Whats the most valuable life lesson you've learnt so far?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

That life is what you make it when we are born we were given a gift that gift is the gift of choice we get to choose who we want to be by the things that we say and do.
With this Choice comes you either are going to follow or you're going to lead

There's two types of people in this world there's two options in this world always
Yes no
Hello goodbye
Positive negative
Love hate
Wrong right
Follower leader
Smart dumb
Intelligence ignorance
The greatest evil on this planet is ignorance ignorance is destroying this planet and the people on it and they're weak Minds their laziness to use ignorance as a tool to be a part of a problem instead of part of a solution and that's sad all this down time with covid-19 you would think that most people would sit and evaluate their life and figure out who they really are why we're really here but think out of the box think different I don't care who you are what color you are what race you are we are all every single one of us are our own person if you think about it we are so different and so many different ways even our color is different there's no just black and white there's Many Many Shades of Black all beautiful many many shades of white all beautiful but as human beings we use labels we are all individual we are all unique we are all special we are all different we all have our own identity and people that are ignorant and don't use the potential of their brain love to cause chaos love to cause problems because that's who they are in life they have nothing going on for themselves and they are lazy instead of doing something about it they would rather be ignorant make your own life a problem for somebody else that is the greatest lesson I have learned there's a lot of lessons that Branch off of this lesson this planet is one of the most beautiful places I've ever ever been in my life because I've never left this planet but no matter where you go you find Beauty whether it be in the dirt score in people I've also learned just because I think something doesn't mean that I'm right like I said we are all individuals and just because you see it one way or I see it one way does it mean we are right it just means we're different and that's what makes the world go round who what really makes the world go round is when you can respect what other people say are the way that they see something it's all good there shouldn't be a problem but everybody's business is everybody else's business and I think that's wrong The Greatest lyrics lesson I've learned disrespect everybody and smile we only know what we have experienced every time we experience something new we grow

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have to list 2.
1. To stop caring what people think of me so much. I used to be somewhat obsessed with where I ranked in the world. Was I a success? By whose standards? Now I've amassed a 7 figure net worth and I've realized. I'm the same person whether I have a dollar or a million dollars. It doesn't make me a better person. A more valuable person. Everyone is equal in God's eyes. And those that think differently than that. Why would i want, or even care if I have their respect.
2. I learned to stop wasting so much energy on the opposite gender. Give them the same energy they give me. And if that's not enough for them. Then clearly they're not the right woman for me. I think we try to force so many things that aren't meant to be simply because we crave companionship.

ItsMeElliana · Accepted Answer

"Life is like a sandwich, no matter which way you flip it, the bread always comes first. "
if you know yknow
other than that,
I've learnt that we're all gonna die someday, death is inevitable, and so I should learn to appreciate every moment in life, and be grateful for everything I have because some others might not even have that much
people will always look at the small black dot on a blank white piece of paper, like how people notice your flaws first instead of looking at your good. and judge you
and I've learnt not to care what others think of me, because what I do defines who I am and I dont have to change myself for others to love me because if I'm truly myself, I still get loved.
also to learn to appreciate everyone around you because you never know if they won't wake up the next day, or maybe you won't, so why not just treat everyone with respect and love and care and happiness
i also respect everyone's opinions because I know we're all humans and we are all different being the same, our different opinions are one of the things that make us differ from each other and we need to learn to respect other's opinions, as much as we'd like ours to be respected.
treat others like you'd like to be treated.
I've learnt a lot in my life so far, and can't wait to learn more. hope y'all have an amazing new year

Star_88 · Accepted Answer

There's a difference between real and fake animal lover.
People who prioritize pets MORE than their loyal family/partners are selfish, arrogant and narcissists because they can't face real human connection or reciprocate real thing. Instead they need a pet to bribe with food in exchange of 24/7 following. A pet can't question them back and it has to follow the orders.

Sonorous · Answer

Probably to be critical in my thinking. And that requires being regularly open to disagreeing with myself. No matter how attached I am to a thought or action.

Woke51 · Answer

You assumptions create your experience.
People treat you the way you treat yourself.

Look at this thread and the people that state their negative assumptions as a life lesson and people who disagree with them because they don't have that assumption.

LinaDaGoddess · Answer

Every man’s goal is to fuck.. (rarely they are honest up front) I’ve yet to stumble across any man that hasn’t pretended to be one way and eventually the masks comes off.. A majority of all lie about what they want. (This is coming from my experiences, I’m not speaking for all men or all women)

Apulu_3 · Answer

Sometimes it's better to snatch happiness rather than waiting for it if you know internally that waiting would never end.

Life is your book where sometimes you need to fight for the right of the pen to write on the book.

What is the need of worthless wishes,
When we are nothing more than helpless fishes?

-These quotes are by me and it helped me a lot and is very relatable. at least to me.

charlean · Answer

you’re responsible for your own happiness and make discipline your bitch

MemeSupreme · Answer

it takes time for things to get better which is okay and to try to remind yourself that

Desconhecida · Answer

Never talk about your plans before you make them true. To anyone.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

You cannot change others, you can only change yourself. Trying to do so is a waste of time and energy.

