Creepy roommate?

Question

Hey guys

I was looking for a new home and found a flate to share with a persian man. I don't know his age.. I felt very uncomfortable when I went visiting, so I blocked him the other day he tried to call me to sign the renting papers with him.

Now I wanna know what you guys think, because in my opinion that isn't normal.

-He wanted to message me

-He asked me if im still a virgin

-He talked about sex all the time how he only likes it when feelings are involved

-He wanted to touch my ass while walking beside me

-He hugged me randomly from behind and sniffed my hair

-He told me all the time how pretty I am

-He commented how beautiful my curves are

-He said I would be a princess in his house and he would do anything for ne

-He told me twice that I shouldn't tell anything about him my parents

RangerBlue22 · Accepted Answer

If he really did all this and your not exaggerating (nor encouraged) his behavior then you mostly did the right thing.

I say “mostly” because women often have this very misguided notion that ghosting/blocking someone sends the message to the guy about what he is doing is wrong.

For your example I can completely understand why this guy was ghosted/blocked. But more often than not women ghost guys for much lesser offenses or worse just miscommunications.

The right thing to do is first send a brief message/dm that you didn’t appreciate his behavior and it made you uncomfortable THEN block them.

You can block them right away after sending the message if you are afraid of the response. But at least the guy understands what he did wrong and where you stand. This will help guys who unintentionally misbehave think twice about their actions in the future.

Anyway this guy definitely crossed the line. So I get why you did this. But seriously I wonder how often women speak up to him vs. ignore/block him. He probably thinks it’s a “you problem” vs. a “him problem” since he got blocked with no explanation. He will likely continue his same behavior towards others.