Im 28 waisted my life , no girlfriend , no job , no saving , there's no hop left for me and sometimes I think I doomed , is 28 too late to start ?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

No, but you better get your hussle on. I started to turn my life around at 21. Guys peak at 50, so make sure to get things in order before then.

Here are your objectives:
• Start with ANY job and change upwards• Get into shape and learn to cook• Create a daily routine and frequent certain places to get people used to seeing you (easier when you have a work routine to pad it out). These are my guidelines. Im already in shape but low strength, so going to the Gym & Yoga classes part of my routine.[If only I wasn't such a wuss I could speak to girls who stroke their hair near me...]You can do it dude!

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, and dont interact with any girl at the Gym or Yoga. Only chat if she initiates.

The hair twirling thing only occurs when Im out and about. But we'll build up the confidence to chat with them once we have ourselves in order.

[Asker]

Hows that your chance your life went so far?

[Opinion Owner]

Can you rephrase that?

[Opinion Owner]

To attract a girl you need dress sense, fitness, composure and confidence (which I lack). Then to persuade the girl you are worthy you need a job and interests.

You can do this at any age. I'm doing it now.

[Asker]

I meant to say change , but accidentally wrote chance , my mistake , i was asking what happen did you reach success after 21 ?
I hop you succeed ❤️

[Opinion Owner]

After making these changes I'm now attracting girls (as I said in my OP) but I'm still too shy to speak to them.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Life isn’t easy my friend but then again it isn’t hard. When it comes to life some people have a lot on their plate & some people have a buffet. As for me I live by a few rules or guidelines as some say. In life you should never give up, you should never give in & most of all you should keep moving forward no matter what.

As for you you’re twenty eight years young & as for your life it isn’t wasted it’s just on hold for the time being. My brother from another mother turn your frown upside down & after you do that start writing a future for yourself.

You don’t have a job so get off your flocking ass & do something about it. Go down to companies in your area & talk to someone in Human Resources & if that company isn’t hiring ask them if they know of anyone else hiring in the area.

The one thing about the future is the fact that it isn’t written & it’s never too late to start writing.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

As long as you have life it's never too late to turn it around

[Asker]

Thanx🙏

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Good luck, it's not easy but then life isn't always easy is it

[WindAtMyBack]

You still have plenty of time. Don't procrastinate your life away though. You have plenty of time, but it's not unlimited.

[Asker]

Yeh , well noted

[chad_champion]

Depends what your goals are. If you want to start the next big tech company, it's too late but if you want live a good life, it's not late.

[Asker]

That seems realistic , i have to lower my standards in order to be happy

[Chazmatazz269]

Barely your prime and less than middle aged. Yeah, plenty of time left, Eeyore. Ell oh ell!

[Sparkie460]

Everyone starts over every day. Every day is a new beginning. It doesn't matter how old or young you are.

[Cubus]

It's never too late to start. You just have to be determined strong enough :)

[NamerOfStars]

Not if you're still alive.

[Anonymous]

Nope. I really didn't begin till 30 and now I got a high 6 figure net worth.

[fonduegirl]

That's okay. Start now.

[IHateBeingaMan]

are you saying you never had a girlfriend before?

[Asker]

Yes , i did not have a girlfriend

[Twalli]

28 isn't too late to start

[DevinAM]

There's always hope unless you give up on it.

[nawtee_me]

never to late...

[countrygirl8754]

Ofc not go ahead

[jjj101010]

There is always hop

[Sonorous]

I've always loved that quote!

[Fuentes]

Your only 28