This really irked me that he would touch my car without permission. It seems like a lack of boundaries. We don’t know each other at all and have never even spoken before.
I’m wondering if maybe I’m overreacting. Or would this have bothered you also?
I voted No - because I would NOT necessarily have gotten bothered by it.
I’d talk with the neighbor, and inquire about it, as the person might have done it to prevent knocking it; and might have intended to returned the mirror to its original place but forgot.
Yes, very thoughtless, to say the least, and even more so to not put them back in the original position. I don't think you are overacting at all to feel that way. I would be irked also
I would rather they fold it in then hit it. You would think they would pull it back out after they got past it though.
That would bother me a lot. He should of folded in his mirrors and not touched your car
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nope, these are the kind of things I won't ever bother to get bothered by...
it is as simple as just adjusting the mirror and that's it... I go on with my life in the best mood possible
As for me if someone folded my mirror in it would throw up a flag however I rather someone fold it in instead of hitting it.
Are you sure it was your neighbor? I've walked between vehicles in parking lots and had to fold mirrors to get through. I had mine folded. Sorry but it's going to happen.
No, it doesn't bother me.
I'd wonder why they did it, but so long as they didn't break it, it wouldn't bother me. I've occasionally folded someone's mirror in to get by without hitting hit. Then I usually unfold it after I pass.
"but so long as they didn't break it, it wouldn't bother me"--That's what she said 😁
It would bother me but at the same time I can’t really fault them that much. It’s just the nuisance of living with neighbors
As long as they folded it in and not break the glass, I wouldn't be bothered by it.
I said no because the alternative MIGHT have been a damaged mirror when he pulled out. Inconvenient? Sure.
Nobody should touch your personal property unless they have your permission. You must tell him you don't approve of what he did.
Yeah that would bother me. It does seem like a lack of boundaries.
You're assuming it was done on purpose. It's possible he bumped into it while walking by
Unless he had to put something in the car in that side.
While it would have been nice to have them put it back into position I would rather they fold it in than scratch or break it.
No, that's happened to me before and I didn't care.
It would be annoying to have to put it back all the time but I guess it's good he didn't want to scratch your car
it is better than having it ripped clean off.
Well either close your mirror yourself or let the guy damage your mirror because you didn't want him/her closing it. As for me no it doesn't bother me
They are made to move in without changing the adjustments. So like who cares. Push it back in place and go.
Maybe he was leaving the message that because the cars are so close, you need to fold the mirror in yourself. Intentionally leaving it out and causing his to need to fold it in to avoid hitting it was very rude of you.
i'll sit on your car while i eat a turkey sandwich do you think I give a shit?
Yeah but it’s better than him hitting it with his car and breaking it, He must’ve really been close to your car I need to do that
My guess is he was sending a message. Does he have any reason to be unhappy with the way you park?
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