
Is this restroom sexist?


sexist?
this is just wrong and what's worse is that the reason you post are Because most men don't find this disturbing at all and the reason the situation you explain as reversed would ever happen is because women do find an issue with a man being painted on a wall watching... so the real question is why don't men find this disturbing? if you don't find it disturbing, why should you get mad because someone else does? as in the opposite sex finding it bothersome...
it's wrong to have these women painted on there but the reason it hasn't or wouldn't cause any commotion is because you guys don't find anything wrong with that, and THAT in itself is something to question.. why DON"T you men find that weird? and then complain that we do? why should we feel okay with is just cause most of you do and don't complain about it? that's the only reason nobody pays attention to something because you guys don't find anything wrong with it, thus there's no complaint.. SMH think about that.
No, it's not sexist. While it can be kinda messed up for anyone who has a small penis (and is super insecure; I have a small one, but not *that* insecure about it), men tend to be less emotional, mentally weak, and easily offended as women. And even if there were problems, men would rather find workarounds to them, instead of whining like some women do. Like, if I felt like they were making fun of me, I'd just piss in the alleyway behind whatever his place was, and they'd be to blame for it due to their wall.
But as Nomina said, it could be taken out of context, and this wall could meant to be complimentary, like the women are pretending to be impressed by your size, or something. I wouldn't think of it that way (since when do women compliment men in the modern era? And since when do women act excited by the size of a big penis?). Most corporations nowadays like to sh*t on men, so I'd assume this was meant to mock, instead of compliment, because that's just the age of misandry we currently live in.
But it wouldn't bother me. If I knew for sure it was meant to mock penis size, I'd just think they were assholes and if I were to get offended, would either piss outdoors, or purposely aim for the walls, as retribution.
This is a great question. I suppose this can be subjective to answer. Why? Some men probably won't mind. It is after all an image. Sure, it can communicate a sexist gesture but it's just an image. But on the other hand, some might find some level of offense and maybe take it as far as making a formal complaint. I think there is an acid test on this one and the question asker already mentioned it, namely, if you were to reverse the sex role, how would the reaction be? On this opposite sex reaction alone, I believe a sexist paradigm exists.
Now personally, I'd probably just chuckle and try not to get an erection from the sheer psychology of having a girl check me out at the urinal stall. Damn peeping Jane.
The fact that 46 percent of people said it isn’t sexist disgusts me. Men can feel uncomfortable of women looking at their penises. The issue is that men are always portrayed as wanting sex all the time, so women think it’s ok to continuously go after a man sexually because they “want it”. I believe that this is EXTREMELY SEXIST and the owner of this place isn’t funny at all. As a matter of fact, they should renovate the bathroom or they’ll get shut down or be replaced. I don't know. Just my opinion.
It’s paint lady chill🙄
@yofuknutz she still shouldn’t get so upset aboot it
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What makes it sexist? That's it's women painted on the wall? Would it off been better off it was men staring down? Funny though thought men like women to see their penis.. They'll send unsolicited dick pics to real women but get freaked out by a painted image of one?
Miss brains the question was clear, what if you saw a painting or a picture in a ladies toilet starring at you while your naked inside, is it comfortable? Would you be happy and tell the owners thanks for what you have done inside the ladies toilet? Or what?
You can't talk about all men cause not all men are the same!
If a woman is bothered we must all listen to her and defend her and be on her side if she's right but if a man complains about something or was bothered about something, we laugh at him and ignore him, that's just not right!
@TonyMetal___86 no I'm not saying don't be bothered or complain, but don't say it's sexist.. Say it's in bad taste.. But ummm why would I get uncomfortable about peeing in front of a picture.. I'd laugh my ass off
Your a naughty lady miss brains muffins and i'm sure that you will enjoy having a picture of a man staring at you in the toilet 🤣🤣
Now tbh i don't like such things because i find it weird, i just like that the men's restroom to be casual and normal and for sure to be clean...
Instead of focusing on the decorations, i hope that some places focuses on the cleaning!
Some men are like animals, or maybe animals are ever cleaner!
When you pee, don't pee on the walls and on the floor, use the toilet paper, it's not there for decoration and learn to wash your hands with SOAP when you finish, a lot of men see the water taps and soap as monsters 😏
Also keep the bathrooms clean and put someone to always clean the toilet seats and floor!
Also for men, when you throw the toilet paper, your not playing 3 points basket, learn how to dump them in the dumpster and not around the dumpster!
Very disgusting 🤢
Don't about the ladied restrooms but i'm sure that they are cleaner and looks like a toilet and not a place in the jungles!
