I’m 28 Virgin never had sex am I missing out?

[BogeyMulligan]

My friends keep telling me I waisted my youth because I didn’t experience getting laid in my early twenties.

Updates

+1 y

I did it. Got rid of it.

[litty]

I'd recommend trying it at least once in your life. It can be fun. The hard part is finding the right partner you can trust. While dating and relationships can be complicated, once you are in your groove, you can get steady sex every day or week if you like. It's a time investment.

But if you'd rather just get straight to the sex, there's nothing wrong with going to a brothel, escort, ranch, etc. other than making sure you have protection. That's more no strings attached and you can get a lot of practice and being comfortable around another naked body.

Sex to me, is like a skill. The more you do it, the better you get. It's also true regarding the person you are having sex with. You start to know what they like, what turns them on. Making the other person orgasm is also very enjoyable to see.

However, it's important to be relaxed when it comes to sex. Any pressure you feel can affect your performance and get into your head. Tell yourself "Who cares," have no expectations, and just take it all in with your senses

[BogeyMulligan]

I don’t want to spend money either on sex like going to a strip club or brothel I rather do it naturally

[litty]

How did it go?

[BogeyMulligan]

Challenging at first as you said it’s a skill

[litty]

Yeah, it's like a skill. Thing is it will be different depending on who you are with. What works with one person won't work for the other. Some women are more sensitive to touch down there while others love it when you are rough. Keeping an open mind and ear will go a long way.

[exitseven]

It depends on what you did instead of sex. If you were working on a career or education I would say no. If you sat in mom's basement playing video games I would say yes.

[BogeyMulligan]

I was mostly working and going to school at the time so yea.

[exitseven]

don't sweat it. You will make up for it. And believe me, you shouldn't listen to what people tell you about missing out.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[exitseven]

RE: UPDATE Did you get a bogey or a Mulligan?

[BogeyMulligan]

I got a hole in one lol

[loves2learn]

Yessss 😂 Hope it was a good experience!

[exitseven]

@bogeymulligan hahahhaha

[hi_it_is_me123]

No it is perfectly ok. It is good that you dont have sex just to loose your virginity. Some guys loose their virginity to random girls in order to not be virgin anymore because they feel ashamed of being a virgin. I respect your decision and self-control

[hi_it_is_me123]

If you were a girl people would congratulate you for being virgin at 28. It is funny how hypocritical people are in the commentsection

[BogeyMulligan]

Yea I seem to notice if wanted to do it I want it to be genuine with someone I have a deep connection with not just throwing with someone I have no interest for or any spark of interest I guess what I’m trying to say don’t want be a Male Slut there I created a new term. Lol

[hi_it_is_me123]

Lol i respect your decision. So i agree with you

[BogeyMulligan]

Thank you I appreciate you’re opinion

[zaharuh]

I guess everyone is different but if you asked me I'd say you're missing out.

[BogeyMulligan]

How am I missing out what am I doing that’s wrong?

[zaharuh]

Well like I enjoy sex a lot but you couldn't really grasp the whole experience until you have tried it 🤷‍♀️ I don't think you're doing anything wrong but unless you're chaste why not get some experience.

[BogeyMulligan]

I do want to get some experience but I kind want to save it for the right person?

[zaharuh]

Oh that's sweet, that's completely fine.

[moviedude714]

Do you feel saving it for the right person has had an effect as for a while you think you have not had sex yet?

[BogeyMulligan]

I don't know I guess?

[moviedude714]

Are you implying that you've never dated anyone either?

[BogeyMulligan]

No I haven’t a real relationship with a Girl/Woman

[moviedude714]

Sorry to hear that man but at the same time it's definitely not unheard of and more common than you think, it's just that it has always depressed and irritated me how it seems cases like this are male-dominated

[moviedude714]

How did you meet this woman? Just asking based on your update

[BogeyMulligan]

Strip club

[moviedude714]

One of my friends from middle school told me he lost his virginity to a stripper at a strip club, of course he paid her but he has no regrets doing that

[moviedude714]

Is that how it happened for you as well?

[BogeyMulligan]

Yea I have no regrets

[moviedude714]

Oh ok, so you ended up paying the stripper to take your virginity? Just asking because I was wondering if it happened differently for you compared to my friend

[moviedude714]

Hope this raises your self-esteem and confidence for getting a girlfriend

[BogeyMulligan]

Hope so

[moviedude714]

But yeah overall I hope this experience did boost your self-esteem and make you feel better

[BogeyMulligan]

Thanks man appreciate it though I do feel weird losing my virginity after the fact it’s I took off something that is part of me.

[moviedude714]

Yeah I think that's a common feeling for many people, but no regrets paying for your first time?

[BogeyMulligan]

I’m mean yea but it still feels weird I’m not a virgin anymore to be honest.

[moviedude714]

Well overall has long as it boosted your self-esteem or made you feel better about yourself, because I know it varies for many guys, as in, some say they regret paying for sex, others say they don't.

[BogeyMulligan]

Sex is like a skill you have to be familiar what your doing,

[IHateBeingaMan]

have you considered going to an escort or paying for it?

[BogeyMulligan]

No I have more respect for myself when it comes to that situation so no.

[IHateBeingaMan]

how did it end up finally happening for you?

[IHateBeingaMan]

how did it happen for you at the strip club?

[BogeyMulligan]

Paid the woman and then ripped and dipped

[IHateBeingaMan]

well awesome, hopefully this experience was positive or good for you, no regrets right?

[BogeyMulligan]

Pretty much

[IHateBeingaMan]

glad to hear man, so you feel it has raised your self-esteem?

[BogeyMulligan]

I mean yea a bit but I still feel the same

[IHateBeingaMan]

still feel the same as in how?

[BogeyMulligan]

I mean the insecurity is still there

[IHateBeingaMan]

insecurity over what? how was sex for you the first time?

[BogeyMulligan]

Like it’s an actual skill

[IHateBeingaMan]

my guess is, it was in cowgirl or doggy your first time having sex, was that the sex position for you?

[IHateBeingaMan]

i've never paid for sex before, but it's not out of the question for me, i have considered it, such as to end a long dryspell

[Zygum]

Your friends are right, you have wasted and still wasting your youth, get some girlfriend and enjoy your youth

[Dinosaursandanime65]

And least you don’t know what you’re missing out on if anything.

[loves2learn]

Re your update: Congrats! Did you enjoy it?

[BogeyMulligan]

We’ll beginning was difficult and in the end 😫😫😩🤤you know what i mean 😏

[loves2learn]

Yup. Lol

[Renegade_Sailor]

Yep. Missing a lot.

[BogeyMulligan]

How?

[ewok737]

STD's and child support for 18 + years.

[BogeyMulligan]

Duly noted

[ChiPaPa]

In all seriousness, no.

[Relux47]

I’m a 26 year old virgin