What are your thoughts on a dad shaving his daughters hair for bullying another?

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Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

I like it. More parents should do this kind of thing.
Kids are out of control because they never face consequences for their bad behavior. They grow up to be the worst kind of adults who think they’re being victimized when they face real consequences for the first time. Then they sue or “cancel” a person or organization rather than get their own shit together.

Telekinetic-Potato · Accepted Answer

I think I would have told her to bring the girl over to our house first. I would have made her see the other girl as a human being one way or another.

I wouldn't want her to lose her confidence in herself and risk her becoming even more of a bitch when her hair grows back. Which ultimately would probably play out even worse than if the dad did nothing.

VIVANT · Accepted Answer

Thus was perfect and not extreme at all perhaps she will develop some useful empathy skills. That was a disgusting thing the girl did and this is a just reward. She’s lucky her parents didn’t beat her. Im not saying they should’ve I don’t agree with it I’m saying that’s a risk- bullies often get bullied at home.

BlueScorpio · Accepted Answer

Honestly good idea. He's showing his daughter how it feels to be in someone else's shoes. Sometimes the only way some people learn is when something bad happens to them cause people can be too self centered to understand what they did was wrong.

mamuma02 · Answer

She won't learn the lesson just because he shaved her head. She might even bully the cancer girl more for the anger of her dad shaving her har.

A girl with cancer gets bullied no matter if she has hair or not.

But a bald girl without cancer will be seen as a model or something.

But the are also positiv sides too. Maybe she will stop to bully the cancer girl because if the fear of being punished.

CelticCrusader · Answer

Kid got what they deserved simple as that. Good parents will punish bad behavior and reward good behavior. My kid beats up another kid just to bully him? My kid is gonna be grounded from everything for a month and no allownce for 2 if they beat up a kid because he attacked one of their friends and they did it to protect them? That kid gets an ice cream cone and play video games durrimg suspention.

snowboarder720 · Answer

Hell yes, shave her head to give her level of understanding.
Unfortunately that’s how people in this world works. There’s no understanding unless they experience it themselves to learn a lesson. How are we supposed to teach how racism works to white people in a white community? Lessons like that just simply aren’t learned and most don’t want to learn because they’ve never experience it.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Interesting, just one person disagrees so far.

I'm with the "I don't know how I feel about it" other lone ambivalent commenter.

I know I'd be completely ashamed to have raised a daughter like this. That would not happen.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Good! I was bullied, but never bullied back... You know there is a saying..."what goes around, comes around"... So if she would have been my Daughter i would have done the same, plus i would take her and go to the other girl's house and ASK MY DAUGHTER TO SINCERE APOLOGISE!

AviatorTom · Answer

It's a bit extreme but it should teach the girl a lesson that what she did is totally unacceptable, and now she gets the experience the same kind of things that the girl she bullied experiences.

LazerBean · Answer

Good 🤷🏽‍♀️ if all children knew that they would not get away with bullying, schools would stop having bullies.

YollyM · Answer

Hair regrows, so it's not the end of the world. Also hair is a fundamental part of a girls figure for lack of a better word, so I guess he really wanted her to learn a lesson.

Was it extreme, yes!
But will her life be ruined? not really

abc3643 · Answer

A lesson she won't forget. It's rather extreme, but it definitely and unambiguously gets the point across. So, for that reason, I can accept that and approve.

Death_To_Stress · Answer

A little late for him to play catch-up for shit parenting, but the daughter still has a slim chance to develop some empathy before it's too late

LexiXide · Answer

It's not their fault that they have cancer so you shouldn't go in bully them I think he did the right thing

Roseboy · Answer

okay
so i think shaving your kids hair as a punishment is a horrible thing to do
but
here i can't like
i feel like that was a prettyy good punishment, putting her in the girl's shoes like that
also shows solidarity so thats great

globetrotter22 · Answer

If this is true he’s an excellent father. Bullies need to be given harsh reprimands YET at the same time forgiven if they come to grips about their behavior.

ElementoP · Answer

I used to be a bully. Pushing kids to the ground, calling them names, pulling girls' hair, etc... My dad stopped it by being nicer to me, believe it or not I still pull girls' hair though

hahahmm · Answer

Probably one of the few legit reasons to shave a girl's head. Normally it should be off limits.

