I'm 20 she's 27

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Is this too old, I mean when we first met I thought she was 19.  she looks my age which is amazing for her, but once I found out she was 27 I was like woah do I have a shot ha.  Well we have talked and flirted a lot in class andi get the feeling that were developing more then a friendship.  The signs are def. their, touching, eye contact body language blah blah blah.  But the only thing that's sord of holding me back is the fact that I'm 20 and she is 27 haha.  Jst want to get your thoughts on this.  7 Year difference to far apart to ask for a date?

pointyourtoe · Accepted Answer

I'm 19 and the guy was 26, I really liked him, and I always suspected he was watching me too but nothing really happened until we didn't work together. When I finally found out he felt the same about me I was ecstatic, but as we talked more even though we are both in college right now, we are just in two completely different places in our lives. He has done a lot of things I haven't and don't care to and he wants something a lot more casual than I do. So basically it's not so much about the age difference as it is about where you are in life and what you want out of a relationship. Hope that helps :)

darlanoy0510 · Accepted Answer

Wow usually I find that women have more problem with dating younger guys. lol  well in your case I think she is worry too that you are too young for her.  if you think you are mature enough for her then go for it.  Just remember that not all women around this age look to settle down OK. IIf you really think she is a great person and want to get to know her then go for it. Do you think she is going to date you?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Age doesn't matter when it comes to love. I would say jjust go with it. Don't worry about the age difference. Honestly, it's stupid to have the age difference as a factor not to have a relationship with someone you like. Go for it:)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Oi! Its not that big a deal really. I mean when yous like, 50 or wot ever, she'll be like, 57.

Me Lady is a good bit older than me, she don't even want to have babies an all dat, just yet.not that I's against the idea. But I'd have to quit me job of male stripper than, init? Get a proper job, at like Burger King or wotever.

Da good news is you probably won't have to teach her how to do a proper BJ, because she probably been with like, 22 blokes.

WeaponZero · Accepted Answer

Nothing wrong with it at all if she's ok with it, in all likelihood there isn't much bad that will happen on your end, but as far as with her, she's at a different phase in life than you are and she's less likely to change now.  You're still liable to go thru a lot of changes and in a while become someone she doesn't wanna be with.  Go for it and enjoy it but don't have any long term expectations.

tex151 · Answer

no that's not to old man I dated a girl who was 36 I'm 25, I went to a bar the other night made out with a 40 year old woman, my opinion is that older women know what that they want and they don't play games, they will call you up and say come over.

wally · Answer

it depend on you guys if you want to make a big deal of age , if not try to see what her intention of this whole thing and where she want to go in this dating relationship I don't know .

aigbeshady · Answer

well  everyone usually say "age is nothing but a number" but ill say go for it. don't get your hopes too high, she might like flirting with you so you'll do her homework

shadowsex001 · Answer

Age doesn't mean any thing,my wife is ten years older then me and we've been together 17 years

ncstrike · Answer

dude its only a number. if you love her nothing else should matter. just go for it

Anonymous · Answer

It really depends on the person however her being 27 she is probably looking to settle down and most likely be possessive towards you

Anonymous · Answer

Not at all. Age is nothing more than a number.

I'm 20 she's 27

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