After viewing your videos and photos, I can see that you are very pretty. Therefore, I am absolutely certain that guys approach you and other guys would approach you if you would just give them a chance by being friendly, smiling, and saying, "Hi." Therefore, when you say, guys don't approach, what you mean is the guys that do approach you don't count because they are not hot. That is, they are not sexy, they are not athletic enough, and they are not tall, dark, and handsome.
If your standards are unrealistically too high, you need to lower them or stop complaining and lying to yourself and others. I know that because I have the same problem. The boy I like doesn’t seem to notice me even though I give him hints. Instead he is into soccer and other sports. However, too many fat and stupid boys approach me and I can tell that much older guys, that I wouldn’t be allow to date even if I wanted to, indicate that they would like to approach me but I am not going to give them an opportunity.
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Fear of rejection could be one reason why they don't approach you. Insecurity, and the belief that they're perhaps "not good enough" could be another.
My daughter saw a little boy playing near us and pointed him out to me.
I said "go talk to him."
she bashfully replied as she curled up close in my arms "I am scared to"
"He is too" I said warmly curling my head down to look at her upside down. "you both are afraid some one has only to be brave enough to say hello"
People like you are a blessing to all of those who are shy, bitter, disgruntled, and afraid.
Don't give up. You are doing wonders. You may not see all the fruits of your efforts.
I am the same way and I have little in friends. But I think for me the next step is inviting groups of people to go places.
Is the question "why aren't good, willing, ladies not asked out?"
For one, if you're at school many view it as a serious place you're supposed to work at. If they look at you during busy times around exams (which are also stressful and stress hormones aren't a bonus for relationship talk) even if they found a spare moment to talk to you, it may seem like an inappropriate place.
You say boys punch each other when they know one likes you, obviously they care about other's judgements, which isn't very mature. Maybe they are afraid of ANY relationships for various reasons, such as knowing they're not ready for a sustainable one?
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Dude guys just look at a girl and think she's pretty and that's it, and they go on back to the task at hand.
Most will assume that you are taken.
The confident guys will hit on you, but it would be likely that they are players.
I think in life you will find it difficult to get guys who are genuinely interested in you, most guys that you will meet probably will only like your physical attributes, and then once you offer them your body, the next day they would move on to the next gal that they meet. Such is life.
You are young, ignore guys for now, and just work on yourself. Get some life experiences first and be a good judge of character.
These are your best years, use them well and the right guy will one-day find ya.
PEACE!good question... i say maybe ur body language is not welcoming maybe ur always closed off like for example crossing ur arms in front of people will make them think that u dont want to talk or u dont wanna be approached also having a poker face all the time will make people not approach u... i think thats the main problem and lets put attractiveness aside cause ur good looking and im positive that the issue is not with ur looks
Sweet don’t let it bother you! Guys are dumb in high school and a lot of girls leave high school with bad experiences. Especially relationship experiences… but you are sweet and smart and you seem like a lot of fun I have no doubt that collage will go better for you!
I mean I respect the amount of balls you have this to post this like this. I will always respect balls lol, but I mean c'mon you are 18 for crying out loud. You have plenty of time. Also news flash you women have the power when it comes to dating and marriage. If you haven't learned that then you soon will trust me.
intimidation, fear of rejection, they may assume you are taken already, maybe you don't appear approachable in their eyes (even if you personally think you are). could be a number of things.
my solution is to just approach guys yourself.They were afraid to make the first move u can always find ways to talk to them ask for help or compliment them to start a convo. I ve been there when i never made a move on my crush i changed that later on. Try finding ways to get in touch with them or ways to start a convo.
I watched your video and I have to say I love your accent!
Can I be honest with you? It is nothing wrong with you. It is just that they don't really know you and I really don't talk to strangers much. I don't want to bother them and I don't want people bothering me really
Make eye contact. Make eye contact. Make eye contact.
I think it has nothing to do with you but most people just don't like to approach. In my case, I prefer minding my own business unless someone talks to me.
They might be thinking the same thing, tmshe looked at us and didn't say hi and now they are sad 😂
Shy guys like me cannot talk with beautiful girls in person 😅
Exams are stressful and most people just want to get them over with and aren't thinking about a new relationship.
Wow you are incredibly beautiful you know that? i am being extremely honest right now i am also confused why you are having trouble finding a guy or making friends. You look like an amazing and kind and wonderful person
I can't click on the videos, can you copy and paste a link under this comment
How’d your exams go? Did you do well?
You're so fuckable 😘
You have YouTube? 🤣
great question
I wonder too
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