What are non-criminal things you consider unforgivable?

[Danielle93]

Not counting murder, rape, torture nor any other terrible criminal stuff... what things do you consider unforgivable that not even with a sincere apology helps.

I think if you went out of your way of bullying someone for your own pleasure (and you're already a lot older... not a little kid anymore) or trying to ruin people's relationships (ex: lying to them that you saw their partner cheating) that doesn't deserve any forgiveness. Unforgivable. What about you? What is unforgivable to you?

[Emilyis]

In the ninth grade a boy grabbed my boob. Although there really wasn't anything there. He had no right to do it and He wore a black eye for 2 weeks. Another boy in the 12th grade grabbed my my crotch as I was carrying my lunch tray as I was in the lunch line at school. Ikicked him in the balls. He went to his knees and stayed there. I threw my tray at him as he layed on the floor. Mrs. was the lunch room monitor and ask if he was ok but she didn't off to help him get up. The lunch room ladies brought me out another tray with a nicely proportioned tray of food and I got a lot of good loud cheer out of it from the rest of the students in the lunch room. Made my day.

[Yucy_Gluttony]

Cheating is. Manipulating is.

[Drumlin2001]

When my fell unexpectedly pregnant she ended relationship (which she was entitled to do), but started talking but me not having custody of my child till they were at least 3 years old. To me, using a child as a weapon is unforgivable. A child has 2 parents, they should equally be in their lives. Custody ought to be settled. on a basis as 50/50 unless there's an exceptional circumstance.
It ended in a miscarriage so I'll never know how it would have played out.
But having gone on to have 2 kids with my now fiancé, who are 2 and 11 months, I fully believe that I'm as capable a parent as thier mother.

[HighlyVolatile]

I try to consider everything forgivable including criminal acts; I don't consider anything unforgivable, even mass murder. That said, I'd still be in favor of locking the person away after I forgive them to protect society if they are a danger to society.

[Kaneki05]

I mean bullying is actually a crime.
Things that are not yeah stuff like cheating, as you said lying to ruin someone's relationship or friendship, I mean for simplicity basically anything that's deceiving just to cause problems that may not be illegal but are bad.
Though I would say a lot is illegal tbf it's just people get away with it.

[weysally]

I think its unforgivable that parents do not discipline children like they should, its good that a child must know that in life they just can't have everything they want unless they work for it, to just give them things they will never know the true value of things

[Felinegirl]

Cheating, talking shit about a close friend behind their back, ruining someone's social life, thatsort of things.

[RSav4013]

I can't stand it when people undeservingly throw others under the bus or will directly negatively impact someone else's life for no reason other than to improve their own life.

[Rei02]

Stalking, that you say no to someone but he or she insists in making his or her way. Treating others like dirt no matter the excuses, not even if they have a freudian excuse.

[Snsl153]

Gaslighting. If anyone ever tries to do it to me they had better watch out, because I just might tamper with the brakes of their car, or "accidentally" push them out a window.

[Vesuvius87]

Cheating
Future-faking (lying about wanting kids, wasting my time)
Defamation of character/slandering

Overall: cruel liars

[Anonymous]

I don't consider anything unforgivable. Forgiving isn't for the criminal. It is for the victim. Traditional thinking may not understand what I just said though. Understandable.

[NZGirl07]

Something unforgivable to me is manipulation, or constant lying. I value honesty and transpareny.

[MCheetah]

Rape and murder are about the only two I can think of. But you said they don't count.

[Apulu_Imback]

Everything is forgivable if the person truly feels guilty for their deeds.

[Guy__]

Pretending you care about people when you don't, just because you think you have to. And denying it.

[jshm2]

Not caring about the right things and being apathetic - or choosing to be an American

[n4meAL]

belittle or be disrespectful because of wealth and power

[SignedAutographs]

Wouldn't that just automatically default to anything that's considered a misdemeanor, not a felony (criminal). I mean, they're still illegal, but they're not criminal

[dreamstar72]

Being racist by racist Im talking about hate toward any race or different abilities

[rienna888]

Bullying or making fun of people because of the way they look (unless they have started it first)

[xJayleenx]

Being mean to animals like kicking them and spitting at them for fun, cheating, flirting with other girls, etc.

[jasco]

Grand theft auto. Stealing someone's car is just not right for me

[Jamie05rhs]

Having sex before marriage. (Especially if she grew up as a Christian. Because she knew better.)

[ShyGuy303]

Disrespect from someone who supposed to be on your side

[Anonymous]

Giving someone trauma it can be oarents partners whoever, betraying ones trust, giving a scar emotional or physical to a person is unforgivable

[Anonymous]

Lying. When you lie to me you're calling me stupid.

[Sarahr123]

Infidelity

[kinggeorge007]

Lying, cheating, using, manipulating

[Deathraider]

I would say a breach of privacy or comfort.

[KrakenAttackin]

Liberal SJW mentality.

[Shy_Steve]

Being rude to someone in Public.

[lofii]

Playing with my emotions is unforgivable

[jennifer_bloom]

Slander I think

[whereismyjohnny]

Betray and lying.

[amyisme]

Hurting animals

[penteractgaming]

Cheating

[CloudMassacre]

Cheating

[Anonymous]

Asking questions like this

[zexar37]

cheating for sure

[MelonJuice]

Emotional abuse

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Simping for animals

[Jltakk]

Ghosting.

[Magarmor64]

cheating!