People need to be who they are. I don't think I can understand it. Because I don't relate to their feelings. There have been times in my life where I've wondered if my life would be better if I were white, or a man. But then I think about what a beautiful thing it is to be a black woman. (some may disagree) All I can say is if i knew something and believed in it so strong I really do think I'd struggle to not fight for what's right.
I do think that what we've witnessed over the years is severe mental illnesses simply because people are bullied and excluded simply for being different. It's like being treated worse than a leper.
It messes with you.
Whatever my beliefs are im not them, and I have no right.
Thats been them, their doctor and their maker...
I do think though that people need to stop pushing their agenda on me or judging me and thinking I could care less about the fact they make certain decisions. If we're not dating it really isn't a concern of mine.
Trans is a mistake that can not be forgive, well it's for me I don't know for another people think about trans. But I won't hate them, if they ask help from me I help I won't different them from normal people but want to be friends with me? Sorry we can't.
Me myself love to look like a guy and I even have some friends who like dress as a woman but only that. we still accepted our gender and great full about it
I have many reasons why trans is wrong but it's to long to wirited.
Trans is destroying the established order of the world. And that is a fact
I have always wondered why certain sectors find the need have special names to define them. Why not just be who you want to be without a label to define who you are? Aren't you the same person no matter what label is attached to you? Do you go around to everyone you meet announcing that Hi, I'm Marion, I'm transgender, or Hi, I'm Marion, nice to meet you. I don't go around when I meet someone and go Hi, I'm the fire guy, and I am part pasty white guy, part french Canadian, part English, and part native American. I just introduce myself as Hi I'm the fire guy. Nice to meet you. Live life in a way that makes you happy, as long as it is within the confines of the law. We really don't need a guy to go Hi, I'm Bob a serial killer.
I understand and respect your right to live as you see fit. Under the right circumstances I might even not see through your masquerade but in the end, the key to full transition is the transplant of full reproductive capacity.
Medical science cannot as yet, convince Nature to evolve Spermazoa into viable Ovum to even a donated surgically trans-implanted female reproductive system.
Admittedly, ONLY my perception, but otherwise what you have is an extreme protracted 'cosplay'. We may live viably convincingly as 'super heroes' but our most DEVOUT convictions do NOT convey the powers of unaided flight~ THAT is 'reality'.
I think that they are mentally ill and need help, but if they stay out of my face and do not demand that the rest of the population consider their mental illness to be 'normal' I do not care much what they do. The "call me ma'am'' lunatics cause me to want to visit violence upon their deranged arses, to teach them some manners. I will not comply with cry-bully demands for compelled speech that are in opposition to reality, such as the pronoun lunacy. There is correct English. Everything else is incorrect. The language must not be rewritten to pander to the delusions of people who are mentally ill and wish to impose their disorder upon the rest of the population.
Like many of the things we see today it's the result media manipulation. They convince you it's ok and convince everyone else it's not ok to be agaisnt it. The reality is: it's something done as a way to reduce world population by making sure the largest demographic possible are put in a situation where they can't have kids.
This is why the same people promote all forms homosexuality , being trans , or non binary, or any one of a thousand different things, and adoption.
To them the ideal is "don't have kids, adopt a kid that's already there and the population will not outgrow resources"
So do what you wanna do by all means but just know that you didn't make that decision it was subliminally engrained in your mind.
I don't care one way or the other, but they should be honest with anyone they want to date or get serious with.
I personally don't consider it transgender until the surgery is done, otherwise it is just cross dressing.
Also keep in mind, the people you know before and after, you cannot change them. You can change yourself but trying to force others to change for your benefit is not going to work. If at work people called you HE and still continue to refer to you that way, you can't force them to change.
I'm sorry, became? Isn't the whole argument that this is an innate characteristic and that you don't choose it? Why use that language?
Anyway, to answer your question, I accept that gender dysphoria is real. However, I question two things: number one, is it possible that it's a symptom of other mental illnesses, like autism for example? A lot of women that transition have autism, and the ones that de-transition typically cite their autism as a faulty reason to transition.
Number two, is transitioning even the correct treatment? Like in in the women with autism, it seems that dealing with their autism helped with their dysphoria simultaneously.