@TonyMetal___86 😂😂 but honestly, women's bathrooms are probably worse.. How do you get period blood on the tank lid🤢 or they'll throw their pad in the toilet instead of in the container provided for those, even though pads aren't meant to be flushed down toilet. And I've seen pee on floor in women's room too, which how just how...
Oh and I didn't say I'd like a pic of got staring down... I just wouldn't make a big deal about it.. If it weirded me out, I just wouldn't go back to that place again... But I wouldn't say sexism
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Now that's a thing that i never knew, i thought since i was a child that women's toilets are a lot cleaner and shining, also smelling like perfume and now i'm shocked knowing that it's worst than men's toilets...
For real naughty sponge, i doubt that women's bathrooms to be worst than men, you might have never entered a men's toilet cause you will faint 🤣
Now about these pads and period blood, it's shocking!
The conclusion, it seems that to be clean is not gender related, it seems that who's raised to be clean and tidy, will grow up to be like that whether he's a man or a woman and the people who were raised to be dirty are going to grow up to be dirty!
@TonyMetal___86 ummm I used to clean office buildings and private homes, so I've been in a lot of men's bathrooms lol and of the two, I'd say women's were worse... I mean yeah the urinals and floors around the urinals🤢
Ohhh you had some harsh times in your life spongy forehead, you shouldn't be doing such things anymore because your a queen 👸🏻
There are real queens and fake queens, the ones we see on the tv are usually the fake ones while the real queens like you aren't under the spotlights...
The things that you have done in your life especially towards your late husband makes you a real queen 😌
@TonyMetal___86 thanks 😊 That was a long time ago.. Me and my husband were going to start our own cleaning business, had the money, but that's when he got diagnosed so I was afraid to start a business, so we used the money to purchase our house..
@anylolone but that still doesn't make it sexist
I'm glad that the house remained a souvenir from him and that's life! We don't know what the future holds for us and that's why we must always appreciate the people who loves us everyday and every second and to make them happy because we don't know if we will be here the next second or not!
Even though we know that they are in a wonderful place right now with god and they might be watching us and that our souls never dies but we still miss their physical presence, their voice and everything about them...
May they rip...
@TonyMetal___86 so true, yet people take people for granted, shit on the people in their life and call it friendship or love... That way, I rather be alone..🤷
Agreed spongy forehead, yet some people who should be actors cause they know how to act in funerals, they never liked the deceased person and treated him/her badly when they were alive but when they heard that the person have died they come screaming in agony and crying as if this person meant everything to them...
Sh*tty liars and actors!
@TonyMetal___86 Why had a closed casket funeral for my husband... Did a private viewing with just me, my girls, his dad and brothers and sisters... I wouldn't of dealt with out of town family members who were never a part of his life make a spectacle. I mean my girls were 15 and 17 when he died, and his funeral was the first time they meet some of those people in all them years.. Yeah no wasn't doing it
You did a good job and what needs to be done
@TonyMetal___86 thanks💛
Your welcome miss brains muffins 😌
@Brainsbeforebeauty
I find it ironic that you've complained about sexist behaviors from men in the past, but at the same time here, would assume all men like to send unsolicited dick pics and that shaming and mocking their penis size in a MEN'S restroom is acceptable.
Like, I'm not even offended by the restroom and wouldn't care too much or anything, but it's worth calling out such double standards like you just typed here. And for the record, most men aren't creepy enough to send dick pics. Only creeps do that.
@MCheetah First, get it right... I call out anyone that has a sexist attitude not just men... I call women out on it too, funny you didn't mention that... And I guess it's how you individually perceive that pic, could be they liked what they peeping🤷 and lastly, people need to lighten up and take a joke.. That's meant in fun, not to shame unless YOU take it that way But the men that call all women bitches, liars, cheaters, gold diggers, only good for pussy, fuck a single mother but don't date her.. Are you really composting that to a pic on a restroom wall... Well you know what, I rather pee in front of a pic of a man so called shaming me, then deal with real men that do
@MCheetah *comparing.. oh and nowhere did I say ALL MEN send unsolicited dick pics, so don't put words in my mouth or make assumptions, I do know all men don't do that
"Funny though thought men like women to see their penis.. They'll send unsolicited dick pics to real women but get freaked out by a painted image of one?"
All of this implies men in general. You didn't say "some men" liked it. You said MEN. That implies "men in general" or "all men." Otherwise, you wouldn't frame it like that. The same way I wouldn't say "women like to cheat on men and take their money" unless I meant all women in general (to use as an example).
And saying " I guess it's how you individually perceive" [it].
