What advice would you give a woman who's turning 24?

[Paulalove98]

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I don't party at all or drink alcohol, absolutely hate smoking and drugs. I've become more social as i got older and im aware if i want to have children and find a partner i should do it while im young not after im 30 which is the goal but i just struggle a little with shyness approaching a cute guy face to face but i feel I've progressed a bit.

[NathanDavis]

forget about turning 24

because you will end up Forever Worried...

about also turning 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33 and so on...

[Paulalove98]

True true. Instead i suppose just exhale the beauty of life and LIVE lol.

[NathanDavis]

exactly, to live in the moment...

[MCheetah]

Party time is over. No more loose sex and hookups. It's time to start finding a husband. You've got six to eight years, max.

[Paulalove98]

I dont party or drink, stopped hooking up completely so am i an exception? Yes im aware. I do NOT want to even be pregnant after 32 or 33 at the latest but for reals i want a baby at 27-31. I am talking to people and putting myself out there.

[Paulalove98]

The goal here is def a husband not a friends with benefits bs or hookup. My mom met my dad at 38 but times have changed for sure... I've read and seen so much lol.

[MCheetah]

You are an exception to the typical 24 year old female your age.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Stop that "hitting the wall" bs, its only something made up by mgtow.

[Paulalove98]

I think its some karens who ruin that. My sister is past her 30s and in her early 40s, she's 43 and she got divorced after her 3 kids but she didn't turn bitter or wine about it instead she worked towards her goals and she found love just last year at the age of 42. Just because some women bitch and wine about stuff doesn't mean all of them do as they get older. I think for me im a chill person and i respect people as long as they give me the same and as long as they don't hurt my family or friends. Like i said i think"hitting the wall" contributes if the girls party hard and sleep around constantly in their 20s and wait on purpose till 30 to find a man but i don't do any of that. Im just looking for someone who wants a relationship not just sex.

[AngelOfLight258]

Make every second count because time is going to fly faster and faster going forward.

[leighbee]

Me next year lol and I have no clue either 💀😂

[Paulalove98]

23 for me was a year of growth for sure and some lessons since im reflecting on my last 8 days of it lol. Also don't worry were both still young and growing:)

[leighbee]

My 20's have gotten worse lol and happy early birthday 🎂

[Baseballgem4for4]

Start looking for a husband I’m not saying get married or settle for the guy your with. I’m just saying start looking while your still young and have your looks. Start thinking about what you want

[Paulalove98]

True. I am talking to people so that's a start huh? People also tell me i look younger than my age lol

[Paulalove98]

I also have good genes so im not too worried about it but i definitely want to have a family way before the age of 35. Late 20s to early 30s is when id like a baby but yes im looking for something long term!

[Baseballgem4for4]

That’s great to hear!! Look for the guy that meets your criteria that checks all the important boxes, find that guy and then just be soooo good that he can’t say no to you. I have those genes too my mom is 39 every one thinks she’s in her 20s she had to pick me up from school once when I was in high school and one of the administrators asked her why she wasn’t in class. It’s good genes!

[Baseballgem4for4]

Hey I wanted to ask you you liked my comment in the other question when we were talking about age gap dating. My mom is 39 and she’s been dating my friend. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders so I wanted your opinion. What do you think of it? Do you think it can work?

[Paulalove98]

I totally understand where you are coming from. Some women party hard in their 20s and purposely on fault wait till 30s to find a man then it's much harder especially these days. My mom met my dad when she was 38 but back then the times were much different for sure. I definitely do not wanna be pregnant after 35 not even after 33 at the latest or searching at 30. My friend is 33 and met her fiance at the age of 25. I know these things come naturally but to have an idea of what i want now does matter and i can say im not a girl who parties or drinks and i want to get married and have a family someday. It's just meeting a guy who doesn't only want sex nowadays but i have been coming out of my shell when im in public or at work so i say that's a good sign! And yessss! Great genes are a blessing lol.

[PositiveFlight]

Enjoy every day. Be grateful for every day. Be kind to yourself. The best years are yet to come

[PositiveFlight]

In reply to your update. I think that’s very admirable that you don’t party, smoke, drink, or do drugs. I also think it’s very admirable that you want children from the sounds of it. Those are becoming rare qualities now days in this crazy world. They are very valuable qualities. Natural womanhood and motherhood is probably the most valuable trait or set of traits that humanity can value or protect. Also, there isn’t a thing wrong with some shyness. It goes to show that you aren’t arrogant or stuck on yourself. Be a simple and sweet woman. Be kind. Smile. But always remember your value and worth too. Be self confident and assertive enough to go out and get what you desire in life. It’s worth it, 😊 seize the moment!

[Still-alive]

Don't sweat the small stuff. just focus on your career or getting your career in order and if you happen to meet a guy you feel could be your 'soulmate' or something then go for it. otherwise yeah just keep on improving yourself.

[athelete_7]

Dont fuck lot of guys unless u really wanna. Dont get played by guys. Get goal oriented value ur family. Be grateful of the skills u have. Value someone who ever adds to ur peace not chaos.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

To slow down. Life doesn't end with 30. Dont pressure to do everything cool in your 20s.

Also dont ruin your reputation

[slatyb]

Think about what you want your life to be like when you are 25, 27, 30, 40, and do the things that will make it happen.

[BJP21]

Im from California... Young lady we gonna have a long talk. LOL

[Anonymous]

I would tell her to shut up about her 24th birthday. How many days is it now? Four or five until your birthday. Seems like a daily update

[Paulalove98]

8 days away.

[Guardian45]

Explore all the opportunities you can, cuz you will NEVER be 24 again!

[LimitedBenefits101]

You have 6 more years to enjoy life b4 you hit 30 aka the wall 🤷

[Paulalove98]

Think mostly karens are the ones who hit it or girls who constantly party but okay. I dont do any of that or have a bitchy attitude.

[jimmy2]

Very still young keep having fun at 30 that when you turn into a real adult

[Summeroflove]

I would say be excited for your birthday

[diego_md]

don't fart too much 🤣🤣

[BLP11520]

Relax and don't get to serious yet.

[BLP11520]

I will be 63 in 35 days everything still works

[Debbie14217]

keep going

[legalboxers]

enjoy life!

[CubaPirate]

Get a hobby