I think in a free society you can make free choices to do as you please. If you politely asked me to address you by a certain gender profile then I will do it.
I might not agree with your decision but as long as you are respectful to me then I will be respectful to you.
However here is what I have a problem with:
- Demanding cis gendered people date transgender people. - “Identifying” as a different gender to enter opposite sex bathrooms, locker rooms, etc. while you still have the genitalia of a different gender. Very sick people have used this (including pedos) to their advantage. Don’t go into a public women’s bathroom until you had the surgery. - Brainwashing young kids with trans ideologies. This is heinous. At least wait until kids hit puberty to let them bring up “choosing their gender”.
All of the above IS intruding on other people’s lives. And we have a right to fight back and we will.
Personally I do not have any issues with individuals who chose to change how they’re seen and perceived to match how they see themselves. I give them the same respect as anyone else.
I do have a problem with some of the political movements associated with trans and non binary labels trying lately to change societal norms to fit fringe ideologies. Teaching very young children to question their own identities, trans athletes decimating their competition and to a lesser extent this new thing in games erasing male/female character options and replacing them with masculine/feminine non binary choices as a couple of examples.
It's quite sad, in a way, but they're also disgusting abominations who insist on spreading their disease, so it's hard to feel bad for them.
It makes sense why they kill themselves so often. The fundamental impossibility of their attempted transition must be frustrating. And once they've mutilated their bodies beyond recognition, there's no going back, when they eventually realize what they've thrown away.
I don't really like the whole idea of "transitioning to the opposite gender" because it makes no sense to me whatsoever. I just do not understand how anyone could hate being a male or female so much that they feel disgusted with themselves and wanna "turn" themselves into the opposite gender. I really feel like this is an undiagnosed mental health issue, if anything.
What do I "think" about them? Nothing really, ... they're just, umm... people too. They're just like everyone else, complicated & multifaceted -- & just trying to get on with their life, just like every other miserable person on this planet. They (understandably) just had an additional 'hurdle' thrown at them from mother nature, but it doesn't 'define' them. As you well know, people aren't just defined by their sex (biological) or their gender.
I am ok but scared that potential rapists take advantage of it and rape women in bathrooms etc. This is why i am against declare gender. It should be medicallly confirmed. So not every weirdo call himseöf/herself a trans. For me a transwoman is someone who had the surgery etc
I don't hate them nor do i think their ill, tbh i bet I’m more ill then an average trans person. I just find it sad that not only people (get) reject (ed) but also reject themselves. Those negative comments here definitely don’t cheer them up but flip the bird on them. I would not really celebrate nor support trans, id actually fight it cuz i would rather want people to be their true self. I don't know the reason why people change, probably discomfort but i hope they at least took some good time to consider their choice.
The suicide rate in the transgender community is OFF THE CHARTS!
Statistically speaking if you make it past that, at some point you will be in psychiatric counseling, if you are not already because you will eventually find out that an operation didn't fill the emptiness inside that will still exist and even more regret will begin to flood in... just saying.
I think just of the same way as I think of everyone else, there are some really great ones and some really bad ones. I have 0 issues with anyone who is any part of the LGBT rainbow and welcome them to the club with a big hug just as long as they have generally nice personalities. 😊
They confuse me. I've met about 6 trans both ways. They say they want to be treated as their chosen gender but their behavior is that of their original sex. As such I always see them as their original sex as outside appearance matters very little to me.
It is an odd phenomenon, and the involved persons must have really a lot of courage and be very convinced of their choice, because always something will remind them of their original condition : no monthly periods, no pregnancy... No one should judge : their choice.
Human gender is not interchangeable. If you were born with a penis, you're a male and you'll never be a female but die a male; if you were born with a vagina, you're a female and you'll never be a male but die a female. Anything else is unnatural and fraudulent.
As long as they are harming no one, and dont carry around this idiotic attitude that they deserve straight men, when most straight men are not interested.. they are fine with me.. When they try to take sports records away from women, or leftists try to force little prepubescent children to transition.. That is when i have a MASSIVE issue with them.
It doesn’t matter what I, or anyone else thinks. If they’re happy and not causing anyone else any harm then go for it. To many people spend to much time worrying about others, when they should spend more time looking at themselves.
