What is your biggest regret?

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Jordan090 · Accepted Answer

I have a good bit but I acknowledge them know and try and be better more caring human. The thing I regret the most is back when me and my wife moved in together we were young and we were both just out of high-school so a lot of our friends still like to party. so they would come over a lot and drink have a good time and once I heard her talking with her best friend she was telling her she has a lot of nude photos of herself on her phone she likes to take just for her she's never shown anyone and later when my wife was asleep and her friend was really drunk she was sleeping it off I woke her and she was still out of it and asked her to unlock her phone and she did and I copied her pictures on my laptop and I wpuld regularly jerk off with them and me and my friend found them on my laptop and posted them on a porn site she still doesn't know but I regret doing that still to this day.

humpbackjack · Accepted Answer

Only graduating the eighth grade which would of probably been a huge game changer also would of meant going all the way back to preschool not just because of me always getting into trouble from day one of school (yes preschool) but it would mean me actually telling my teachers that I had a really hard time reading pretty much I could barely read until I was about 19 and to be honest I still struggle with it to this day I know it’s held me back in life and really texting and spellcheck has help me a lot but I still don’t know what’s a verb or how to structure a paragraph or even a sentence really or punctuation beyond like a period question mark or exclamation point. So to anyone struggling in school don’t give up ask someone for help or ask everyone for help it will effect the rest of your life

atiquahbby · Accepted Answer

Regret is my biggest regret.

I was isolated in my final year of school by my close friends, and I developed severe anxiety and depression as a result. I basically lost 2 years of my life to depression, and my basic regret was the regret I felt in doing so.
Life is life, I learnt so much from the years I had depression, on what fake friends were and how my life and my destiny is based on myself, how I shouldn't let other people's actions define or control me. Feeling regret is regret, if you made a mistake in the past, just think of it as a learning experience.

venus1997 · Accepted Answer

My biggest regret is not killing my father when I had the chance. He raped me and let his friends "borrow" me every chance he got from the time I was 2 until I was about 14ish. The court system knew about it and the judge was in on it with him as were most of the courthouse officials at the time. No one would ever try to help my mother and I when we tried to take legal action. I finally had a chance to shoot him the last time I saw him, I was so scared I would go to prison and have to leave my animals that I didn't do it..

Mikeysoda · Answer

Not taking time to smell the roses (enjoy the moments) more often during the more busier times of life. Now those moments are gone and i cannot really say I enjoyed them or recall them. Which is something i am working to not do again. Even if its a sucky moment... embrace it and get the lessons out if it that are needed.

Naxwi · Answer

They've made for the best growth opportunities so I can't really call them regrets. I did adopt worldviews as a child that didn't serve me in any way for a log time, but I also know I tried to stay as close to the truth as I could, just didn't have the right tools, people and knowledge at the time.

Anonymous · Answer

Not really a regret, because we learn from everything we do. But, I feel a bit low lately because I always see the good side of people and tend to ignore "flaws", and for the first time ignoring red flags turned out not so good and it's disappointing.

RealMarek · Answer

Working hard to gain highly specialized skills in college and career, only to end up having my earnings lost to divorce and alimony then have my career derailed due to economic, political, and societal factors beyond my control. It would have been better for me if I had gone to trade school and started my own business in a skilled trade.

AydenHazor · Answer

There are things I would like to say I regret, and some I do, but at the same time, those things contributed to making me the person I am today, so I'm not sure if I'd go back and do them differently if I had the choice, because I like to think the person I am today is pretty good overall.

JCtoyota · Answer

Not spending more time with my grandfather before he died. I was in my early twenties and wild and stupid and on drugs ( not that people in their early twenties are all stupid and reckless, but I was) and I didn't go and see him like I should have. And he was very fond of me too. That's going to haunt me until the day I die. I wish I could have another chance, but I can't.

WhiteSteve · Answer

I don’t have a lot. Maybe just putting up with 100 hour work weeks on a salary designed for 40 at my last job, and it cost me a lot of time with both my mother and my cat who I had for 19 years in what was the final year of their lives.

tatianamay · Answer

No regrets at all, but I'm sure there will be as I grow older. Mistakes happen, but its only a mistake if you don't learn from it. Mistakes shape who we are as a person.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I regret not taking care of my health and not fighting with my parents more cause I listened to them and they created so many problems for me - I would have been better off if I had rebelled

normalice · Answer

A girl I was with in college. I stopped being with her because she smelled like cilantro. I could have just asked her to use a different soap but instead I stopped talking to her altogether..

cerberusdoll · Answer

Letting friends from my past take advantage of my kindness and willingness to give. I was a major people pleaser. And all it ever achieved was me getting chewed up and spat out and used.