Literally everything you said here can be turned back against you in your complaints that "men call women bitches, liars, cheaters, gold diggers," etc. My response to that is, "so what?" Why waste time on those men? I find actions to be more abhorrent than words. So *I* perceive sexist actions to be worse than a few un-PC words some men say. Do you see how this works?
When you try to pick and choose things that are "sexist" like you're doing, so all you're really doing is invalidating your own arguments. Saying "lighten up!" when you're fine with it, and saying "that's sexist and misogynist" when you don't like it. That's literally a Double Standard. I'm not trying to run foul with you here, but I am going to point it out when it's done. You are the one making double standards here (and also implying that it's only bad when it affects women).
@MCheetah You just want to argue, I'm not on here for that, so. you can try to twist my words, or put sexist behavior on me that I'm not guilty of, don't make it true, and I don't need to explain myself further. Anyone that knows me either on here or in real life knows I'm not that way
@Brainsbeforebeauty
All I did was call out the double standard you presented and hoped that you could see the fallacy in picking in choosing what is "sexist" based on whether or not if personally affects you (or women), or doesn't. I'm not here to argue against you either and If I thought you were weak-willed or couldn't handle it, I wouldn't have said anything to you.
@MCheetah But you're making a double standard where there's none.. But okay then🤷
not all men like showing off their dicks to women, I'm not one of those losers.
the ones who enjoy doing that are the dumb fucks who already bought in the idea that men and women are the same and instantly get turned on and fall in love when they receive naked pictures from the opposite sex
What about this
I peed in urinals like that before lol
Maybe a tad hmm 🤔
@Still-alive That's wild. I didn't know urinals like that actually exist
@Cherry234 yeah if you ever get to Topock Arizona there's a restaraunt/bar there. The bathrooms there have these.
@Still-alive oh wow maybe I should go check it out lol
@Cherry234 yeah its along the famous route 66 so if you decide to do a road trip along that route you may see it
@Still-alive Ok I'll keep that in mind. It would be really nice to have a road trip with my cousin
Yeah, that's definitely worse. Not every idea that goes before committee deserves the green light.
I honestly wouldn't know how I would react in front of those. 😂😂😂
@ObscuredBeyond this one is perfect ;)
“Honey, you’ll never guess what I just peed in.”
I would take a shit in them
I don't find it sexist. but I understand that the other way around would invite much screeching.
I don't small dick shaming, i see admiration. Like "ooh, what a big "set" you've got... wink wink!"
I don't think I'd have an issue with it the other way, tbh.
I chose option A. Not because I truly think it's sexist, but like you have said, if the roles were reversed, all hell would break lose. I'm not going to enforce this double standard. We are already dealing with enough of them already
Agreed there. If the roles were reversed, all Hell would break loose. All it would take is some indecent photos of ugly men with rape eyes stickered to a few stall doors in the ladies room, and whoever put the photos up would be hunted down with police dogs, his face plastered all over the 6:00 news, and college campuses "retaliating" by finding yet another way for the "multicultural" center to harass white male students. The offender would then be branded a chomo by a sheriff's deputy, making the claim to a mentally unstable inmate, to trick the inmate into murdering the creeper, so the creeper can't live long enough to get a trial, or sue the sheriff's department for civil rights violations.
But with the OP's roles intact... it's just tasteless humor.
It's fun.
I found it. It's a hotel in Germany.
https://www.facebook.com/weinbergschloesschen/photos/
https://en.weinberg-schloesschen.de/hotel/picture-gallery.html
Lets go a step up for creepiness and ask ourselves, whos image is painted above the urinals? Those arnt just paintings. Their pictures of actual women. Are they coworkers? Customers? Dud rgey consent to theur face being used for such? Are they even aware? Is their a coworker somewhere whos now gonna have to deal with men at work feeling the need to inform her they used "her" urinal
@enbyofenvy
Bathroom potentially mocks and shames men for their dick size; women most affected somehow.
Not sexist. Definitely creepy though. About the only way to make this less decent, would be to put murals of naked women in the urinals themselves, kneeling like they want to suck the patrons.
Either way, I'd feel really uncomfortable in whichever building thought putting this in the restroom was a good idea.
Is that restroom sexist? Why must people get so butt hurt about something that is but a picture. You do realize those are not actually people looking down at you, right? I find it funny as all get out! You know what, I wouldn't care if they were real and enjoying the view. I'm not all that worried that they are about to see something they never have before. However, if those were pictures of men doing that... I would be taking a piss behind the building, thank you.
Men and women think differently. Society has led us to believe men wouldn't mind various women seeing their private parts smiling whereas we women wouldn't like that idea at all.
