Have you ever had the right person, wrong time?

[Anonymous]

I am currently having this problem.

me and a girl I’ve known for 5 years now both admitted we’ve had feelings for eachother.
We have great chemistry just everything is great.

but she is going through a lot in her personal life and that’s why we can’t happen right now.

but it feels so weird

any advice on how to navigate this?

[DishLady]

Yeah. Twice. Once bc I was too young and once bc I was too old. Oh… well…

https://youtu.be/cINo6fXPmDY?si=ChbavOEBjP8Uf2WD

[SphynxUK]

Sort of. I feel he was too young at almost 20, as I was in a different life stage at 26 with a young child.
Thing is, many moons later this almost 7 years age gap is nothing.
We did reconnect by chance on a random app a few years ago and I didn’t dare state any feelings when I felt him testing the water, as I had too much going on in life and 1. Didn’t want drag him into it, 2. Was too scared of a relationship after my last one.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Probably countless times I've come across hot women, yet I've had other things 😊 then Covid - then time flew by and the 20s prime was over - I have no misgivings that "time flew by" lol 😂 😆

[RingOfFire]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/RuiACAsx7KA

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[RingOfFire]

https://youtu.be/OFpVCCzaVwY?si=iinkOSKIo8NKxTEq

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the *right person, wrong time* dilemma can feel like trying to solve a romantic puzzle with pieces that don't quite fit. It's like falling in love in a movie when the credits are already rolling. Continue to support her as a friend. Be patient, but don’t put your life on hold. Timing might be tricky, but if it's meant to be, the universe will eventually align those romantic stars for you. Keep the chemistry alive and stay hopeful! ✨💕

[jennifer_bloom]

I liked my boyfriend 18 years ago, but he thought I was too childish and rigid in my adaptation to rules, as well as a little neurotic and volatile. He thought I was immature and not able to handle life as a wife and mother.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Yes,

Had a friends with benefits where we just really connected on a surreal level. We were inseparable for a few months, but she had a psycho ex who couldn't let go, and he stalked us both for the last month of it and had started making dire threats which she felt he was capable of. She eventually caved to his threats and went back to him, clearly devastated by the choice, but she felt that she was sacrificing her own happiness for my well-being.

I wasn't happy about it, but didn't begrudge her, the dude was a total violent psychopath.

[NotLongKindaGirthy]

Honestly, I think "Right person wrong time" is something people say when they want to reject someone in a nice way.

[exitseven]

Yes, a couple of times. I met somebody who was just about to go away to college.

[jamesgoldman]

Sure, I was in a good relationship when someone also good told me they loved me

[Anonymous]

Nope, I never had the right person, no girl wanted me (or at least - no girl that I liked).