Being there when my dad passed away… he was sick for a while and it was tough to go through the prolonged ups and downs, literally years, hoping there’s a cure, watching someone’s health slowly decline, and reaching a point of acceptance where you realize it’s just a matter of time…
Really painful stuff for everyone involved… the last few days he was alive were incredibly eerie just in how everything was such a blur. Hard to describe what it was like… just very difficult.
Just seeing someone clinging to life and in a moment, they’re gone. And you get the SENSE that they’re gone… that they’ve left… you see them there, but they’re not “there” anymore, ya know? Somewhere else… and you literally FEEL it so strongly.
Again, a very strange and tough time…
Most Helpful Opinions
I was a late bloomer. At 35, having had some therapy I entered into my first relationship. We had an intense few months, she was my first for everything, until she seemed to go a bit cold shortly before valentines day. We met up on Valentines, she dumped me, and told me she was pregnant. We spoke a few times in weeks after, wasn't going in a good direction. She miscarried. We never really spoke after that. She did reach out a few months later, not sure why, was a short and unproductive conversation.
Losing her was hard. But it took me a few days to get my head around impending fatherhood, especially knowing I'd only be a part time dad. To have that taken away was very difficult.
moving away from my parents meaning i had to leave my siblings alone with those assholes. still something i feel guilty about, but it is what it is
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
18Opinion
Multiple tragic and unexpected deaths in the family within a few years of one another, followed by four of my "church friends" all deciding to backstab me at once on the same day. They gave me some religious hypocrite treatment, like Job's friends did him in the Bible, and blamed my family deaths on me and them, which is horse crap.
My father died from brain cancer at 50 years old, and my oldest first cousin died a year and a half earlier in a construction accident. My evil "friends" don't know anything about life or God. I stood in their wedding a few months earlier, and then they had the audacity to do this to me.
Getting blamed for no apparent reason by someone i was trying to help emotionally. And still continuing to help people emotionally only for them to leave, go back to the same problems, or see them in even worse situations than before because the traumatic events keep happening.
Also, seeing the whole extended family drift apart after the death of the patriarch and matriarch.When I graduated from high school my parents wanted to retire to california. So they had to put their pet dog to sleep. My mom told me to do it because she was unable to. I took my dog to the vet and had her put to sleep. It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do. To top it off the both of it and the cashier looked at me in disdain
One of our life long family friends just lost her husband in an ATV accident last year and a few weeks ago her son blew his head off with a shot gun right after an argument between them
I've been through some shit in my life, but I don't dwell on it because I know there's so many people out there who would kill to have my problemsI was going through a big upheaval in my life. I was about to lose my job and I was going to school at night to train for a career change I was struggling with the program and out of the blue my father died.
Being evicted from my house and losing half of my life because of my greedy, evil ex-sisters! That and have pneumonia 3 times.
After 36 years, one month and five hours I had to serve my wife as she bacme trapped in her body till I almost work my self to death and after her death seven more years to come out of grief and exhausting
- u
Death it’s a life altering experience and a part of you dies as well. A man can only take so much Losing loved ones
I was suicidal cause of my toxic partner (now ex). I could see myself hanging dead in my room. It was scary.
I'm better now.rejection by a 4 year crush. i've had some surgeries and shit but that was peanuts compared.
constipation , i actually i use my hand/finger to pull it out
Probably getting divorced and losing my home at the same time
Death of parent, divorce, and loss of steady job - all within a few months of each other.
I had a gun held to my head during a robbery.
Brain surgery but worked out...
losing people in life
The death of my father.
taxes
Leaky butthole
dying
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!