Okay I will risk being shamed to hell for this by all the those who are more modern and forward thinking so be kind to me.
When I was growing up it was always encouraged that everyone should accept and love who they are no matter what. So if you were a genetic or biological boy or girl you should embrace that about yourself and love yourself for what you really are.
Now that doesn't mean there is anything wrong with being a boy and liking other boys and embracing your man hood and still love other men. Or being a women and embracing being a women and loving other women. That is to say I am not pro or anti gay or lesbian, because I can understand that and respect it.
I can always understand and respect a person who loves and embrace who they are and still likes being with a man or women sexually. So that means I can respect and understand someone being Bisexual.
I also think given the dependence of the human race on heterosexuals relationships to produced future generation of humans that I totally respect and understand Hetero. Even though modern science has taking away some the necessity of hetero's having natural sex to produce children. The nature behind the process still depends on men and women, and when the zombie apocalypse comes the future of humanity will rest on the shoulders of heterosexuals.
Now what I do struggle with is the people that feel so insecure about who and what they truly are that they consider scientific manipulation or medical mutilation of their bodies for their own mental health. Are we at a point in our society that we want to promote the idea that if a person is so insecure about their very nature that its good for their mental health to consider such extreme measures? Are we distorting the meaning of mental health just to promote and agenda or may others feel better about their own choice and desires?
I know, I knowā¦ some will really get fired up about that paragraph. But honestly, does it really solve their insecurities or is just applying a band aid to an open wound? Would it not be more beneficial that they come to some type of acceptance that allows them to embrace and love who and want they truly areā¦ I mean we can call them hims or hers but at the end of the day they will always have to life with who they really are or what they were born to be. Should the rest of society really be complacent with their insecurities about gender, and does playing along with the falsehood do more damage than good on society as whole, or should it truly be just about the person?
I do not know the answer to these questions and I am sure time will tell. But I do take issue with young people proclaiming their desired gender before they are old enough to have hit puberty or experience their first kiss or truly have a real and romantic relationship, be it with a boy or girl. I take issue with schools promoting pronouns without parental consent, permission and wishes. So all that to say when it comes to transgender, I can accept it as a fact of life without shaming them but I canāt honestly say I will ever respect it or truly come to accept it.
And honestly I have right to say that without shame.
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Nothing wrong with their bodies the problem exists in our minds.
Don't like them, think they're mentally ill, and tired of them trying to force us into believing that men can "transition" into women and so forth. If you're a man, you will NEVER be a woman, no matter how hard you try to look like one. Mess up your body with pills and plastic surgery all you want, you will NEVER be a girl. Same goes for "transgender men". You will ALWAYS be a woman. You will NEVER be a man.
Fully support them for whatever they choose to do or not to do. If they are happy, they are happy. 🏳ļøā🌈
As people, they are the same as everyone else. You have good ones with great personalities and ones with really bad ones. Them being trans doesn't automatically make them good or bad people. They are just people like everyone else.
@olderandwiserI take that to mean that MSM and PC means promoting the idea that if you don't like or can't accept who you were born to be... that main stream media (i. e. LGBTQ) is promoting its good mental health to surgically manipulate your body.
in this case I agree or disagree with you, not sure of you stance here. But I don't think surgical manipulation really addresses the underlying mental health... it just gives them a different way of cooping with it... and in the long wrong I am not sure how good that really is for their mental health... because they will always know its not real.
I never had any animosity. I actually have two transgender friends, one male and one female. I didn't know them before they transitioned, which the did as adults, but they are good people. They just want to live their lives and don't have any agendas.
I acknowledge that a small percentage of people genuinely suffer from gender dysphoria. But it's also obvious that a social engineering agenda is responsible for an epidemic in "transgenderism". And the pharma, medical and psych industries are encouraging it for profit. In the process, children's lives are being destroyed.
I have become strongly opposed to the radical LGBTQ agenda. So-called "inclusivity" curriculums are indoctrinating young children, encouraging them to question their genders, and to celebrate pan-sexual, non-binary, gender fluid bullshit. I am opposed to allowing men who claim to be women access to women's only facilities. And I am strongly opposed to allowing men who claim to be women to compete in female athletics. Lastly, fuck non-gender specific pronouns, the idea of calling heterosexuals "cis"gender, and encouraging people to declare their "preferred" pronouns. I'm sick of having society dictated to by a tiny minority.
