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Have you ever met the right person at the wrong time?

I'm 26 and I've fallen head over heels with a 38 year old man. I knew of him before I met him and always knew he was the one but he didn't actually know me as odd as that may sound.

Basically he was a big pop star around 2009ish in some parts of Europe. He wasn't so popular or well known in my country but i remember seeing him on my tv when I was in my early teens and falling in love immediately. Obviously over the years i saw this more as a embarrassing celebrity crush and told myself that I'd actually never meet this guy and it be creepy to go find him.

We both met other people and dating around having only heart break.

Unintentionally one day I got to stay in a hotel for a 5 day conference with my work. I saw him talk through the lobby as I was sitting with friends and my heart started pounding. No one else knew who he was as his fame has kinda died down now and he was never really famous in my country.

Everyone had wondered why I looked so freaked out and I just went in to the toilet to claim myself down.

I couldn't stop thinking about seeing him again and hopefully not being as embarrassing.

The next day I go to breakfast buffet and I see him next too me. I just quietly asked him if he was who I thought he was and he smiled and said yes. We got talking and after my nerves went. He asked if he could sit with me as he had his breakfast as he was all by himself and gets lonely on these trips. He told me he was in the uk for a show and if I find the time I should come.

I felt like a stupid giddy little 13 year old again. He seemed super impressed by me and what I've achieved when I told him what I do for a job and put he inspired me.

Everyone from my work wanted to know why I was talking to this guy and I just lied and said he was a old friend.

I went to his show and after he followed me on insta.

Ever since we've been meeting up whenever we're both in the same area. Just as friends until recently. I went to a roof top bar with him alone and...

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He tried kissing me. the whole day before this happened he'd been super flirty with me and touchy.

He said "were have you been my whole life?" He apologised for trying to kiss me and referred to him as a "old fool" . I said to him but I was flattered it was just caught me off guard. He said we should stop seeing each other as he's too old for me and will only mess me up like he's been messed up.

I know this sounds like utter bs but I've been keeping it a secret from everyone
Have you ever met the right person at the wrong time?
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