What does it mean when a guy says “I don’t want to waste time after first date?

[Anonymous]

He said he’s looking for something serious and doesn’t want to waste time.

He said that after first date. Naybe he thought that I wasn’t really into him..

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1 y

Maybe*

[slatyb]

BIG RED FLAG. Dating is not a waste of time. That's how we get to know people and decide if they would be a good partner for us. Don't let him rush you into anything.

[Asker]

I don’t understand his statement at all..

[Asker]

He was quick to reject me though…

[slatyb]

You aren't missing anything. He's not looking for a partner, he's looking for someone to follow his bizarre script for life.

[Asker]

I’m wondering if he thought that I wasn’t serious about him and that’s why he said that…?

[Smoothing]

Thr first date is usually for determining whether the person you are dating is worth the second date. He was basically telling you a second date will not happen.

[Asker]

I was wondering if he thought that I wasn’t serious about him and that’s why he said that…? He was quick to reject me though…

[Smoothing]

I wouldn't know what to tell you about why he rejected you without knowing the details of the date.

[dustybiker]

Sounds like he has problems. Leave him to himself to figure out. Find someone nicer.

[duttyjamagyal]

Imma say that too cuz I'm not tryna play around with these hoes

[Asker]

I’m wondering if he thought that I wasn’t serious about him and that’s why he said that…? He was quick to reject me though…

[duttyjamagyal]

Yeah, probably

[Danny_dan92]

They just wanna fuck

[Asker]

We come from conservative culture so no sex before marriage.

[Danny_dan92]

Sounds fun…