Blackcosmo · Answer

Sounds pretty extreme but she should have had the heart to leave the poor girl alone. Maybe she'll understand once she goes through it too.

Flats-Runner · Answer

Kids these days get away with too much. She needed to be taught a lesson. All these spoiled brats being brought up nowadays.

Subarugirl · Answer

well I know where she was taught how to bully... If the father's intent was to teach his daughter that she has no autonomy over her body, he did a good job.

exitseven · Answer

Even though I can understand this it is not right to do that to your kid. i would have made her apologize and then do chores for the girl's family.

RiseofArtemis · Answer

He did it right. He gave her consequences for her actions. She will remember this lesson and never do the same shit again.

purplepoppy · Answer

You have to be a pretty low piece of shit to do what that girl did so I've no sympathy for her.

NathanDavis · Answer

good... hopefully she learns many good things about her actions, and consequences...

SlangSlayer · Answer

She got off light in my book. You know bullying can catch you a case. And cause lawsuits. Me embarrassing and disciplining my child save them in the future

Sparkie460 · Answer

I agree with this. The cancer victim can't help not having hair. Nobody should bully her for it. I hope she learned her lesson.

OddBeMe · Answer

I like it. I mean its traumatic for a young girl. But what she did was pretty bad.

Maybe I'd go more consolatory and have her tour a cancer ward or something. I don't know. But teaching empathy is hard but important.

redbeardsley91 · Answer

Honestly, I think he's showing his daughter what it's like to be that girl with cancer. While some argue it's public humiliation, and it is, it's also teaching humility as well as having empathy for others.

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Ha - get recked. Bet she won't bully anyone with cancer again.

Snsl153 · Answer

Good! Love it! :) Hopefully now she won't be such a bitch.

maximumpower · Answer

Is there more background than just that? Would say there are already issues in that family. Could think of far worse things that could have been done. Bullies are @$$holes.

Mangospacho · Answer

It’s not even the worst thing he could’ve done to punish her. The hair is gonna grow back and she’ll just look like Britney Spears for a few months.

TallAnon · Answer

I mean, I shave my hair every other week basically, so it's not a big gesture. The bullying is very sad though.

Fryday_Knight · Answer

It's sublime. She'll grow back her hair eventually, but for the time being she will be in the shoes of her victim. It's a good lesson.

Fuentes · Answer

I would never raise a Bully and if my kid was to bully I would give her something to laugh about with everyone else. So a blad head sounds very good. She will learn to be humble.

JohnK123 · Answer

She had to learn her lesson somehow. She prob bullied the poor kid and posted a tik tok. But i think the shaving head was prob too far… but still

demonics · Answer

Based and Giga-Chad-Dad pilled. I mean my God FINALLY some consequences.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

This is sad for one to make fun of one with cancer

TonightYouu · Answer

The only thing you need to do to discipline kids today is say these two little words  NO WI-FI

EnglishEuropean · Answer

I think it's appropriate and proportionate. Hopefully that awful brat will learn something.

Still-alive · Answer

I approve of this. bullies deserve to be punished

Likes2drive · Answer

Interesting way of parenting to show her what it’s like

IndyZee · Answer

Good for him! She needs to feel a piece of the humiliation she caused the other girl. Hopefully, the daughter will learn a valuable lesson.

monkeynutts · Answer

Yeah it's a crappy thing she did. She won't do it again.

driven159 · Answer

I bet she learned her lesson good for the dad

Fireguy17 · Answer

Good for him. It might be a lesson she may never forget.

MCheetah · Answer

Sounds like a good dad to me.

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

Good parenting

20yearsolder · Answer

Awesome, maybe she'll learn her lesson

bakajana · Answer

He taught her a lesson. He's got my respect

BCA6010 · Answer

I'd buy that man a drink.

Guy13 · Answer

That a Boy 💇‍♀️…..

jennifer_bloom · Answer

She obviously deserves it.

BeMuse · Answer

Bad parenting.

Lynx122 · Answer

Honestly I think it's a good idea.

Idkwtfimdoing96 · Answer

ngl I would do that too lmao

Exterminatore · Answer

That’s awesome! Good job dad!

douride2 · Answer

I would say the punishment fits.

Prettysammie · Answer

Better than giving her cancer

Juxtapose · Answer

This gave me a spiritual boner.

Staximus · Answer

Good job of it actually happened

Nikki1989 · Answer

Seems fair enough!

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