The radical agenda is causing great harm to women, especially female athletes. As I mentioned, it is causing tremendous harm to children. And backlash to the radical agenda it is even causing harm to the progress that LGBT people have made over the years.
I slept with one and enjoyed it much. It was my bi experience. Lots of guys have thoughts of sucking another guy but would never do it and mostly not admit it. I use to share this fantasy with my wife while having sex. I would ask her about another guy joining us and we both sick his dick and she would get so exciting. We never did it. But after we divorced I was having this strong feelings of want to exp it and it happened with a trans guy. He was gorgeous, long hair, very pretty and feminine. Had great boobs and nipples and a great butt. It was like being with a hot chick with a dick. And it was very exciting. If I was walking with him/her in the mall people would not have any idea he/she was a trans. But I donāt understand most of it. Like, a guy who wants to be a girl who likes guysā¦isnāt that just a gay guy? Or vice versa. I know there are people born with genitalia that confuses them, liked girl with a huge clitorus and lots of manly features. Without the manly features I think the huge clit is great and hot. My friend went ahead and had the whole surgery and had the penis removed and turned into a vagina. I never saw him/ her again. Not by choice we just went our own ways. But I would prefer the chick with a dick.
They can live however they want and believe in whatever fiction they want to, but the rets of society, me especially, aren't entitled to believe what they believe in what they believe, as well. Those who can respect that, can get my respect. Those who want to whine, complain, and call everything "transphobic" like bratty spoiled children anytime society doesn't capitulate to them, like letting them beat women is sports competitions or cancel Dave Chappelle over some jokes, can kindly get f*cked. These people need to be told to sit down and shut the f*ck up, cause everyone else has had enough. But like I said, the respectful ones are fine by me, even if I don't believe what they believe in.
good for them, i jus dont understand the part where they are convinced they are another gender, i jus dont think thats possible, u can want to be another gender by all means, but jus cos u "feel" ur another gender doesn't mean u are, u only are what u are born as... i mean, imagine if someone wanted to be a panda and always felt like a panda, and they say they identify as a panda and get a transition to look like one... jus cos u now somewhat look like one doesn't mean u are, u only can be what u was born as... human... and jus the same, if u was born as man, thats all u can ever be... try to make urself look female by all means, but you will never be one
Hereās my thought on it... why canāt a guy just go throw a skirt and panties on instead of chopping his junk off. You want to wear a gals clothes then do so but do so as a man. The way trans folks act is just plain strange and over the top. Iām all for being who you are but it is truly a mental issue when you want to chop you junk off or in the females case somehow āadd some junkā ( I have no idea how that would work). And another thing, I could care less about your opinions on the choice of gender you think you are , if you was born male then you are a male, same goes for females. When did the lines get blurred? When did we decide that we could magically change our gender when itās not possible. You want the rest of humanity to believe in this magical land where we can just change our genetics but the fact is that itās just not possible. Come to reality and accept your gender and stop trying to blur the lines.
gender has 2 definitions. 1 as a syonym for sex and 2 as an identity
if you are using the identity definition... its a pseudoscience closer to a religion than anything else. gender cannot be observed and can't be falsified. if someone says they are a girl you can't argue or prove them wrong... until we find out later they were lying by sending texts admitting it for example. that's not how science works. science depends on testable observable things.
thus transgenders do not exist. they are more akin priests in a silly church than a real thing
Hereās my thought on it... why canāt a guy just go throw a skirt and panties on instead of chopping his junk off. You want to wear a gals clothes then do so but do so as a man. The way trans folks act is just plain strange and over the top. Iām all for being who you are but it is truly a mental issue when you want to chop you junk off or in the females case somehow āadd some junkā ( I have no idea how that would work). And another thing, I could care less about your opinions on the choice of gender you think you are , if you was born male then you are a male, same goes for females. When did the lines get blurred? When did we decide that we could magically change our gender when itās not possible. You want the rest of humanity to believe in this magical land where we can just change our genetics but the fact is that itās just not possible. Come to reality and accept your gender and stop trying to blur the lines.
