How to improve myself?

[Anonymous]

Im sure that this question has been asked a lot of times but I need to ask again. Im 18 ( soon to turn 19) and no girl shown interest in me. There were girls who I approached but I got rejected so I stepped back and decided to let it flow naturally. But even than nothing, and friends around me just get in relationships easily. Girls usually approach my friends or at least give them signals or send them message, but for me it's not like that. Absolutely nothing. I approached girls but still nothing. I'm 6'8 (203cm) and 240 pounds (108kg) so im not ugly physically, I have fresh cut every two weeks and I wear fragrance everyday, I have seen people in worse shape than myself with girls. I'm funny and girls tell me that I'm funny guy, not like making fool of myself or like clown in friends group, genuinely funny or amusing, but there eveything ends. I'm just funny friend nothing more.. I'm social, I know a lot of people and a lot of people now me and respect me (I say this to explain that i'm socially active and putting myself out). Even some friends told me that I look like I have a lot of girls but reality is different. So my question is what to improve, what to change, or I should just wait for it to happen? Honestly, I think like life is passing by and I'm just watching without doing anything, but even when I tried something nothing happened. Don't know what to do.. thank you all.

[Anonymous]

At your age, you're better off focusing on more important things like your life purpose, what you were born to do. I'd see this as a blessing because when you get older, chasing women, relationships and all that come with it won't bring you forward in life at all. In fact, although I had some interest from women at your age, it was in my 30's that the interest really became higher. Even some that rejected me when I was younger were showing interest... I didn't even recognize them at first.

Therefore my advice to you is to forget about chasing women, focus on your life purpose, becoming financially free, getting / securing a property and working a trade. When you discover your life purpose and work on that, it changes you. When women are around that they feel it. When you love life and are on your purpose, you exude this energy that makes others just as excited and women gravitate toward that.

[Asker]

Thank you very much 😊

[lightbulb27]

Clearly you need to make some changes. that's not much to go on and I don't like putting a lot of effort into anons.

Women go for emotional connection, social status, personality, confidence. start there.

[Asker]

Thank you 😊

[Anonymous]

You are focusing in on all the things that don't matter to most women.

[Asker]

On what should I focus?

[Iron_Man]

Join the United States Marine Corps learn something that’s if you’re an American

[Asker]

I'm not but thanks 🙏

[In_Trance]

see a therapist

[Asker]

Thank you for advice 👍