Have you ever met the right person at the wrong time?

[_Just_A_girl_]

Go find them.

[laurieluvsit]

I went to a party and an ex from high school was there who wanted to get back together with me badly and I felt similar.

He was with a band that was playing that night. Our eyes connected and he started walking toward me. Just then the guy that I was supposed to meet there walked up behind me so my ex, with a very dejected look on his face, turned around and went back to the band.

He moved away after that and I never saw him again. I keep thinking that if my date hadn't gotten there right at that moment maybe I would have gotten back together with him.

[Anonymous]

Had the strongest connection to a stranger ever. Even my bestie who thinks no one deserves me called him my soulmate.
We had an unforgettable evening (no sex) where we just couldn't get bored of each other and were supposed to meet the next week. This was on a Wednesday, on the Friday of that week corona laws started and he had to leave the country for his within a week. We didn't share numbers so I ever heard of him since.
He's still on my mind.

[exitseven]

I knew a girl that basically came right out and told me she wanted to go out with me. I always thought she was nice but the problem was she was going to a different college in a couple of months and it was a place that was so far away I wouldn't be able to drive there. I ended up taking a pass on the whole thing.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Hellraiser1984]

Yes, she was my therapist and we couldn't date. I didn't want her to get in trouble and I did the wrong thing by pushing her away. We should have talked it over. I loved her. She had feelings for me too. Now I'll never see her again. Fucking laws. I miss her everyday and I feel extremely guilty.

[DermalPunch]

All you had to do was get a different therapist.

[Hellraiser1984]

@DermalPunch nope. The law is we cannot be with each other until 5 years have passed and there's paperwork involved. Plus she was engaged the whole time and never told me. I walked out of the office after a med appointment and saw them getting in their car. She was blowing me kisses from the car with him in it. I looked her up online and saw their announcement. She was all over me in the office. Slut.

[DermalPunch]

Reprehensible behaviour. Thatbis so mentally and emotionally abusive. She has no business being a therapist.

[Hellraiser1984]

@DermalPunch I attempted suicide because of her. Not looking for pity. Just stating my ordeal in response to your reply of her behavior.

[DermalPunch]

I am really glad you pulled through that and I hope you will never be in such a desperate place in your life ever again. She'll get hers.

[20yearsolder]

I have, I had an affair. If I weren't already married and we had met and we were both single, I would be with her right now

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, I don't know. Because I didn't know anything about the person. But yeah, there have been times when I've seen a really hot girl but I chose not to talk to her because I was in a bad mood and I just didn't gaf.

[humanearth]

Yeah, but I didn't know that they liked me. Till a few years later. That when I was with someone else

[DermalPunch]

The right person is the right person no matter what. The whole time thing is an excuse.

[boggboss]

Feel people claim for the time being wrong because they are not willing to out in the work for it too work

[Adam1978]

How would I know, I certainly meet women at the wrong times, but I can't say if they where right for me.

[ChrisMaster69]

Lol yeah had to have a ironic laugh at the question.

very much how fate tends to bugger things around.

[Phoenix-gb]

Doesn't matter if I've ever felt someone was the right person as I've never been the right person for anyone else.

[slatyb]

That's happened to me a lot. I met many lovely women when I was young but my head was up my ass.

[Heartache0405]

I’ve met a lot of wrong people at the right time unfortunately. But that ended 7 years ago.

[TacosRAwesome]

Kinda. Unfortunately I only meet people I kinda like while I'm taken. It's like where are you guys when I'm single.

[skytatoe]

Yeah bigtime. Incredible person, 10/10 marriage material. Perfect at least in my book. But she was taken and I didn't pursue it.

[driven159]

You don't really know if they were the right person unless you spend a lot of time with them but if it was at a wrong time, you will never know could just be easily could have turned out bad

[Passion_Devil]

I have met some great guys in the past. If they were The Right person, I will never know.

[IveGotNoName]

If it's the right person the time can't be "wrong"..

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Wish I could.
She's states away now and thinks I'm a complete psychopath.

[Iron_Man]

I’m not so sure I would have to think hard about that

[IsoUser]

To be perfectly honest Yes I have but I am not a stalker so it inevitably is what it is.

[Clyde_123]

Nope. The right person at wrong time is still a wrong person.

[RawIronhide]

It doesn't work that way unfortunately.

[_Just_A_girl_]

Apperantly others disagree

[RawIronhide]

Maybe they're correct. Perhaps they haven't learned that the two can't be true together. If there's a right person it would've worked at any point in time.

[Chlo3_2001]

Still waiting on the right guy.

[Flower7]

I’ve never met the right person, in general.

[SlothySlob]

As in, for a relationship?

[zagor]

Yep. And would have no idea where they are now.

[_Just_A_girl_]

Hello fb

[_Just_A_girl_]

Phonebook?

[zagor]

The trouble is women may have changed their names if they were ever married.

Also, for some reason I tend to forget girls' last names much more readily than those of guys.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, I haven't met the right person at all yet.

[jahaims]

If I met the right person then it's the right time

[In_Trance]

Everything happens at the right time.

[Jltakk]

Exactly

[pixie215]

yes.

[whirled_up_girl]

Yep!

[sheikalana]

Yes.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Maybe

[MrtoddsWildRide]

More than one

[Anonymous]

I’m single for life