I have a trans friend at work and I was shocked to see how many guys want to fuck her knowing she’s trans. I’m not saying guys shouldn’t want to fuck her but just the amount of guys ok with her being trans. Just cause I get online and see so much trans hate so kinda crazy to see her dms from “straight” men
Congratulations! Does it feel better, now? I've got a few TS friends and have no problem at all with anyone else going that route. They're just people trying make their lives work the way they feel they should. I don't see why anyone should be upset about them.
I think they need mental health help. I'm not saying that in a nasty way, I'm being sincere. They're obviously suffering and need help. Cutting their penis off RARELY solves the issues they're facing.
I really don’t have much to say. At the end of the day we’re all humans and if you’re cool you’re cool 🤷🏾♀️ Nothing bad to say or judge unless you’re like a mean person or smth which I doubt. But all love and respect for each and every one <3
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They are not people. But confused bags of hormones who have taken a modern twist to Frankenstein. They have my pity, the poor fools. As they are in for a big fright when reality eventually hits them.
Knock yourself out if you believe it will make you happy down the line, but don't force us to feel bad for any perception and insecurities you may have and don't get mad when we say that you are still your birth gender, just cosmetically altered.
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1. Mental sickness. 2. Way too much free time on their hands and heads. 3. Easy living world where you have the luxury to basically go crazy because you have all the freedom and the time in the world.
I get so tired of this: “hey I just inverted my penis, ware girls clothes and gave myself a girls name and expect everyone to get on board with saying I’m a woman now.”
If someone has an XY chromosome, their still a male and there are major differences between the sexes other than genitals, like hormones, and muscle and bone mass and structure and neurology to name a few.
If someone tried to make me say the sky is green I wouldn’t because it’s not true. Likewise I refuse to participate in anyones delusions who think they can change sexes. They only people have have great compassion and sympathy for in regards to this matter are hermaphrodites. As for the rest I see them as engaging in sexual degeneracy to the degree they selfishly upheave the lives and relationships of immediate family and friends who are often bewildered and heart broken over this type of thing. Yet they don’t care. They don’t care what it’s like for a father to have child born a son who undergoes extreme surgery and wants to be treated as a woman.
I think what this is all about is getting a sexual thrill from living and dressing and getting penetrated like a girl and nothing more. They tried to say alcoholism is a disease because it runs in families and follows the patterns of a disease. It’s not. By calling it a disease we eliminate personal responsibility and accountability. The same with this issue. We call it mental illness when all things indicate it’s nothing more than a kink and sexual perversion.
For those who care to do these things so be it, but I will not participate in dilutions that sex is changeable or that this is anything other than a sexual perversion that has such power over a person that they’re willing to maim their bodies in pursuit of gratification of their desires.
I don’t hate anyone, but I will call things what they are. I won’t behave as I’m instructed by left wing fools to accommodate such delusions.
I wish them happiness. I’m happy for them to dress as they please and use the bathroom of their choice. However i’m mostly against allowing people with Y chromosomes to compete in women’s sports.
I think their brains are physiologically atypical for their initial physical gender. This results in gender dysphoria. They are usually miserable because of their inability to follow societal norms and expectations.
Honestly I don't know. On one hand, some trans are creeps and just do it to be evil, while others simply do it because they want to. So it depends on why. I don't have a negative or positive against these people
Agreed 100%. This weird celebration of people's personal delusions, is insane. I remember when this crap was contained to Tumblr, and everyone made fun of the weirdos who believed they were a wolfkin, or a cat in a girl's body... Now it's celebrated, and any sign of disagreement or mockery, is treated as a crime. It's even being considered a "hate crime," in some countries, with possible fines, or even jail time, for only speaking words of disagreement. The world has gone nutty.
I'm not trans but I have a lot of trans friends. I think we should respect everyone's pronouns and make Top surgery and bottom surgery more accessible.
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I think it’s messed up knowing I could be boning a man instead of a woman! You never know these days so you have to stay vigilant. Before any bedroom action I wanna see the birth certificate.
If it works for you, then why not. If it isn't working, then give it up. Just be careful out there in this world, there are a LOT! of hateful people in this world who are looking for someone to hate.
I am all for live and let live but in their case they will eventually hurt themselves or someone else though in some cases they are violently murdered by a man they tricked into sleeping with them...
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