What would you say I need to work on or improve about myself and personality?

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Okay, so this is basically opening myself up for a Roasting, but it's probably long overdue. What would you say I, MCheetah, need to work on or improve. My GAG self isn't all that I am as a person, obviously, but I don't lie or sugarcoat who I am either. Maybe sometimes I can be a jerk; maybe sometimes I get annoyed easily, I dunno. But I'm open to criticism and feedback, as long as you're not a total asshole about it.

So tell me what I should work on and I'll take it into consideration.

RealMarek · Accepted Answer

My impression of you is that you are highly intelligent. I find your posts tend to be interesting and entertaining. You have also been through some really difficult things and can write about them in a thought provoking way. As someone who has seen my own share of troubles and unfairness I respect that. I wouldn’t say you need to change your personality. I would like to see you find contentment though, and that is more a matter of attitude than personality. I think that if you were a bit less fatalistic and saw the glass as half full instead of half empty sometimes it would make a big difference. You don’t have to be a big optimist, just try to look at things a little bit differently. For example, I know the stats about women and their preferences, but an average is not absolute or universal; there is a distribution of behavior. Granted, “over 6 feet tall” is the number one filter women pick on dating sites, but it is still just a minority of women who hold that height as a standard. It’s certainly not a reason to lose hope especially when you have talent and are an interesting person. Basically, it’s okay to call out toxic behavior and to examine social dysfunction, but at the same time try not to think of all women as having the same average behavior. That’s just one example. Finally, I would suggest that you examine yourself and ask yourself whether you feel that you are affected by bitterness. If so, try to let go of bitterness. This can be difficult especially if there is pain from loss underlying it.

Hope that helps, and I wish you the best.

ShadezMcgee · Accepted Answer

Your blunt and direct no bullshit answers and views are good to have here on a site like this, even though they may be harsh and unpopular at times.

The biggest thing with you that I notice is your negativity and deprecation towards your physical features out of your control that you bring up frequently. From experience, no one likes being around negative people be it men or women.

Now your height. Bro, you are pushing six feet tall, you are tall despite what you think compared to someone like me who is 5' 8". I have seen the lost of women you had success/slept with, so I would say you do fairly well compared to other men on the site who have gotten no nookie at all in life. Your other one is your dick size. Once again man, if what you say about your size being over 6.5 inches is true, you are set and way above average to other guys here too.

Everything about you is you and you should embrace it flaws and all. You are a good guy despite how you come off at times, just shave off a lot of that negativity and you will be golden. Keep fighting, man.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

You're the male version of women who say "there are no good men anymore" and "men are all dogs". Also the male version of women who say "men are so shallow and the only reason they don't like me is {insert physical feature that is overwhelmingly shadowed by a constant negative mental or emotional trait}"

Honestly I don't really have a problem with you being negative in a lot of comments, because I am too. There are a lot of people who ask really stupid questions or are just straight up stupid themselves. But any time most people see an "all men/women are such and such" type person, most people (irl) are going to automatically consider their judgement as motivated and skewed.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

When I came back on here in May after a year, you tagged me on one of your MyTake which I was flattered about. You got my attention. I used to tread on carefully around you when I speak my mind but you’re not bad! You just have to take it easy and not be so hard on yourself. You seem like an educated guy with a good head on your shoulders. Your height and colour shouldn’t make you feel less of who you are because that’s not what defines you. Think Peter Dinklage. That man defies boundaries! I know he’s way shorter than you but he is fire! So own it! And I do wanna give you a virtual hug regardless you want it or not 😂.

Harbringer26 · Answer

I give you credit for asking the question.
As for what this thing would be, not to be an ass, but it's quite blatant. Your obsession with height and the absolute disdain you show for it. You need to realize that there are others out there as tall as you who might not previously thought anything of it (nor suffered any problems) but when you constantly berate your height as being "pathetic and short and never the ideal and substandard" etc. etc. you're hurting them too, I mean for goodness sake you posted an entire comic about it. I get if you have some issues with it mentally but work it out dude and don't make others insecure because of it. Look man, I'm about 182cm, I've never once thought anything of it, nor have I been treated poorly or had bad luck with women because of it. Are there shallow women out there who goes "only 6'+ foot" yes. But they're not all women. And vain women like that aren't desirable in any case, they make for terrible partners and wives.