Slartybartfast · Answer

Men are only valued for what we can provide and what we provided in the past doesn't matter. You can work a decade and give it all to a women and the day you lose your job , she will sleep with another guy and treat you like dirt.

Leonharted · Answer

No matter what the payoff is, doing something shameful isn't worth the regret if you get caught.

ewok737 · Answer

Be aware of what is going on around you, don't make any quick hasty decisions.

lightbulb27 · Answer

think for yourself, trust your gut.  don't trust doctors or brokers or frankly, most anyone... be your best advisor.  you are responsible for you...

Lionman95 · Answer

The time is now don't wait for the perfect moment to do something because that perfect moment will never come.

Subarugirl · Answer

That the would will not be any kinder to you just because you are a good person.

dustybiker · Answer

If life hands you an opportunity, take it. They do not repeat.

TallAnon · Answer

No one is going to look out for your best interest, so you better make damn sure you're doing it yourself.

Raphaëlle · Answer

Some things happen for a reason or it could be faith but don't wait for that. If you really want something in life, you've to work for it.

OddBeMe · Answer

Value your time. Know your worth. So many fcks spend 12 hrs a day at menial jobs. When you could learn skills and work half the time for double the $$.

Dargil · Answer

As Yogi Berra once said: "If you come to a fork in the road, take it!".

SorrowAdvisor25 · Answer

That whatever mask someone appears to be wearing on the outside, it's never the whole truth of what actually lies underneath

Anonymous · Answer

Never show your face in a nude photo. That's how you get blackmailed. I learned that to late, sadly...

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Bloods slippy, watch what you do in the shower.

Gofloin · Answer

Don't sweat the small stuff and try to gain as many life experience you can

AndrésC64 · Answer

If you knew how little other people actually think, you really wouldn't care what they think.

Anonymous · Answer

Money is absolutely everything in human society! It's OK if you don't value money or don't agree with it, as long as you don't get in my way of making mine.

LZPanzer · Answer

Women are shallow. God I want to be wrong about this.

Guanfei · Answer

Trust no one. Anyone can potentially betray you, given the right price. And the right price is often much lower than you'd think.

melanieeeB · Answer

To listen to my gut feeling

TheorionMage · Answer

The undeniable Shakespearian truth of: "ALL the World is insane, but Me and Thee... Rachel; and I have my doubts about Thee!" ;)

Phoenix98 · Answer

Value of hard work and that you won't get anywhere in life without it. That's a lesson that you'll take into literally every aspect of your life no matter what it is.

Akumuviral · Answer

Happiness is a choice only you can make. Nobody came make it for you.

mickeystoned · Answer

Work smarter not harder and pay attention to detail it's the little things that make the difference

-Asca- · Answer

You must not care about what others think of you, but you must care about what you think about yourself

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

You come first. You have to look out after yourself first because you are responsible for you, no one else is.

Andres77 · Answer

People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. "If I love them more they'll be nicer to me/love me back." IT'S A LIE!!!

swettannie · Answer

when you offer a service, customuer ned to pay first

Zygum · Answer

Give respect, you will get respect, distribute love and happiness, you will be loved and get happiness

Aelleden · Answer

Failing is the best thing that can happen to you because you never learn anything if you dont try something and fail.

JohnK123 · Answer

Stay humble but expose the fakes and to never sugarcoat

htmndg183 · Answer

Success isn't an overnight journey/procedure. Patience and perseverence will make it happen.

otaku_owl_91 · Answer

Women are the most fickle beings in the world, and that the concept of a modern family is harder to obtain because their desires constantly change.

LightOfTruth · Answer

Stay away from bi people when going into a relationship. Most men can’t handle the underlining issues.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I learned nothing good comes without sacrifice

gtnoffzgtnofz · Answer

money isn't wealth and small things are major an magik is real

Anonymous · Answer

It takes time to get to know someone because many can be on their best behavior. It can be an act.

Anonymous · Answer

Just when you think you’ve got it all figured out, you don’t…

TrillXHippy · Answer

Whatever a girl says is just a bunch of words so don’t believe them for a second

Edward02 · Answer

everything we do has a consequence, including what we don't do.

Radstyke · Answer

No one really cares, as long as you're useful they take advantage of you.

anon171999 · Answer

Always be both honest and loving.

devoygf · Answer

don't trust people easily

donnny2367764 · Answer

Don't take anything for granted. Make the most of your time here on earth

boobliker · Answer

to drive at high speed for safety work and keep your passenger alive in a hostile environment?

Kisama · Answer

Stop wasting your time praying to a God.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Being Nice only gets you so far.

Stan_Control_ · Answer

Don't be sorry. Be better.

yucel_eden · Answer

Do not love anyone more than you love yourself

Yuuibtony · Answer

To stop giving my social security number online and debit card information including the pin

imbeingmyself · Answer

not to trust someone quickly and never lose someone whom you trust on shitty reasons and oh also don't fall in love with beauty but for personality

taylorallen · Answer

nothing matters and we'll all die one day.

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