8 months no contact, unblocks me off FB and Phone?

[Anonymous]

Rewinding...I was in a relationship with a girl for 5 years. We broke up about 8 months ago because she said she "wasn't happy." We really did end things in a really bad note to where she blocked me from her phone. So I had NC with this girl for 8 months. A few months ago, she started to hang out with my friend girls, and they all became best friends. My friend told me she wasn't going to date for a year and that she misses me, still thinks about me. Two weeks ago, a friend told her that I was going to a club and she shows up with her best guy friend and some guy she was talking talk to. I ignored her the whole night. She then unblocks me off of Facebook and I just basically msged her asking her if that was intentional. No response, So I sent her another message telling her that I don't ever want to see you again. the next day I was on her twitter and she post that she was listening to a song, "the one and only" by Adele. Super sappy. I felt bad and I messaged her by phone and I told her that I was still hurt and that I still love her and miss her everyday. And I know she has a a new guy she's talking to and that I'm OK with it. No Response again. It just didn't make any sense if she was happy with this guy she didn't have to see what I was up to and why ignore my message when I asked an honest questions. I don't know..maybe you guys can help me. Thank you.

[Anonymous]

wowww I think I should do what she is doing...it reminds me of my story!..my boyfriend of 2 years moved on 2 weeks after the break up ..he dumped me..he is with another girl I blocked him on fb he still didn't contact me...he broke my heart to million pieces..i think she is giving you the cold shoulder ..she will come back ...dont worry just message her once more be like can you quit playing already and talk otherwise you will never hear from me again...she will reply to you! we girls tend to do this so that you men should feel and go through what we felt when you were ignoring us...

[AmoreRisvegliato]

By unblocking you a Facebook it means she's not mad anymore. About showing up everywhere, she might be trying to make you jealous but ignoring you because she's hurt. Maybe she wants to see where you really are with her.

[girl_power111]

you should not have msged her directly "i love u...i miss u"... you have broken up for 8 months... it takes time

[brkadv]

Sometimes when other relationships aren't keeping them occupied, they will think back to who they can look to for an ego stroke. So even after a long time, if there is a lull in their social life, they may remember you and decide to see if they can suck you back in just enough to feel good about themselves. She got you to come to her and tell her how you care about her. Perhaps that's all she was looking for.

On the other hand, perhaps she unblocked you just as part of unblocking everyone. Maybe you're reading too much into it, who knows.

[Anonymous]

wow really? no offense to your ex but she's doesn't know what the f**ck she wants. my ex did the same thing to me and I have been on NC with her for 8 months as well. just get a clean break from her COMPLETELY and trust me you will not regret that! I may not be an expert at this but you gotta draw the line somewhere.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

These guys are right.

[diamond3]

she unblocked you which means she's not mad anymore.. but she refused to message you back means she doesn't want you in her life still

[Anonymous]

I think she wants you back.