No, it just looks really tacky and pointless. And wouldn’t the men feel awkward. Even if its just pictures I know a lot of my male friends complain about weird boys peeking at their things while using urinals?
True that's creepy and uncomfortable!
It kinda is sexist but thats also kinda the point. Guys seem to luv having their dicks on show to women so i doubt there would be many complaints.
Exactly, men and women like different things.
It's kinda why we have an issue with men sending dick pics to women and women hating it, most men would love random nudes from chicks so they convince themselves that women want to ser their dick, which we all know they dont.
People treat people the way they want to be treated, it just dosent work out well all the time.
@MCheetah Sorry I don't know what your comment has to do with mine?
@heyitsbrooke
You said it's justified sexism (at men) because "guys seem to [love] having their dicks on show to women" which is a sexist comment, in itself. Only guys who are creeps send dick pics. If it was meant to be a justified sexist jab at men "who show their dicks off," then who would be the one attacking them? Why would they do this?
Unless you meant that it's sexist towards *women* somehow? Despite it being in a place where women would never see it...
@MCheetah No, the "sexism" is the theme of the idea and its part of the appeal. There is a ton of porn based around similar ideas and its geared towards men.
Hey @heyitsbrooke please do not take anything that @mcheetah or @TonyV say as representative of what most real men think. If you really think about it... the only thing that could possible be sexist about that is how you think... If you are so insecure that you feel and think that people are trying to undermine you with sexist propaganda. Well, for that person, it is real, since they truly are paranoid enough to believe so.
As a man, I seriously have no problem with any woman looking at my penis or even when I'm just taking a piss. Hell, I have some girls that I have allowed to stand behind me and hold me at times. Granted, uhmm... like please don't start to try and write something if I am standing over a toilet.., my girlfriend gets pissed if I accidently hit the seat... oh look at that you are my girlfriend. We can try that writing stuff outside after it snows, K?
Here is the thing about having a picture like that in a Man's Restroom... I have no problems with those picture of girls or even if they were real and just enjoying the view. However, if those were like pictures of like McCheeta and TonyV looking down like that... Yeah, now that would cause me to lock up and not be able to take a piss.
OK, I just realized you are 16... I'm trying to think if I should post this to you... Hell, my girlfriend and I were younger than you when I allowed her to "take control."
@Jaumet you liking girls to look at your dick was my point, no 9ne asked what makes you or men uncomfortable they asked if it was sexist, which the idea that men want to pretend a woman is staring at their dick while they pee is kind of sexist, kind of treating women like sexual objects, it's just a demeaning thought toward women, noone thought men were offended, women are offended that men are so use to treating women like sex objects that they have to pretend to do it while using the restroom.
Jazz calling me out when you have no idea what's being talked about and have no idea what you are talking about, and yeah she's 16 so back off with your weird group pee kink, that had nothing to do with the topic at all.
@Jaumet I think you kinda proved my point lol. @TonyV understands what I'm saying, everyone else seems to be reading far too much into it.
To illustrate the difference just imagine a women's bathroom with pictures of men leering at them. Obviously that would not go down well... but women leering at men? No one is complaining. Men and women are different.
one hundred percent.
if it was the other way round and it was men plastered on the wall of a women’s bathroom, the situation would be entirely different and I know for a fact loads of women would be complaining.
that makes me uncomfortable as hell so I can’t imagine how some men would feel
I wouldn't call it sexist but just straight up tasteless
I mean the girls don't exactly look amused.
Lowkey small dick shaming there xd
@FireFox001 Yes like who desinged that a 14 year old?
May well be :D
I don't know but if i were a man I’d feel extremely uncomfortable. Imagine if they installed pictures like that but of men in the women’s stalls? I’d sue the place lol.
Actually It would be funny either way. That is just my opinion though.
You want to stand there and stare you hold it for me while you're at it
This is totally fucked up and sexist, but I also find it hilarious. 10/10 would pee in there and laugh my ass off.
I'd make fun of my mates for their girls expressions too
I got some pics from a bathroom in Corpus Christi where the women are holding tape measures and their pinky’s and such. I thought it was funny but it’s highly sexist to think this is okay but reversed it’s not.
And to think this looks weak after the other too.
*two
@dustybiker other two?
Not sexist since people would all react differently. I would find it just kinda pointless, some would find it funny, some would find it creepy. Shrugs.
It's just a joke. I'd laugh then go back to my friends after and tell them about it. Sexist no. If it was real women there that would be very weird and many other things wrong. I don't want anyone seeing me pee except myself lol.
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