To be fair I haven't seen you make those comments lately so maybe you've already dropped it, but just to give you my two cents. Because when you call your own height pathetic and worthless, you're insulting others too.

jennyPuss · Answer

be less opinionated without sacrificing your convictions. you can hear people out and accept their point of view without necessarily absorbing their point of view as your personal truth. people live in different parts of the world and experience different things. just because it's true for you doesn't mean it will be true for them. when you accept the philosophy that neither side is right it allows you to exchange culture. that makes us different, not wrong. true diversity is accepting your neighbor's differences, not forcing your differences down your neighbor's throat.

a man who can engage other people and share culture without changing himself is strong and sexy. a man should not be easily moved.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

I think you're a very smart, passionate man. Your posts always come with a lot of thought, effort and facts to back your opinions.

To improve (and thisnisnofncourse just based off what I can see of you on here):
You can be far too negative. You're too focused on your height; believe me there are other ways to stand tall and be noticed.
You bash on women very often. It's actually quite off putting, and that's even when I'll agree with your assessment on some women. I'd imagine it's the same as when men hear "all men are *insert generic insult here*"
The way you retort can sometimes be a little aggressive and derogative ESPECIALLY when it has to do with 'woke' and other things you despise.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

I think you're a good person who cares about others... You're probably a very decent guy IRL... I think your whole angry attitude towards life ( especially women ) is understandable... You think genetics and society failed you and you're having an existential crisis...

JDavid25 · Answer

Well, your online persona is a reflection of your real persona but you would most likely be perceived differently in real life.. But from your online persona.. I agree with you a lot.. Sometimes you even spit my thoughts right at me.. But, I will say that you do seem a bit pessimistic about women.. Especially with height.. I remember you said that you were 5'10 or 5'11.. And you call yourself short.. 5'10 is fine and 5'11 is slightly above average still.. Living in Korea I would think you would be on the taller side since the average in both sides of the country is 5'7" and 5'5" for men.. The women are even shorter.. I don't know sometimes I think you are joking about the short thing..

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I don't have anything terrible to say about you. You seem like a decent person. The worst I could say is that you have this "you're wrong and stupid if you don't agree with me" and that's going to rub some people the wrong way. You can still think that, but just try not to make it so obvious.

JosyJosy · Answer

Work on embracing yourself, self acceptance. And no don't translate it as "I accept myself as a failure and that I'll never be this or that" that isn't self acceptance, that's more self hate than anything.

Let go of what you can't change and start working on what can be changed. Mindset.

Fuentes · Answer

Get you a barber and get a fade or a taper, or something. Also quit worrying about your height lol I know you're gonna think " fuck this nigga, he was blessed with height" bro my dad is shorter then me & he has mad kids and my grandpa we not even gonna talk about his kid count lol and so are my primos and homies and I got short dude Co workers all married with kids. I was getting pussy in High-school and i wasn't always 6'2.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

What @sirenboobzilla said " To improve (and thisnisnofncourse just based off what I can see of you on here): You can be far too negative. You're too focused on your height; believe me there are other ways to stand tall and be noticed. " Do that focus on that. Biggest elephant in the room in my opinion.

Berethor · Answer

Maybe you should be less negative, though how negative you are make you stand out. :)

exitseven · Answer

You seem like a good guy but you have a real problem with your height. It probably is hard not to be as tall as your peers but there is a lot more to people than their height. I bet you have more positive attributes than you think.

ChiTown33 · Answer

To not care so much about what others think of you. There's NEVER going to be a point in life where people won't judge you unfairly. So what? That's on them! Not you. Shine like the person you are.

Dinklex3 · Answer

You come off as hating women and constantly blame height as if you aren't above average and as if people of average height or below don't get women. 👌🏾

Anonymous · Answer

be less into the mgtowy red pill stuff, be less insecure about your heights/stuff and dont always talk about that in half of your posts (and especially not irl) and since i see you always talk about it, lose weight maybe?

msc545 · Answer

I don't know you well enough to really have an opinion, but you seem thoughtful and intelligent. I think if you feel you need or want to do this, then you should. Only you can decide.

Sandeeppingping · Answer

How tall are you? Serious question because I read other answers

KlinkyCoder · Answer

Maybe be a little less negative about your height stature... And I am 5'7 myself, so...

Stoner710 · Answer

Eat more meat

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