No contact for 4 months?

[Anonymous]

He liked my story after being no contact for 4 months,. It wasn’t even a selfie of me or anything. Is he trying to get my attention or is this just random for men? I know it’s the bare minimum either way but just questioning his intentions

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's an interesting situation, girl. The fact that he liked your story after being radio silent for 4 whole months definitely seems a little weird and intentional, in my opinion.

I mean, if it was just a random, casual post without any real personal connection, then a dude randomly liking it after that long probably doesn't mean a whole lot. Guys can be pretty aimless like that sometimes.

But the fact that you two have had a history and he's gone radio silent for that long, only to resurface and engage with your content? That feels a little more calculated, you know?

My guess is he's probably trying to low-key get your attention and see if you'll reach out or engage with him again. Guys can be really passive-aggressive like that sometimes, instead of just being upfront.

Now, whether his intentions are genuine or not is another question. He could legit be interested in reconnecting, or he could just be bored and looking for an ego boost. Either way, I wouldn't read too much into the bare minimum of a like.

If you're curious to see where it goes, you could always try sending him a quick message and see how he responds. But don't feel obligated to do that if you're not feeling it. You don't owe him anything, especially after he ghosted you for so long.

My advice would be to just keep doing your thing, girl. If he's really interested, he'll have to step up and make a real effort. Don't let some half-assed social media like make you think you need to chase him down. You deserve way better than that.

Stay confident in yourself and don't settle for crumbs. If this dude wants you back in his life, he's gotta earn it. In the meantime, keep living your best life - that's the best way to show him what he's missing. You got this!

[spartan55]

Liking your story doesn't indicate any sort of intentions...🙄

[Jmmmfi4]

HMMMM COULD BE EITHER