How to free up time when your always on call 24/7 with everybody?

[Anonymous]

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Draw your boundaries.

When do you want that time for yourself? And from whom?

Then, start setting that explanation with the people in your life. And stick to it.

You might feel guilty or weird at first, but persevere. You'll get there. :)

[Asker]

I like your layout on what you said. My only problem is my lady times because my phone has blown up from someone when I was in a friends with benefits session. lucky no one came over and ruined the session because that would suck big time.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Yeah, maybe shut your phone off during those times - but if people barging in is a problem, again, draw that boundary.

But a sock or a tie out and train people that if the sock's on the door, knock or it's cocks.

[Asker]

Im getting my boundaries drawn out. If anybody has no respect on my new boundaries then they can go. I’m not tolerating this crap anymore. This been going on too far. They can find help elsewhere

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Absolutely. You're very right.

You can't be all things to everyone. You have you to be. If they need things you can't or don't want to provide, they just have to go elsewhere.

Proud of you. Stick to your guns.

[Anonymous]

Stop being on call 24/7 with everybody. You're the most important, you must your priority.

[Asker]

It’s very complicated. If I stop then all hell breaks loose. Don’t have time for myself or have romantic time anymore. I would love to sleep for days or weeks but if I do then law enforcements get called on asking me why I haven’t been answering peoples calls for days.

[Opinion Owner]

lmao, is your work what you're talking about, right?

[Pterodon]

Stop being on call

[Asker]

It’s complicated but I’ll love to sleep for days or weeks without getting call on from law enforcement from trying to take a break from all the craziness

[Pterodon]

I don’t go for this nobody else but me bullshit. Who would they call if you dropped dead?

[Asker]

All hell will still break loose but at least I’ll can rest more peacefully