Anonymous · Answer

It changes but right now it'd be being dismissive to what seems like the right guy now in retrospect and being welcoming to the wrong guy. Now I'm trying to get the better guys attention. Hasn't worked.

NathanDavis · Answer

no big regrets... I'm at peace with my few mistakes it does help that I was against myself, and not others... I've moved on

newfreshstart · Answer

My biggest regret not going to see my father before he died he was in Florida. & not trying harder with the girl i was into 4 years ago

josephinelcajon · Answer

Way too many skeletons in my closet! But other good things would have never happend so my regrets are bitter sweet

humanearth · Answer

My in kinda petty and stupid But I kinda wish I started having sex at a younger age

wankiam · Answer

haven't got any... life is too short to mourn the past

askandgiveAnswers · Answer

Some smoking sexy times I maybe should have made, mmmmm. Other times I had enjoyment, mm so lovely. I loved different other times. Sensual, and delicious and delightful. Happy moments. Oh yes

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I was seriously disappointed and angry with God one time and sinned on purpose. I paid for that big time.  Worse thing ever for me.

Agape93 · Answer

Toss up between trusting the wrong man, and not doing enough before it was too late

lilaccc · Answer

i'm not chasing my dreams from earlier for some reason that doesn't promise me a better life either 🙂

DonkeyDan · Answer

I have no regrets! Oh well there is one, I regret trusting that fart after I had the chilli 😳

loveslongnails · Answer

Doing drugs when I was in high school, instead of practicing my music more and becoming far better than I am now.

Soleil8000 · Answer

Having had anything to ever do with Serbia (I was dumped into the nastiest transgender fosterparent family imaginable - wasn't my fault or choice, but I wish I never knew that creepdom existed)

Anonymous · Answer

Being born.

faithtofallbackon · Answer

Not telling someone about my feelings for them or when I tried to it was too late.

t-8900 · Answer

So many regrets, so little time. Too personal of a question for me though.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Being to chicken to start over education wise at age 20 and studying something that got me the same job as people with a high school diploma.

Titanic1912 · Answer

My biggest was wrecking my first car on a gravel road. When that happened, I ended up in the hospital.

Grubhub · Answer

Trusting a racist conservative whom I respected on here. Exposed her and she blocked me. I proved my point

Brendan824 · Answer

Kinda wish I didn't donate all my money (50 bucks) when I was 12 to blue cross blue shield and instead put that into Bitcoin I would be able to make a bigger impact than that 50 bucks

Neosporin · Answer

Maybe not taking care of my body as much as I could.

Mynameisbobby · Answer

Trusting my sister and mother. Although I guess I had no choice 😕

douride2 · Answer

That I didn't spend more time with my father in the last months of his life.

Anonymous · Answer

Not losing my virginity 20, I don't know why this regret came back to haunt me or affect my psyche starting this year but it wasn't affected me like this last year or barely a couple years ago

Shy_Steve · Answer

Probably not approaching Girls I have liked and not reading her signals because I think I have missed a few opportunities with Girls liking me.

Jcrummy98 · Answer

I have lots of regrets but the point I non of those matters coz it's all past.  My best friend is my biggest regret. He hurt me so badly.

TallAnon · Answer

I don't really regret it, but I would like to be geographically closer to my parents, so I can help them out and such, I'm currently quite far.

Anonymous · Answer

That I didn't wait until I was married to have sex.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Maybe that I didn't say fuck off to enough people who deserved it

jasco · Answer

Becoming a hoe, becoming a lair, letting myself turn into a monster without even realizing it

rebeliouse · Answer

@subarugirl not having had the chance to hook up with you yet my love :D xxx

BlueEyedBeing · Answer

Having very little dating/sexual experience. I feel out of the world.

Anonymous · Answer

Going to a Computer Training School for a couple years, only to give up looking for an I. T. job, and settle for a Janitorial job. Never should have wasted my time in Computer School

shades777 · Answer

where to start haha, all in all im probably still the best version of myself.

Waldoe · Answer

reaching 71 years of age, I should have died young and handsome

Tabasco25 · Answer

Not knowing what I know and understand now when I was a teen.

Anonymous · Answer

sometimes i think about passing up fooling around with a girl i met

becausepp · Answer

Being upset with the world over me being the problem

TheFlak38 · Answer

not buying bitcoin when it was $300 a piece

DaveJord · Answer

Getting married at 20

OneManOnly01 · Answer

I’ve never regret anything for than a day or two

exitseven · Answer

I didn't have more fun when I was younger.

FTnWo · Answer

I think im working on it

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Trusting and loving someone who never deserved me!

Wiredone · Answer

I regret not starting my business sooner.

CubaPirate · Answer

Cheating on my partner

doctorwow · Answer

Missing my medic reclass school

legalboxers · Answer

not leaving home when I had the chance...

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Not taking more chances growing up.

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