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You know that they were perfect and would keep you happy but you were not ready to go down with them and you lost them slowly. you knew that were right person for you but the time was damn wrong.
Yes, been there done that.
I got my heart broken last time so bad with rejection that I became like a turtle, trapped in a shell, i mean hiding in a shell.
Then at my local burger joint, I get a heart on my receit from the counter girl. I gave her no chances to get anywhere close to my life. I started avoiding that restaurant, then met her again in another restaurant where her first reaction to me avoiding her was that she was worried about me.
Now she works or studies somewhere else. She may have quit to give me the privacy I signalled her.
She may have liked me for real and I started to like her too but I wasn't over the heartbreaker before her so I protected my feelings from possible rejection.
Yes, I can attest to that, I went around for five years with a girl, I always knew she was perfect, but I was scared to commit because of my last relationship. That one was a 12 year nightmare. But I always feel I did that girl wrong, she was the best girl I ever met and even probably the best looking and best fuck too. I guess I'm really a big pussy in all my big guy bullshit. But guess I was still too scared at that time.
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MOST CERTAINLY.
He was older than me. I caught him on his way out so to speak. He also didn't have enough lifetimes to have learned one to two crucial life lessons, which I feel like I could've helped him with... had I grown up with him. For the mere sake of being an outlet, from edgy home life, and also offering the perspective I have had.
So the things he has to live with are what he chooses to live with. He could get it at any time, maybe even before his passing. Maybe never.
He wasn't someone I dated while we were both young. I'm not trying to be rude, but I wouldn't even want to date as an old lady, either.
Being old isn't muy caliente for anybody lol So it's just unfortunate that we grew up in different times, and weren't together earlier in both our lives.
I believe he could have been the one for me. He wasn't my ideal, but we laughed... a LOT together... and we were able to be with each other in presence- some of the time.
If he was 'the one,' then he was the right person, just the wrong time..
Have I seen others that seemed right? Somewhat, but we didn't actually vibe together as he and I did. When we were together.. we actually vibed. (When he wasn't too horny smh lol).
I definitely felt that way about my last ex but now? Now I feel maybe I was wrong to think he was the right guy. He was a good person but just not right for me. After being away for months... I start seeing things which I didn't see before, I started realising we belonged together. If we belonged together we wouldn't have let each other go no matter what.
Yes 🙌 more than once. Like why?
The situation I am in now is complicated. She is the right person, but the timing is a little off.
I have been divorced 2 years after 18 years of H E double hockey sticks.
Even 20 years ago, I was cool with not being in a relationship. Fate has a way of bringing two people together. So I dated my ex wife for too short of a time before getting engaged.
So fast forward to today and I have been happy being alone these last two years. That being said, I was frequenting a blood plasma donation center since October of 2022 when I got to know a phlebotomist in her mid twenties. After sometime I offered to give her my number and she handed me her phone. I called my number. Now we had traded numbers. She is separated from her husband and has a 1 year old daughter now.
It is weird how this is playing out, she is of course not ready for us to date yet. Here is the strange part. I have been texting her but it has all been one sided. I have been giving her enough information about who I am, as well as making up humorous stories to send her, and now I am going through the shit testing phase. She has been blocking me, unblocking me long enough to see if I loose my shit. I text again, joke about her blocking me, send another funny story, then I get blocked again. Don’t get me wrong, I have not been blowing up her phone or double texting her. I space it all out if time. I joked with her to show it blocking me hasn’t phased me. Her blocking me and unblocking me is her way of communicating that she is interested and to keep me thinking about her. She isn’t the sort to do this to me out of disrespect. If she had lost interest, that would be the only text that she would send.
I am not dating anyone else, and if something were to change in her life; I wouldn’t run out in front of a semi if it doesn’t work out. I get what’s happening in her life and why I text her funny stories to keep her mood up.
So I can patiently wait until the time is right for her. If it doesn’t work out, at least she knows I cared.
As I said, a strange situation. But fun.
That's my life LOL it doesn't matter what I do something comes up and it's only for a few days or whatever but there's always something that comes up and I neglect or something happens where I can't communicate there's always something and it's only for like a couple days or maybe even a week but it's stupid thing you know you can't get into your phone to get the phone number because you don't have your phone you dropped your phone into the flood that was going on you Let somebody borrow your phone like a nephew and he is not being responsible so that makes me know responsible it's stupid stuff like that
Happens to all of us at some point in time, sadly. Had a 'girl-friend' at work,... BUT I had a girlfriend, outside of work... and... she had a boyfriend... outside of work.
Girl-at-work... was very attractive and sexually inquisitive... mid twenties, I think, and I was 33. We had a sexual interlude at work in her office, and more intimate in her car after work... I was nuts about her, but her relationship with her boyfriend was long-term, and he did not seem to want to make it permanent. (I guess he was 'afraid' of her sexual curiosity)
I think we MAY have been a match, but it sure was the wrong time to find out... too late for both of us. I left the company and moved to CA some time later.
Yeah, 2.5 years ago I met the first man I ever fell in love with and I just knew he was going to be my husband. I don’t know why, I just knew we’d always end up together. But he had plans to move to another country, was going through feelings of hurt from a previous relationship and I was very insecure and young-minded and mentally a mess. 2.5 years later, after a year of back and forth and another year of completely not talking or seeing each other, we found our way back to each other and have the best relationship I could ever imagine (: I know he’ll be my husband in due time like I always did.
There was a waitress from a local restaurant near my house that was cute like her 20's. I would always go and she would always see me and after going mostly every week, she knew the type of drink I wanted. She even bought me my drink one time with me ordering it which surptme. She seemed like the type of that girl that I am into though I was in my 30's and she looked like she was in high school or college. She seemed cool and friendly and eventually left the restaurant a few years ago. I wouldn't date a waitress cause they probably flirt with every guy no matter how he looks like.
No, not really. Never been in that situation before.
Never happens, if it was meant to be, nothing could stop it. If you say it's the wrong timing, you're just trying to get out of the commitment or relationship you have with them. If they were perfect for you, nothing would stop you from pursuing them.
Yes. I was madly in love with a coworker who, at the time, did not want a relationship. Fast forward a few years, I am married with kids and the same coworker is ready. She interjected herself into my life and my marriage. She knew it was wrong but couldnt break herself away and in the end she really screwed up my life. She ended up resigning. I often feel she's exactly as you put it, we click and attract in every way but the timing was all wrong.
Yes, kinda. I wasn't really ready to date but this girl made me feel like I could. She was so kind and I felt very comfortable around her which was odd for me. We got along really well and spent a lot of time together. She made me feel like I could date. The 'wrong time' part of this situation is that she wasn't single. I've had interest from other single people but they aren't her. She was the right person.
Yes. I've also been the right person for the wrong person, sadly. Glad it turned out to be "right time, right person" eventually. Patience and having faith is key.
Just once. And as @SnowedIn described, it was soul crushing.
Yep, more than once.
Mmmm, mmmmm.
Regrets, yeah, I have some.
Not really
But I know I'm always the wrong person at the wrong time.
All the time, hard to strike a balance of a mature woman in late 20s to early 30/ while also having youth, it feels like pick your poison.
Finding a young intelligent woman for me is difficult 🥲
Wrong time certainly but right person? That you will never know. Because of the bad timing.
100 percent yes and when you finally figure that out it is crushing
I think so.. but only time will tell if they are the right person or not.
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