I have high tolerance for people who does things to themselves than to others. So that does not bother me. I only have 2 categories - people I get along with and people I prefer to stay away from, and in each group there are girls, guys, gays, transgenders, black, white, brown, orange.. so colors/race/gender do not bother me, personalities do.
If it physically only involves you, do whatever you wanna do. As long as your happy and understand what you're doing.
They are people too.. They come in all human flavors. Cool, crazy, loud, quiet, mean, nice. I think of them like i think of about the rest of the human race.
"Nice to meet you. Any way i can help, let me know and I'll try my best. I'm one of the nicest people you'll ever meet unless you try to bring harm up the people i hold close to my heart j. Would you like to be one of the people?"
I absolutely support the right of anyone to do whatever they want with their body. However, I think it's silly. There is absolutely no way that someone could know or even feel like they should be the other gender (and there are only two). It's absolutely impossible for me to know what it feels like to have a vagina, because I don't have one. And it would be absolutely impossible for someone with a vagina to know what it feels like to have a penis, because they don't have a penis. Would be kind of like me saying I feel like I should have three arms. I can't possibly know what it feels like to have three arms because I don't.
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Vast majority of them are just doing it to fit in and get a victim complex point. It's similar to the grass is always greener on the other side stuff. They feel it will magically fix all of their problems and they get you act like a victim in the meantime what is one of the biggest trophies in liberal society
There are genuine trans people but for the most part they're the ones who don't care what people say, they don't want sympathy or anything they just want to be what they want and get on with they're lives. It's become almost like a trend in recent years, especially with how many claim it but completely swear off the surgery... how does that make sense?
Neutral.ā¦ I think it is a mental illness but that doesnāt make them less than anyone else, weāre all humans. I have this view for almost everything lol; You can do what they want with their life, as long as you donāt bother me or shove it down my throat.
No problems except the fact that it's part of the Mind Control program of the government. The government has weaponized LGBQT just like they've weaponized racial issues with entities such as BLACK LIVES MATTER. The reason you're seeing more homosexuals and Trans people is to further push towards the DEPOPULATION agenda
I don't really know much about the differences of gender these days. Transgender is transsexual? Is someone who had sex change surgery considered as the wanted gender or they are still trans? Drag queens are transsexuals?
The only reasons I don't like them are as followed, if you dont fully transform you could be labelled a pervert because a woman going into a women's public bath with his dick still attach isn't a woman. 2nd some of them lie to you about their sex, other than that I don't have anything against them nor am i for them
I'm neutral honestly - I respect and care for everyone equally, without any distinction. My only concern is that they are productive members of society, work and pay their taxes.
Itās all fine except I have some concern about people with Y chromosomes competing in womenās sports. We should rename womenās sports to the āXā division. Anyone with a Y chromosome would be ineligible.
They are people like everyone else.. just hate when they try to force their opinions on other people.. they want equality in the eyes of others but want to be protected from any sort of criticism in the same sense, truly bizarre
If I stuck my finger in a light shock would you think its my fault I got electrocuted or would it be the result of a failure on society as a whole?
Would you feel sorry for the fact that I died, but at the same time think I was kinda stupid... or would you think society failed me in some way and therefore I did not deserve what I did to myself?
In the end I made the choice to do something that came with consequence, so was it unfair or wrong of me, and if so why does it matter what society or anyone else at large thinks or says?
Its not that they they should not be able to make these choices for themselves, but its the idea that society should promote, encourage and change to accommodate it. We are free to do whatever we want and I am fine with that, because we are all people to. But do not put it back on me to agree or accept your choices, just do what you want to do and leave the rest of us to ourselves.
I find it odd and I some of the notions presented in the community I don't agree with, but they have the right to dress that way and I support their right as I would anyone else's.
I have no issue with them, what ever u want to do as long as itās not harming anyone. But I do struggle to understand why it isnāt treated as a mental health problem
I also think that these people are actually doing far more to perpetuate gender stereotypes. Calling yourself something doesn't actually make it true. Liking football and monster trucks doesn't make you a guy. Liking ballet and opera doesn't make you a girl.
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