Who do you think you were supposed to be before someone, something, or even you got in your way?

[Anonymous]

Rich woman , wealthy wife, or a spoiled rich prepster partying in the Hamptons.

[DizzyDesii]

If I didn't have my virginity taken before marriage, I def couldve held out til then. Sex is just overrated and i can live off of a good makeout session, getting these tits sucked and being fingered. Had I majored in interior design or fashion, I’d def have moved to NY or ATL and been up there by now. Had I got married at 18, I’d absolutely be damn near on baby number 12 right about now. If the pandemic hadn't hit, I wouldve stuck with my smart money management and not started online shoppin like a nut

[Asker]

Interior design or fashion, is that what you wanted to be?

[Asker]

A designer? I'm surprised at your comment because based on your personality from here I can see you on a reality show like love and hiphop atlanta or la

[Asker]

🤣lol

[DizzyDesii]

Im a goofball and i like to speak slang outside of work, but I am by no means into drama and fighting like girls on that show. Im more of a behind the scenes kinda girl. Even if i still wanted to be a screenwriter or a porn director, its all behind the scenes shit. I dont need the spotlight. When it came to interior design, I like arranging showrooms and drawing blueprints. When it comes to fashion design, I liked drawing the clothes but wouldn't want to sew them up and crap. Watchin reality shows is a guilty pleasure, but I wouldn't dare go on one unless i was the bachelorette

[Asker]

I don't blame you. Lol a lot of chicks these days live for drama and continuous spot light. Not my cup of tea. I feel it's dangerous when everyone knows who you are and a lot about you. I could watch the drama from a distance and get a kick out It but to be in it hell no lol. interior design is dope you can work alone and don't have to deal with people

[DizzyDesii]

I do like being known but just not in the spotlight. I rather be known like a producer or director who still stays behind scenes. I think its dumb when people show off their riches on tv then wonder why they get robbed ot become apart of some bling ring. And yes the goal is to work a job where i dont have to deal with people nor customer service. I’d like to work directly for a boss but away from the people. Each day i get closer to cussing someone out and not caring because i know i can just quit.

[Asker]

Same like a Steven Spielberg (behind the scenes producer) or Quentin Tarantino type.🤣 I'm over people too. I'm looking to go remote. But I'm kinda scared to work remote because I think I'll get caught up in reality TV and not leave the house

[DizzyDesii]

I've done 75%+ remote since 2018. I def be watchin reality shows in the background. Shit im watchin tv rn when i should be workin lmao. When i do go out, its just the usual, movies/casino/restaurant/shopping. But before the pandemic, i’d go out of state more for shopping and vacay

[Asker]

That's my kind of life. That's what I do too🤣

[Anonymous]

A damn normal adult without traumas I keep working on getting rid of, if the person who my parents paid to take care of me didn't abuse me. I did several damage to my body because as a kid and teenager I didn't know how to handle what happened and how it made me feel. If it wasn't for that I would have the perfect life I'm working to get.

[Asker]

I think everyone has trauma today. Look at the world it's a mess. You're not alone. Do you see a therapist?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I was in treatment with a psychologist and a psychiatrist from 15 to 18 in a clinic with high reputation, that was the worst mistake, I fucked up in so many ways with the help and approval of those "professionals", my treatment was a waste of time, always getting more far from getting better, and definitely a waste of money. During quarantine with the sudden lockdown I had to stop the appointments and that's when I realized only I can heal myself.

[NathanDavis]

the Quarterback for the Green Bay Packers...

but then I took an arrow to the knee...

[Asker]

Wow, did you play football in high school or college?

[NathanDavis]

both

[20yearsolder]

I was definitely supposed to be a rich woman

[Asker]

A woman? 🤣what!!

[20yearsolder]

I was making a joke, you only put up female options

[Phoenix98]

Im exactly who I’m supposed to be.