean this facetiously; I am sorry.

[callmejas]

a lot of hot people seem unfriendly and judgemental. do you feel more scared approaching a hot guy or an average looking one? just smile more, laugh more, and you will seem more approachable.

[Anonymous]

Not every ugly girl got asked out...sometimes they just get left alone,mock and insulted by stranger whom they don't even know...

[Anonymous]

Maybe they think you have a boyfriend or they think your too good for them...if your attractive then u'll have this problem